Why do men see me as a sex object

Date: 13-07-2010 8:30 pm (13 years ago) | Author: sensational girl
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- at 13-07-2010 08:30 PM (13 years ago)
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AM FALLING IN LOVE WITH THESE GUY BUT HE IS MARRIED AND WE LIKE EACH OTHER.....WEN I TRY TO FLIRT WITH HIM, TRYING TO KNOW IS INTENSION HE SAID ITS JUST PHYSICAL ACTRATION AND IS NOT MY FIRST TIME OF HEARING THESE, BUT IT HURT ME I JUST WANT TO KNOW Y MEN SEE ME AS A SEX OBJECT..........

Posted: at 13-07-2010 08:30 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
- qunodinga at 13-07-2010 08:34 PM (13 years ago)
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better for seeking solution now before its late:
Posted: at 13-07-2010 08:34 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 13-07-2010 08:35 PM (13 years ago)
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Why are you flirting around with married men,when a lot of single guys are available out there? Huh?

Posted: at 13-07-2010 08:35 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- OB3ICE at 13-07-2010 08:37 PM (13 years ago)
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and you named yourself sexy23

Posted: at 13-07-2010 08:37 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 13-07-2010 08:43 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sexy23 on 13-07-2010 08:30 PM
AM FALLING IN LOVE WITH THESE GUY BUT HE IS MARRIED AND WE LIKE EACH OTHER.....WEN I TRY TO FLIRT WITH HIM, TRYING TO KNOW IS INTENSION HE SAID ITS JUST PHYSICAL ACTRATION AND IS NOT MY FIRST TIME OF HEARING THESE, BUT IT HURT ME I JUST WANT TO KNOW Y MEN SEE ME AS A SEX OBJECT..........

Are U ok at all? Did U even read what U wrote here? U are falling in love with a married man... U try to flirt with him... Are U ok at all?
Posted: at 13-07-2010 08:43 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- qunodinga at 13-07-2010 08:48 PM (13 years ago)
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I think she is confused......from her statement she's been used and dumped....now needs advice...
Posted: at 13-07-2010 08:48 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Maxodus at 13-07-2010 09:05 PM (13 years ago)
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Maybe the problem with you is that you have big eye and long throat, maybe you dont give attention to those guys who like you but those who have the luxury you want
Posted: at 13-07-2010 09:05 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Kennee at 13-07-2010 09:13 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sexy23 on 13-07-2010 08:30 PM
AM FALLING IN LOVE WITH THESE GUY BUT HE IS MARRIED AND WE LIKE EACH OTHER.....WEN I TRY TO FLIRT WITH HIM, TRYING TO KNOW IS INTENSION HE SAID ITS JUST PHYSICAL ACTRATION AND IS NOT MY FIRST TIME OF HEARING THESE, BUT IT HURT ME I JUST WANT TO KNOW Y MEN SEE ME AS A SEX OBJECT..........

All Depends on yur way of relating with dem

All Men can't see yu d Same way unless yu're the Cause of it

So, yu're the one dat makes it happen dat way

Posted: at 13-07-2010 09:13 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Kennee at 13-07-2010 09:14 PM (13 years ago)
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Secondly, how can yu expect a Married 2 Take yu Seriously?

Are yu sure yu're up 2 23?

Yu sound like a 15-yr-old

Posted: at 13-07-2010 09:14 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sexy23 at 13-07-2010 09:30 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 13-07-2010 08:43 PM
Quote from: sexy23 on 13-07-2010 08:30 PM
AM FALLING IN LOVE WITH THESE GUY BUT HE IS MARRIED AND WE LIKE EACH OTHER.....WEN I TRY TO FLIRT WITH HIM, TRYING TO KNOW IS INTENSION HE SAID ITS JUST PHYSICAL ACTRATION AND IS NOT MY FIRST TIME OF HEARING THESE, BUT IT HURT ME I JUST WANT TO KNOW Y MEN SEE ME AS A SEX OBJECT..........

Are U ok at all? Did U even read what U wrote here? U are falling in love with a married man... U try to flirt with him... Are U ok at all?
  I AM  PERFERTLY OK !!!!FLIRT MEANS SO MANY THINGS NOTHING HAS EVEN HAPPEN BETWEEN US SO I NO WAT AM DOING. I HAVE VOWED NEVER TO HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH MARRIED MEN I HAD AN EXPERIENCE IN LIFE THAT I WILL NEVER FORGET SO PLEASE ALL I NEED IS ADVICE NOT INSULT.... EMOTION CAN BE CONTROL U CAN FALL IN LOVE ,THINGS LIKE DAT HAPPEN EVEN WEN U DONT EXPECT...
Posted: at 13-07-2010 09:30 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Pires07 at 13-07-2010 09:33 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sexy23 on 13-07-2010 08:30 PM
AM FALLING IN LOVE WITH THESE GUY BUT HE IS MARRIED AND WE LIKE EACH OTHER.....WEN I TRY TO FLIRT WITH HIM, TRYING TO KNOW IS INTENSION HE SAID ITS JUST PHYSICAL ACTRATION AND IS NOT MY FIRST TIME OF HEARING THESE, BUT IT HURT ME I JUST WANT TO KNOW Y MEN SEE ME AS A SEX OBJECT..........
at times i dunno how u gurls reason, sorry no hard feelings. what were u expecting from him? Divorce his wife and take u in? Huh? mshwwww  ofcourse he'll see u as a s3x object Tongue

Posted: at 13-07-2010 09:33 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sexy23 at 13-07-2010 09:36 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: keuro on 13-07-2010 09:13 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-07-2010 08:35 PM
Why are you flirting around with married men,when a lot of single guys are available out there? Huh?
Grin Grin
  SORRY BUT SINGLE GUYS IN MY COUNTRY A WORST THAN SAND IN GARRI....  IS ALL PART EXPERIENCE.
Posted: at 13-07-2010 09:36 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Beauti4 at 13-07-2010 09:38 PM (13 years ago)
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the way u present your outter-ward and inner-ward will determine wat others will say about u. forget about your outter beautiful shape, try to have higher self-esteem mentally and spiritually.  the mind of a man is always full of million of words when they see ladies but the way u presented yourself might assist them to approach u accordin wat they see. and most of these pple are always players, a serious guy wont look at u like that. but come to think of it, why are u over burdenin yourself over a married man? well, just change your style of walk, we may want to dress like Babyphat, tyra bank, halle belle, etc...but we can't b like them. just create your own special uniqueness and always b yourself. and dont even dress to please anyone. The reall us is reveal when no one is lookin.
Posted: at 13-07-2010 09:38 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 13-07-2010 09:39 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sexy23 on 13-07-2010 09:36 PM
Quote from: keuro on 13-07-2010 09:13 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-07-2010 08:35 PM
Why are you flirting around with married men,when a lot of single guys are available out there? Huh?
Grin Grin
  SORRY BUT SINGLE GUYS IN MY COUNTRY A WORST THAN SAND IN GARRI....  IS ALL PART EXPERIENCE.

Hope you're aware that you're messing with your life,and the consequences can be disastrous for the both parts!

Posted: at 13-07-2010 09:39 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- black_samurai at 13-07-2010 09:40 PM (13 years ago)
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But.... whats wrong with some of our sisters sef?
What do you expect from him? Take you in as a second wife? Divorce and marry you? Just ask yourself, where exactly do you fit in the picture for seriousness sake?

Posted: at 13-07-2010 09:40 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- black_samurai at 13-07-2010 09:41 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sexy23 on 13-07-2010 09:36 PM
Quote from: keuro on 13-07-2010 09:13 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-07-2010 08:35 PM
Why are you flirting around with married men,when a lot of single guys are available out there? Huh?
Grin Grin
  SORRY BUT SINGLE GUYS IN MY COUNTRY A WORST THAN SAND IN GARRI....  IS ALL PART EXPERIENCE.


Non ci posso credere!

Posted: at 13-07-2010 09:41 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- tambwettt at 13-07-2010 09:43 PM (13 years ago)
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this is too sick
Posted: at 13-07-2010 09:43 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- frenzeecool_08 at 13-07-2010 09:52 PM (13 years ago)
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my advice is u go for a single guy like you. A married man will definitely see u as a sex obj
Posted: at 13-07-2010 09:52 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kennee at 13-07-2010 09:54 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sexy23 on 13-07-2010 09:36 PM
Quote from: keuro on 13-07-2010 09:13 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-07-2010 08:35 PM
Why are you flirting around with married men,when a lot of single guys are available out there? Huh?
Grin Grin
  SORRY BUT SINGLE GUYS IN MY COUNTRY A WORST THAN SAND IN GARRI....  IS ALL PART EXPERIENCE.

The way yu're going yu're Definitely gonna end up as a 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th, 6th, 7th or 8th wife to one Pot-bellied Chief

Posted: at 13-07-2010 09:54 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ceejay58 at 14-07-2010 12:59 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sexy23 on 13-07-2010 08:30 PM
AM FALLING IN LOVE WITH THESE GUY BUT HE IS MARRIED AND WE LIKE EACH OTHER.....WEN I TRY TO FLIRT WITH HIM, TRYING TO KNOW IS INTENSION HE SAID ITS JUST PHYSICAL ACTRATION AND IS NOT MY FIRST TIME OF HEARING THESE, BUT IT HURT ME I JUST WANT TO KNOW Y MEN SEE ME AS A SEX OBJECT..........

why wont they view u in such a way when all u do is flirt with married men.

i don't know any right thinking man with wife and kids at home who would take u seriously.
hissssssssssssssssss
Posted: at 14-07-2010 12:59 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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