cheating or not ?

Date: 16-07-2010 6:34 pm (14 years ago) | Author: katrien
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- at 16-07-2010 06:34 PM (14 years ago)
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There is a couple and they hav bin married
for some years now, there has never bin cheating or any problems...

But since a couple of months d guy go to red light district
not for phyuk, or anythin... just he go to d same woman every week
to talk abt all kinda things....

So gals, cud u accept ur man to do such thing, is it cheating ?
Guys, wud u ?

Posted: at 16-07-2010 06:34 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- bittersweet at 16-07-2010 06:37 PM (14 years ago)
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 :-\Let me think about it....

Posted: at 16-07-2010 06:37 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- esonu at 16-07-2010 06:38 PM (14 years ago)
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no idea

Posted: at 16-07-2010 06:38 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 16-07-2010 06:38 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 16-07-2010 06:37 PM
:-\Let me think about it....
wow my bittersweet gotta think first before reply  Grin
Posted: at 16-07-2010 06:38 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onchedu at 16-07-2010 06:39 PM (14 years ago)
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That's cheating. Na from clap dem dey take enter dance. U know what would make a woman appeal to a man's segxwality more effectively than her body? It's when he thinks she listens to him and understands him like no one else. It's not necessarily always true that she does but if he thinks it so then he will want her for himself and that includes segxwally.

That guy is putting his marriage at risk. Red light district of all places. Him never talk true.
Posted: at 16-07-2010 06:39 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- erikaakpan at 16-07-2010 06:40 PM (14 years ago)
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im misunderstanding...are they a couple or are they married?

Posted: at 16-07-2010 06:40 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- PreetyInstinct at 16-07-2010 06:40 PM (14 years ago)
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Discussing wat?red lights? Huh? Cheesy

Posted: at 16-07-2010 06:40 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 16-07-2010 06:42 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 16-07-2010 06:38 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 16-07-2010 06:37 PM
:-\Let me think about it....
wow my bittersweet gotta think first before reply  Grin


Bad girl :'(

Posted: at 16-07-2010 06:42 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- diplomatik at 16-07-2010 06:42 PM (14 years ago)
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what is red light district all about Huh?

Posted: at 16-07-2010 06:42 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 16-07-2010 06:43 PM (14 years ago)
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@ onshedu i agree he is putting his marriage at risk, but d guy is just
there for talk u know... but of course d level of talking matters... i just dont get it, cuz wht is it tht u can
not discuss with ur wife???

@ erikaakpan they r married
Posted: at 16-07-2010 06:43 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- diplomatik at 16-07-2010 06:43 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: diplomatik on 16-07-2010 06:42 PM
what is red light district all about Huh?

never mind got it from reading onche's post  Grin Grin

Posted: at 16-07-2010 06:43 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 16-07-2010 06:44 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: diplomatik on 16-07-2010 06:42 PM
what is red light district all about Huh?
prostitution dear
Posted: at 16-07-2010 06:44 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 16-07-2010 06:44 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 16-07-2010 06:34 PM
There is a couple and they hav bin married
for some years now, there has never bin cheating or any problems...

But since a couple of months d guy go to red light district
not for phyuk, or anythin... just he go to d same woman every week
to talk abt all kinda things....

So gals, cud u accept ur man to do such thing, is it cheating ?
Guys, wud u ?



What on earth he could discuss with her which he couldn't discuss with me? Huh?
I couldn't accept that!
It's still cheating!

Posted: at 16-07-2010 06:44 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 16-07-2010 06:45 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: PreetyInstinct on 16-07-2010 06:40 PM
Discussing wat?red lights? Huh? Cheesy

tht is wht i dont get  Grin
Posted: at 16-07-2010 06:45 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- diplomatik at 16-07-2010 06:45 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 16-07-2010 06:44 PM
Quote from: diplomatik on 16-07-2010 06:42 PM
what is red light district all about Huh?
prostitution dear

yeah got that thanks  Cheesy

Posted: at 16-07-2010 06:45 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- erikaakpan at 16-07-2010 06:46 PM (14 years ago)
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ok...well, ONCHE HAS SPOKEN

u are suppose to b able to talk to ur wife about anything so u shouldnt have to discuss anything with another woman

Posted: at 16-07-2010 06:46 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- eagleseyez at 16-07-2010 06:48 PM (14 years ago)
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that na anoda thing na... i cant allow such for ma wifey
if its a gf, no problem... she got her life to live, what i dnt
knw wouldnt get me bothered, she can do whatever but
gettin caught is a bitch
Posted: at 16-07-2010 06:48 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 16-07-2010 06:49 PM (14 years ago)
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Human beings. We too like to dey blow lie for oursleves. In his mind now it's a harmless thing he's doing and if his wife is dumb enuf to believe that then I can see why he would have a wife and stilprefer the audience of a strange woman.

This is trash abeg. That guy needs to fix his head or tell his wife why he feels more comfortable with another woman than he does with her.
Posted: at 16-07-2010 06:49 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 16-07-2010 06:53 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 16-07-2010 06:44 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 16-07-2010 06:34 PM
There is a couple and they hav bin married
for some years now, there has never bin cheating or any problems...

But since a couple of months d guy go to red light district
not for phyuk, or anythin... just he go to d same woman every week
to talk abt all kinda things....

So gals, cud u accept ur man to do such thing, is it cheating ?
Guys, wud u ?



What on earth he could discuss with her which he couldn't discuss with me? Huh?
I couldn't accept that!
It's still cheating!
wht i mean is tht u hav to think longer on dis one, not
tht u never think dear  Kiss

Well i dont understand wht he is talking about...
And how did he get there in d first place ?

Posted: at 16-07-2010 06:53 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onchedu at 16-07-2010 06:54 PM (14 years ago)
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Once U are married U have no business being intimate with another person as U should be with Ur spouse. That's just wrong. Now some spouses make it difficult to be intimate with them and some people are just not mature enuf to put aside trivial issues and keep that intimacy going.

U r in a relationship with the person or thing U spend Ur time with. It's called prioritization.

Soon he'l say that woman is his best friend and he has a wife and then people like me will wonder and think :This guy must be high on shit the devil passed and wrapped up for him to smoke. Hissss
Posted: at 16-07-2010 06:54 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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