we've been together for about 4yrs. we were talking about our plans. I told him i'ld like us to settle down when am thru with my bsc. studies.which is about a year time. he siad, he cant imagine dat cos we do have lots of misunderstandings and besides he hasnt seen any assurance up till date dat our relationship is gonna last forever. i didnt react any bad. i just said okay. but in my heart... dont know wat to do...cos av never seen a stress free relationship. so it looks as is we ve just been together only for the fun of it..nothing serious is gonna come out of it. (dats d way i feel right now)
thinking of telling him to lets stay friends and drop d relatonship issue, since he didnt believe in us at this stage.
OR WHAT DO U THINK?
Posted: at 19-07-2010 12:40 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
telling you that after four years means he was never interested in taking d relationship to another level. The best thing i think you should do is to quitely withdraw from that relationship and make him understand why did that...............i think the guy has someone else in mind not you so dont push or force him to accept you.
Posted: at 19-07-2010 01:10 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Open your eyes before what happened to my friend's sister happen to you ! 4 years is not 4 months you know
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 19-07-2010 01:14 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 19-07-2010 01:17 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
SAmyrocko at 19-07-2010 01:30 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: reliable on 19-07-2010 12:40 PM
we've been together for about 4yrs. we were talking about our plans. I told him i'ld like us to settle down when am thru with my bsc. studies.which is about a year time. he siad, he cant imagine dat cos we do have lots of misunderstandings and besides he hasnt seen any assurance up till date dat our relationship is gonna last forever. i didnt react any bad. i just said okay. but in my heart... dont know wat to do...cos av never seen a stress free relationship. so it looks as is we ve just been together only for the fun of it..nothing serious is gonna come out of it. (dats d way i feel right now)
thinking of telling him to lets stay friends and drop d relatonship issue, since he didnt believe in us at this stage.
OR WHAT DO U THINK?
I think you should tell him, even though i know that not every relationship must end in marriage.
Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th
Posted: at 19-07-2010 01:30 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Four years? Ha! He's told u he's not interested in marrying U o. Talk is cheap so there's no need U go telling him this or that, but if U would make up Ur mind before telling him and not be expecting him to change his in favor of the better of what U have together, then U should do so.
Posted: at 19-07-2010 01:37 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
tony334real at 19-07-2010 03:10 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Naturally, i wont look at how long but how well. If u guys stay for ten years or more, provided there is mutual respect and understanding, i will have no problem with that, provided at the end you love and care for eash other and get married. M y advice, little sister, read Psalms 121: 1. God bless.
Posted: at 19-07-2010 03:10 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
reliable at 19-07-2010 03:57 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: onchedu on 19-07-2010 01:37 PM
Four years? Ha! He's told u he's not interested in marrying U o. Talk is cheap so there's no need U go telling him this or that, but if U would make up Ur mind before telling him and not be expecting him to change his in favor of the better of what U have together, then U should do so.
do u mean..making up my mind to back off before telling him" to lets stay friends"?
Posted: at 19-07-2010 03:57 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
reliable at 19-07-2010 04:00 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Agatex on 19-07-2010 01:10 PM
telling you that after four years means he was never interested in taking d relationship to another level. The best thing i think you should do is to quitely withdraw from that relationship and make him understand why did that...............i think the guy has someone else in mind not you so dont push or force him to accept you.
got u..
Posted: at 19-07-2010 04:00 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
FAKE PROFILES DOESN'T BOTHER ME ONE BIT, UNLESS PEOPLE HIDE BEHIND THEM TO SPIT VENOM. SHOW THE BOLDNESS OF A LION NEXT TIME......USE YOUR ORIGINAL PROFILE!!
Posted: at 19-07-2010 08:59 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
For a relationship to work out...the both couple have to be compatible.I guess you both are not match that why you couple always have misunderstanding.
4years of a relationship wow...how come it last so long? Stop giving him what you use to give him...
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 19-07-2010 09:11 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
For a relationship to work out...the both couple have to be compatible.I guess you both are not match that why you couple always have misunderstanding.
4years of a relationship wow...how come it last so long? Stop giving him what you use to give him...
my love what about the ones she has given him already!! can it be withdrawn?
CHILDREN ARE BORN BUT MEN ARE MADE;THE GOLD THAT WILL BE REFINED MUST PASS THROUGH THE FURNACE.WORDS
Posted: at 20-07-2010 07:58 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 20-07-2010 09:50 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
onchedu
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