i have a boyfriend. But we're having trouble he's a ghana artist and he's always working. i don't feel i have a right to complain because i met him at one of his performances so i shouldn't try and change him. the time that he is free im not available because of college. we talk on the phone all the time but is that enough. he wants us to have an introduction ceremony but i dont see the point in being in a relationship that i cant give my all to. we've spoke about it but he's refusing to let it go and i couldnt leave because i love him. but if love conquers all why am i still feelin this way?!!!! am or right or am i making a fuss ova nufin!? SOMEONE HELP
Posted: at 28-10-2007 08:18 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie
i understand your plight, its a bit tight for him bcos of his commitments and u inturn wont be there for him when he needs u..u both need understanding and scheduling a proper time of meeting even if its 1x in 2weeks it should be blissful and cherished.
Posted: at 30-10-2007 06:17 PM (17 years ago) | Gistmaniac
niyi1106 at 30-10-2007 06:40 PM (17 years ago) (m)
hey baby u just said luv conquers all things rite, well i'v got sumthin else 2 say- LUV AIN'T GOT BRAINS! talk 2 dis guy,make him undastand that things gotta change 4 da betta. if he really RESPECTS u & ur opinions then he'll find time 4 u. then u can start talkin bout introduction. rem that intro. leads 2 marriage. i dont think u want ur marriage 2 go d way u talkin bout. THIS XPLANATION IS CALLED GOOD REASONING & LOGIC. take care of urself and think bout this
Posted: at 30-10-2007 06:40 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie
myragonza at 31-10-2007 05:08 AM (17 years ago) (f)
When u love someone it means giving ur love,support,consideration and all.....ur guy need support and what other ways can he make a living by doing what he enjoys most...i know how u feel but i think u shouldn't let go of this realtionship just becoz of a small matter....i can only tell u that other potential women might be waiting for him.....
if you really think y'all can make it work then hang in there. but you'll need to put the wedding plans on ice for a while.I mean, sure y'all "love" each other n all but looks like y'all aint been around each other long enough to actually GET TO KNOW each othr.
Posted: at 10-04-2008 10:30 PM (17 years ago) | Upcoming
lucabracci at 10-04-2008 11:25 PM (17 years ago) (m)
the way i see this is u r not being understanding of the guy's goals,and if you r feeling this way about his career then you should think carefully if you still want to be with him,if you dont the earlier you break up the better as the emotional turmoil might tell on him because u r the one with the doubts..he has a gift and he is trying to make the best of it so u either share that vision with him or move on to smone with similar outlook with yours and let him do same
Posted: at 10-04-2008 11:25 PM (17 years ago) | Upcoming
eagleseyez at 1-11-2008 10:21 AM (16 years ago) (m)
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Posted: at 1-11-2008 10:21 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
i have a boyfriend. But we're having trouble he's a ghana artist and he's always working. i don't feel i have a right to complain because i met him at one of his performances so i shouldn't try and change him. the time that he is free im not available because of college. we talk on the phone all the time but is that enough. he wants us to have an introduction ceremony but i dont see the point in being in a relationship that i cant give my all to. we've spoke about it but he's refusing to let it go and i couldnt leave because i love him. but if love conquers all why am i still feelin this way?!!!! am or right or am i making a fuss ova nufin!? SOMEONE HELP
My Advice, Leave now be4 u Spoil ur name by Cheating
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
Posted: at 1-11-2008 02:42 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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