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Quote from: Laaw on 26-07-2010 08:03 PM There is no excuse for this. Motherhood comes naturally. If she wanted to really care for the baby she could have asked other women for advice. As a single parent, I have worked many jobs with babies to tow and I have seen the same in Nigeria. What a lame excuse. Right my sis. i'm also a single parent and i'm doing my best to take care of my baby regardless of what her father and everbody else is doing to me. Anyway, i wish her badluck in all her endeavours. That is, if she'll have any. ![]() ![]() ![]()
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Quote from: nametalkam on 26-07-2010 07:29 AM For Christy James (not real names) who hails from Ezinifite, Aguata Local Government Area of Anambra State, the reality of falling in love with a blood relation, an incest that is abhorred in her community, has dawned on her. Christy, who was impregnated by a relation, who she did not give his name, said she had carried her baby girl named Joy for nine months without getting any help from the man responsible for the pregnancy or her parents. The relation, who was responsible, was not able to take care of her and her baby at birth. The teenager’s parents did not help matters either. According to Christy, they abandoned her shortly after she became pregnant and refused to render even the least assistance that someone could give to a stranger. Coming face to face with Christy, one is confronted with her innocent face and the unending tears rolling down her cheeks. Her heart is also filled with regrets, as she says she was forced by circumstances to do what she did. She told Daily Sun that the decision to throw her six-month-old baby into a toilet was the most difficult decision she had taken in life, but had to do it because that was the only alternative left for her at that time: “I don’t know what to say. What happened was that I was impregnated by a relation of mine, who unfortunately is jobless and has no money to even take care of himself not to talk of taking care of me or my baby. “My parents live in Delta State and as soon as I became pregnant, they abandoned me to my fate and would not want to have anything to do with me. I managed through the nine months of pregnancy and delivered the child until now when it became unbearable for me. “I was totally abandoned by almost everybody. No one to advise me, no one to help me in feeding, no one to help me in anything. I didn’t know what to do until the idea of doing away with the baby came into my head. “So, on that fateful day, I got that push, something inside me was pushing me to go and throw the baby into the pit toilet. I painfully did it, an action that is hurting me now and will continue to hurt me till the end of my life. “I was arrested after the incident. I think some people saw me and reported to the police. They opened the pit and brought out the baby, but by then, she was already dead and that was how I was brought here.” Christy who said she was neither raped nor forced into segxwal relationship with her unnamed relation, however, asked for God’s mercy upon her life.
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That was pathetic though, but no matter what, we have so many orphange houses. ReplyI see no reason why she should invoved in such act. She and the relation were even stupid enough to indulge such an incest.
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This situation is sad on all sides, from the dirty bastard that slept with her, to her parents who abandoned her when she needed help, to the baby who'll never have a chance to live. However I think people don't realize that motherhood DOESN'T come naturally for some people, some people are scared to death of children and don't want any for themselves and as a teenager I can't say with absolute certainty that if I found myself in this girl's situation, I wouldn't have found the nearest Planned Parenthood and had an abortion. Better that than to bring the child into the world, realize it's too hard then have to sentence it to death. Poor girls (mother and daughter), I pity them both and I wish Christy the best in life wherever it may lead her. Reply
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may GOD forgive that little mother , she knows not what she was doing actually Reply
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na wa ooooo,really,but dats wot u get wen u come across teenagers who ar not matured,but anyway,before we start blamin her,ple if there is any where she can seek rehabilitation,she needs it,give her d benefit of doubt dat she is repentatnt of her crimes.circumstances can lead us to do anythn,mind u.is not all dat ar opportuned to such means of adoption,like she said,there was nobody to advice her. Reply
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Pathetic. Reply
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wicked world Reply
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too bad............i pray that christy find peace again Reply
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Ask me oh Reply
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:'( :'( :'( Reply
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She had already passed through the most difficult period which was supposed to be the pregnancy period and the Ist six months of the life of that baby. She had no reason to kill her cause she could have comfortably fed the baby with whatever she eats as a mother. ReplyMay God forgive her if she trully regrets the action and repents of her sins.
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:oWhat do I say....dis world is wicked. Dat girl's mother is a wicked woman cos no mata wot, ur child is ur child. And d girl,wot stupid circumstances pushed her 2 sleep wit a relative? Girls these days are just sex starved.May God in his infinite mercy 4give her. Reply
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For me i will said that, the girl deed what on here mind which wrong.....To the girls out there::: in the tragedy, what u should have do, is to take the baby to Homeless(motherless Baby) .....at least in the next coming year or years, you been going and look after her by the time u will get something doing......TOO BAD Reply
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the deed has been done already, after ur punishment jst think of how u will b a beta person. forgiv urself 1st and learn 4rm ur mistakes...... i pray u com out stronger and better Reply
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Those are well married where bush looking for fruit of womb but cont rally to this those who those not want pregnancy have it and threw inside the toilet may God punish them. Reply
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why are u making me cry. Reply
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WHAT A CRUEL WORLD, WHEN THE GUY PUT OFF UR PANTS U DIDNT COMPLAIN..ITS JUST A PITY THAT U JUST LOST ''A BLESSING IN DISGUISE'' AND AS FOR THE CHILD, MAY HER INNOCENT SOUL REST IN PEACE, RUT IN JAIL AND NEVER RECOVER.... Reply
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