ARABA DRIVERS, THE BEST RELATIONSHIP A WOMAN CAN KEEP

Date: 05-08-2010 9:40 am (14 years ago) | Author: ugwoke kevin okechukwu
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- at 5-08-2010 09:40 AM (14 years ago)
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The popularly known transportation net work in Abuja, 'The Araba bus'drivers is said to be a hot cake and a means of lively hood for Nigeria girls living in and around the town of Abuja and its  environs.This fact come up when one wife of a civil servant working in one of the parastatals in FCT divorced her husband for an Araba bus operator. The woman claimed that the new spouse 'Araba driver' cares for her well being more than her husband that she has three children for. She did not stop at this as she get as far as saying that the driver barely every day drops at least #2500 for her which automatically if well calculated by the number of days in a month worth the salary of a bank manager.

The woman maintained that instead she will go back to her husband's house that is better for her to die as life on earth is meaningless without being comfortable.

Abuja! my question is is marraige all about keeping surplus for ur partner even when u don't have? or Is life more comfortable with a driver than a civil servant in this country? Pls fellow naijapals react urgently to this topic as it is real.

Posted: at 5-08-2010 09:40 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
- Treasure2 at 5-08-2010 10:16 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: kevin2010 on  5-08-2010 09:40 AM
The popularly known transportation net work in Abuja, 'The Araba bus'drivers is said to be a hot cake and a means of lively hood for Nigeria girls living in and around the town of Abuja and its  environs.This fact come up when one wife of a civil servant working in one of the parastatals in FCT divorced her husband for an Araba bus operator. The woman claimed that the new spouse 'Araba driver' cares for her well being more than her husband that she has three children for. She did not stop at this as she get as far as saying that the driver barely every day drops at least #2500 for her which automatically if well calculated by the number of days in a month worth the salary of a bank manager.

The woman maintained that instead she will go back to her husband's house that is better for her to die as life on earth is meaningless without being comfortable.

Abuja! my question is is marraige all about keeping surplus for ur partner even when u don't have? or Is life more comfortable with a driver than a civil servant in this country? Pls fellow naijapals react urgently to this topic as it is real.

Marriage is not all about surplus.  Marriage is about love and care and peace.  This is to show how men have abandon their responsible to women. The woman have find peace in another mans arm bc he cares for her and attend to her welfare.
Posted: at 5-08-2010 10:16 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- docreala at 5-08-2010 10:18 AM (14 years ago)
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ok oooooo
Posted: at 5-08-2010 10:18 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedme at 5-08-2010 10:21 AM (14 years ago)
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passing to see if i can get one araba driver to care for me
Posted: at 5-08-2010 10:21 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 5-08-2010 10:23 AM (14 years ago)
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If u sum up 2500 X 31 days in a month, what u have is 77,500. Then u ask, how much is the salary of this civil servant which is below 15,000 and out of this 15,000, how much is this woman up keep b4 the man will take care of feeding.  The gap is too far.

My dear marriage is all about comfort.  
Posted: at 5-08-2010 10:23 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 5-08-2010 10:31 AM (14 years ago)
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abi oo
Posted: at 5-08-2010 10:31 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 5-08-2010 10:32 AM (14 years ago)
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Yes
Posted: at 5-08-2010 10:32 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- docreala at 5-08-2010 10:35 AM (14 years ago)
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where is the luv?lol!
Posted: at 5-08-2010 10:35 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- nellkiss at 5-08-2010 10:39 AM (14 years ago)
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supported.
Posted: at 5-08-2010 10:39 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Treasure2 at 5-08-2010 10:43 AM (14 years ago)
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For the woman to refuse going back to her marriage, check it, that husband is not taking care of his house. 

He is just there to answer husband for mouth.   
Posted: at 5-08-2010 10:43 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- docreala at 5-08-2010 10:45 AM (14 years ago)
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na waoh o girl one man don goof for ur side before ni
Posted: at 5-08-2010 10:45 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- justloveme at 5-08-2010 11:03 AM (14 years ago)
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congrat to the husband. the woman will soon come back to beg only to find younger nija pals girls there. i woman who can not manage 5,000 will not do well wit 50,000. it is only a matter of time.
Posted: at 5-08-2010 11:03 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- divineproject at 5-08-2010 11:19 AM (14 years ago)
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Not right to start asking this kind of question based on one instance/case...............

Posted: at 5-08-2010 11:19 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 5-08-2010 11:29 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: docreala on  5-08-2010 10:45 AM
na waoh o girl one man don goof for ur side before ni
No but this type of case can really annoy me. 
Posted: at 5-08-2010 11:29 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 5-08-2010 11:34 AM (14 years ago)
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for the woman to swear over her dead body never to go back to the husband there must be something fishy
Posted: at 5-08-2010 11:34 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 5-08-2010 11:36 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: justloveme on  5-08-2010 11:03 AM
congrat to the husband. the woman will soon come back to beg only to find younger nija pals girls there. i woman who can not manage 5,000 will not do well wit 50,000. it is only a matter of time.
Wait 5,000 with three children at how much for a meal 54 naira.  

This one na the one wey FELA called suffer suffer for world and enjoy in heaven.
Posted: at 5-08-2010 11:36 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 5-08-2010 11:43 AM (14 years ago)
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5,000 is egusi, ogbono, crayfish, semo, yam.  What is 5,000.

Ask those men, i mean responsible men who take care of their home how much it cost them. 

For the weak one pls wake up to ur duties. 
Posted: at 5-08-2010 11:43 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 5-08-2010 11:46 AM (14 years ago)
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abeg tell am wetin im never start
Posted: at 5-08-2010 11:46 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- joseph2 at 5-08-2010 02:24 PM (14 years ago)
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what goes around comes around
Posted: at 5-08-2010 02:24 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- blessedme at 5-08-2010 02:44 PM (14 years ago)
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abi oo
Posted: at 5-08-2010 02:44 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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