I NEED U GUYS 2 PLS HELP ME ON THIS. I'M TOTALLY CONFUSED. I BROKE UP WITH MY EX ABOUT 6 MONTHS AGO THOUGH WE WERE STILL IN LOVE WITH EACH OTHER. AFTER OUR BREAK UP, WE DECIDED TO REMAIN FRIENDS. 2 MONTHS AGO I FOUND ANOTHER GUY THAT IS SO CARING AND NICE. MY EX FOUND ANOTHER GIRL ALSO. MY EX WAS JEALOUS COS HE'S STILL IN LOVE WITH ME. I'M NOT JEALOUS COS I KNOW WE BOTH HAD 2 MOVE ON WITH OUR LIVES THOUGH I STILL LOVE HIM. I'M TRYING 2 LOVE MY NEW B/F. JUST YESTERDAY MY EX CALLED ME AND SAID HE WANT US BACK TOGETHER, HE SAID HIS NEW G/F IS NICE BUT HE CAN'T STOP THINKING ABOUT ME. I STILL LOVE MY EX BUT I DON'T WANT TO BREAK UP WITH MY NEW B/F, NEITHER DO I WANT HIM TO BREAK UP WITH HIS G/F. I DON'T KNOW IF WHAT I'M DOING IS RIGHT OR WRONG :'( I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO..........
Posted: at 12-08-2010 07:25 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
@Omorewa we broke up bcos he's a jealous guy and we were always quarrelin bcos i hav male friends. We were and we are still in love wit each other but i don't want 2 break my b/f's heart. he's a nice person.
Posted: at 12-08-2010 07:41 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
bittersweet at 12-08-2010 07:45 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Yes,it's important the reason which leaded to that break up! You see,that's why it's better to not remain so called "friends " after a love relationship! Let sleeping dogs lie! But now,do you think it's worth going back? What leaded to break up once, it couldn't happen again? Think very well!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 12-08-2010 07:45 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
I don't know wat 2 say. he was d one that wanted friendship after our break up. But how do i move 4ward wen i'm stil in love wit him? i can't even see myslf lovin my b/f though his nice and caring
Posted: at 12-08-2010 07:48 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
bittersweet at 12-08-2010 07:52 PM (14 years ago) (f)
If you're really sure that you love him(but love not lust) ,then maybe you should return to him,but take in consideration that jealousy u were talking about, and if there were other reasons too,which made you separate!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 12-08-2010 07:52 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 12-08-2010 07:58 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Syl90 on 12-08-2010 07:55 PM
Yeah u rit but i can't even face my b/f now. i hate pretence n at d same time, i don't know how 2 tel him. D whole thing is soo difficult
Take your time to think very well before making any move! Love is not by force,so he'll understand eventually! But,I repeat, first be sure that your old guy is what you really need!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 12-08-2010 07:58 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
there r pretty many tins u ve to consider lik......."idk if u can stand n stil luv some1 who nags jeolously...cos dats biggie....u'll so get irritated".......D
Posted: at 12-08-2010 08:49 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
HE PROMISED TO TRUST ME NOW AND WE WON'T QUARREL LIKE B4.. I KNOW THOSE R JUST WORDS BUT.... I DON'T KNOW. MY B/F IS SO NICE N DOESN'T DESERVE A HEART BREAK BUT... :'(
Posted: at 12-08-2010 09:00 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie