Settling Arguements (Page 3)

Date: 13-08-2010 10:37 am (11 years ago) | Author: Onyinyechi Miracle
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- sesgylove at 13-08-2010 02:18 PM (11 years ago)
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Sex is not the best way, you can first of all discuss the issue and then end it with Sex( i guess)
Posted: at 13-08-2010 02:18 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- plainheart at 13-08-2010 02:47 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on 13-08-2010 12:46 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 13-08-2010 12:38 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 13-08-2010 11:29 AM
Quote from: divineproject on 13-08-2010 11:16 AM
Talk! Talk!! Talk!!!.......but it becomes difficult when couples share different bedroom


What will make a couple have separate bedrooms ?

Most times, having separate bedrooms as married couples is the idea of the man (dats what I think)....Some men like their privacy and they can get that if they have separate bedrooms........(2), if the man has more than one wife, automatically he will have his own bedroom separate...........(3), some men cant tolerate some women's habit of throwing things all over the place........(4)...A man that has some skeleton in his closet would prefer a separate bed..etc


What sort of privacy will a man want if he has no hidden agenda ? The bible says that "the two shall bacome one"


That is in the case of polygamy and its understandable .


As for your no 3 , Men throw things arround more than Women

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin


that is men for U.

@topic,
know ur partner and the best time to talk things out
Posted: at 13-08-2010 02:47 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 13-08-2010 02:58 PM (11 years ago)
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after sex.. u say am sorry to eachother.

Posted: at 13-08-2010 02:58 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- hotguy77 at 13-08-2010 03:22 PM (11 years ago)
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if you can summon the courage to kiss her, fondle her she will give in and after that am sorry will come from both of you that will seal everything.This is not hear say, it has worked for me well
Posted: at 13-08-2010 03:22 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- PreetyInstinct at 13-08-2010 03:24 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-08-2010 02:58 PM
after sex.. u say am sorry to eachother.
So u needed the sex 2 say sorry>

Posted: at 13-08-2010 03:24 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 13-08-2010 03:29 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: PreetyInstinct on 13-08-2010 03:24 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-08-2010 02:58 PM
after sex.. u say am sorry to eachother.
So u needed the sex 2 say sorry>

a beg ask am ooo , so he cant say sorry without sex

Posted: at 13-08-2010 03:29 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 13-08-2010 03:31 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-08-2010 02:58 PM
after sex.. u say am sorry to eachother.


 I think its the other way round , you say you are sorry if u really are and then sex ........................

Posted: at 13-08-2010 03:31 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- hotguy77 at 13-08-2010 03:33 PM (11 years ago)
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it makes reconciliation easier, don't under estimate the power of sex
Posted: at 13-08-2010 03:33 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- diplomatik at 13-08-2010 04:38 PM (11 years ago)
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poster i'm awaiting a partner... Cheesy

Posted: at 13-08-2010 04:38 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Amamus at 14-08-2010 05:30 AM (11 years ago)
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@Divineproject: Yessss! u got that one right!
A woman's "scatteredness" if there's any such word Grin is one reason a guy wld rather have his own bedroom...if she refuses to make adjustments.

@Sophie: Sex solves nothing if you've not sorted thru the issue,(u just swept it under the rug) u'r just prolonging the evil day and usually it crumbles into a million irrepairable fragments! and remember u wont be young and physically desirable forever, the connection at the heart level is what matters most.
Posted: at 14-08-2010 05:30 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- onchedu at 14-08-2010 10:45 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on 13-08-2010 10:37 AM
Pals what are the different ways you use to resolve conflicts with your partner ?

Depends on what the conflict is. Some are easily resolved thru dialogue, some thru  "no-logue." anyhow sha if U want to resolve them and they want it resolved too cos U convince them it's best or they realise for themselves that it's best, U will resolve them.
Posted: at 14-08-2010 10:45 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- Michro at 14-08-2010 12:03 PM (11 years ago)
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Admit ur mistakes and forget aboout superiority.
Learn to say simple sorri when u are at fault.

Posted: at 14-08-2010 12:03 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Adikpe at 14-08-2010 02:54 PM (11 years ago)
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THE BEST WAY IS TO TALK OVER IT WITH CALMNESS AND NOT SHOUTING.

AND ONE PARTY MUST BE READY TO CALM DOWN FIRST (PREFERABLE THE GUY, SINCE
THE LADIES ALWAYS FIND IT DIFFICULT TO CALM DOWN FIRST). WHILE THE BOTH
PARTIES MUST ACCEPT THEIR MISTAKES.

THE SENTENCE 'I AM SORRY' DOES A LOT OF GOOD ALSO.
Posted: at 14-08-2010 02:54 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Adikpe at 14-08-2010 02:57 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: diplomatik on 13-08-2010 04:38 PM
poster i'm awaiting a partner... Cheesy


................... I AM AVAILABLE
Posted: at 14-08-2010 02:57 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 14-08-2010 03:17 PM (11 years ago)
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i neva use sex to solve and arguement, cuz it doesnt solve notin

Simply talk tins out without shouting or insult, communicate, compromise and understand each other !

When everytin is ok again, u can hav sex just cuz u feel d luv again, but how u go phyuk when u still angry or hurt ??
Posted: at 14-08-2010 03:17 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- xter at 14-08-2010 03:32 PM (11 years ago)
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To those who were sayin things bout sex solvin arguements,i get 1 ques 4 u- when was d last time u get laid as a gal? and wat's sex to an angry man?......... wheneva i offend any of my gals i start jokes wit her,once i see a little laff 4rm her then i can say i'm sorry....

Posted: at 14-08-2010 03:32 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Beauti4 at 14-08-2010 04:25 PM (11 years ago)
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respect
Posted: at 14-08-2010 04:25 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- eportal at 14-08-2010 05:55 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on 13-08-2010 11:00 AM
Well - settle down and settle by concession - reach a compromise.....

sex might solve it.. but for a very short while
well done dearie. sex is shortlived just like reconciliation by that route. also, learn 2 apologize n make conscious effort 2 reach a compromise with ur partner.[/color][/i][/font][/font][/font][/size]
Posted: at 14-08-2010 05:55 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- pareto at 14-08-2010 09:38 PM (11 years ago)
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try to calm her,
call her pet name
hold her and try to convince her
and say I am sorry!
Posted: at 14-08-2010 09:38 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- ceejay58 at 14-08-2010 10:31 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-08-2010 10:50 AM
me na hot sex ooooooooo

if na me be ur man na every day i go dey provoke u.....  at least i sure will be rewarded with a "HOT S**" at each provocation...  Kiss
Posted: at 14-08-2010 10:31 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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