Settling Arguements (Page 5)

sex is not everything. In my own case if i and my boyfriend has any misunderstanding i don't bring the topic back that same day, i let it  go then calm him down by holding close to each other after that watever that follows then it is not my fault. then later wen we r in good mood kind of laughing, making fun of each other that is when i can now bring it up becos my guy is a tempered guy, when he is angry don;t just say anything, so me saying something then d whole apartment is gonna be on fire.

[size=14pt]Am back here again because I found this topic very interesting! Well comrades, when having arguments in a relationship, you need to use what I called PERSONALITY DEMENSIONS when arguing...........

P-rovide a basis for understanding
E-xpress yourself appropriately
R-espect individual differences
S-succeed with style
O-organize efficient and tangible reasons
N-egotiate more effectively than emotionally
A-appreciate yourself and others
L-earn to improve communications and argue to understand, and not to win
I-dentify potential problems early, that is, before starting arguements
T-ake steps to avoid taking things personal
Y-ield higher productivity rather than blame someone for not doing certain thing.

D-elegate tasks appropriately
I-nteract with others more intellectually than peronally
M-anage others more efficiently
E-levate morale and enthusiasm
N-ourish interpersonal relationships
S-upport, and encourage others while arguing positively
I-nfluence others positively
O-ptimize your performance, react more friendly to create understanding
N-arrow gaps and differences to enable you draw a conclusion
S-ucceed with style and ease!!!

Once used correctly, my personality demensions will work very well in settling arguements. Sex, women are very clever........so make NO mistake to use sex to settling their problems;they will appreciate if you state practical facts rather than emotional interventions.Arguements need practical facts and not emotional ne[/size]eds.

allow the matter die down, then call him/her
and talk in a more friendly and calmly way
if possible present romantic gifts such lovely peff,
candle night, surprise romantic dinner, sexy undies & nitties etc

Sounds romantic

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