I was in conversation with a friend in my house yesterday when he just raised a topic which he regarded as an advice for me before I get married. He told my that he will furnish their other empty room for his two years old boy. So I tried to inquire why he said so, as i tried to make him understand that the boy is too small to be sleeping alone, he now told me the real story that as he was having a "good time with his wife" the in the middle of the night, the kid just jumped up from sleep and started crying and screaming, daddy why are u beating mummy. So he told the little boy that he's not beating mummy, that he's only helping her to maserge her chest since she complained of chest pain. So, Is it good for parents to be living in the same room with their kids?
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Posted: at 21-08-2010 07:14 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
FlyMamacita at 21-08-2010 07:17 PM (13 years ago) (f)
No u shudnt share a room with ur child !
My son sleep in my bedroom now, but he is just a baby, tht is normal...
But once they get at a certain age, they neer their own room !
It is even against d law here....
Posted: at 21-08-2010 07:17 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Sleeping in the same room with your children, is not a serious thing in developing countries. This is on account of the level of poverty, and development in these countries. So, in what context should we view this issue in these countries, given the developmental gaps? by this i mean, what happens to many who cannot afford beyond a room in Nigeria/other African countries?
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Posted: at 21-08-2010 07:58 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
I was in conversation with a friend in my house yesterday when he just raised a topic which he regarded as an advice for me before I get married. He told my that he will furnish their other empty room for his two years old boy. So I tried to inquire why he said so, as i tried to make him understand that the boy is too small to be sleeping alone, he now told me the real story that as he was having a "good time with his wife" the in the middle of the night, the kid just jumped up from sleep and started crying and screaming, daddy why are u beating mummy. So he told the little boy that he's not beating mummy, that he's only helping her to maserge her chest since she complained of chest pain. So, Is it good for parents to be living in the same room with their kids?
With dis Reason yu gave, no it's not a good idea
But when Money no dey na, them no get Choice abi?
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Posted: at 21-08-2010 08:55 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
@ wunzi, the guy is living in four bedroom flat. The African culture doesn't advice that kids should be alone let alone just one kid sleeping in a seperate room. It's risky as long as Nigeria is concerned
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Posted: at 21-08-2010 09:14 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
ceejay58 at 22-08-2010 12:54 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Kennee on 21-08-2010 08:55 PM
Quote from: Michro on 21-08-2010 07:14 PM
I was in conversation with a friend in my house yesterday when he just raised a topic which he regarded as an advice for me before I get married. He told my that he will furnish their other empty room for his two years old boy. So I tried to inquire why he said so, as i tried to make him understand that the boy is too small to be sleeping alone, he now told me the real story that as he was having a "good time with his wife" the in the middle of the night, the kid just jumped up from sleep and started crying and screaming, daddy why are u beating mummy. So he told the little boy that he's not beating mummy, that he's only helping her to maserge her chest since she complained of chest pain. So, Is it good for parents to be living in the same room with their kids?
With dis Reason yu gave, no it's not a good idea
But when Money no dey na, them no get Choice abi?
abi ooo
Posted: at 22-08-2010 12:54 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
@ wunzi, the guy is living in four bedroom flat. The African culture doesn't advice that kids should be alone let alone just one kid sleeping in a seperate room. It's risky as long as Nigeria is concerned
Says who???
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Posted: at 22-08-2010 03:39 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
@ wunzi, the guy is living in four bedroom flat. The African culture doesn't advice that kids should be alone let alone just one kid sleeping in a seperate room. It's risky as long as Nigeria is concerned
how is it risky?
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Posted: at 22-08-2010 04:37 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
@ wunzi, the guy is living in four bedroom flat. The African culture doesn't advice that kids should be alone let alone just one kid sleeping in a seperate room. It's risky as long as Nigeria is concerned
Which Africa are U talking of?
Posted: at 22-08-2010 04:40 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
@ wunzi, the guy is living in four bedroom flat. The African culture doesn't advice that kids should be alone let alone just one kid sleeping in a seperate room. It's risky as long as Nigeria is concerned
Which Africa are U talking of?
nigeria african
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Posted: at 22-08-2010 04:45 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
NO! I think it is wrong because a child is suppose to have their own room in case anything goes wrong in the bed with the parent's,but when a child is a baby it is alright for him or her to sleep in the same bed with the parent's but as the child grows they must have their own room's.when a child reach's an age like 7-8yrs they start knowing thing's,like looking at mum and dad's private.
Posted: at 22-08-2010 08:43 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
PreetyInstinct at 22-08-2010 08:52 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Michro on 21-08-2010 07:14 PM
I was in conversation with a friend in my house yesterday when he just raised a topic which he regarded as an advice for me before I get married. He told my that he will furnish their other empty room for his two years old boy. So I tried to inquire why he said so, as i tried to make him understand that the boy is too small to be sleeping alone, he now told me the real story that as he was having a "good time with his wife" the in the middle of the night, the kid just jumped up from sleep and started crying and screaming, daddy why are u beating mummy. So he told the little boy that he's not beating mummy, that he's only helping her to maserge her chest since she complained of chest pain. So, Is it good for parents to be living in the same room with their kids?
Reminds me of a video i saw of a lil girl who was telling her mum & dad about wat d sounds she heard when mumy & daddy were having 'fun' she said her dad screams like a girl how emberassing.
@Topic when it's no more a baby it should have it's own room....and boys & gurls should have seperate rooms 2 it's even in d law here.
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Posted: at 22-08-2010 08:52 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
enc4life at 23-08-2010 09:30 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: onchedu on 22-08-2010 04:40 PM
Quote from: Michro on 21-08-2010 09:14 PM
@ wunzi, the guy is living in four bedroom flat. The African culture doesn't advice that kids should be alone let alone just one kid sleeping in a seperate room. It's risky as long as Nigeria is concerned
Which Africa are U talking of?
Posted: at 23-08-2010 09:30 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
@ wunzi, the guy is living in four bedroom flat. The African culture doesn't advice that kids should be alone let alone just one kid sleeping in a seperate room. It's risky as long as Nigeria is concerned
how is it risky?
Have u ever heard people, mostly kids having a nightmare or someone fighting them during sleep?
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Posted: at 24-08-2010 10:38 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
FlyMamacita
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Kennee
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how emberassing.
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