Is marriage really necessary? (Page 10)

Date: 25-08-2010 9:02 am (14 years ago) | Author: Bittersweet
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- FlyMamacita at 27-08-2010 04:22 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 27-08-2010 01:08 PM
The both of U should just go and get married already ehn?
i tire for these 2 Ooo


Why u said so?
 Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
am pullin ur leg dear... every topic u guys talk and talk and talk some more  Grin  Grin




If he asks, I respond, and vice versa!
Nothing else!
i knw there is notin else, dont worry

tht is wht we all doin here, no ?

Posted: at 27-08-2010 04:22 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- do4sure at 27-08-2010 04:40 PM (14 years ago)
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It is necessary but not compulsory.
Posted: at 27-08-2010 04:40 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 27-08-2010 04:51 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 27-08-2010 04:22 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 27-08-2010 04:01 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 27-08-2010 03:58 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 27-08-2010 01:53 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 27-08-2010 01:49 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 27-08-2010 01:08 PM
The both of U should just go and get married already ehn?
i tire for these 2 Ooo


Why u said so?
 Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
am pullin ur leg dear... every topic u guys talk and talk and talk some more  Grin  Grin




If he asks, I respond, and vice versa!
Nothing else!
i knw there is notin else, dont worry

tht is wht we all doin here, no ?



Sure! Wink

Posted: at 27-08-2010 04:51 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 27-08-2010 04:51 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: do4sure on 27-08-2010 04:40 PM
It is necessary but not compulsory.

ok

Posted: at 27-08-2010 04:51 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- do4sure at 27-08-2010 05:04 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 27-08-2010 04:22 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 27-08-2010 04:01 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 27-08-2010 03:58 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 27-08-2010 01:53 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 27-08-2010 01:49 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 27-08-2010 01:08 PM
The both of U should just go and get married already ehn?
i tire for these 2 Ooo

TWO IS A COMPANY AND THREE IS A CROWD

Why u said so?
 Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
am pullin ur leg dear... every topic u guys talk and talk and talk some more  Grin  Grin




If he asks, I respond, and vice versa!
Nothing else!
i knw there is notin else, dont worry

tht is wht we all doin here, no ?


Posted: at 27-08-2010 05:04 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kennee at 27-08-2010 05:09 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: wunzie on 26-08-2010 10:03 PM
I'm upstairs Grin

Abeg give me Directions, l must come Upstairs  Cool


Posted: at 27-08-2010 05:09 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- wunzie at 27-08-2010 07:30 PM (14 years ago)
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I believe you know your way around the NP house. So, just come upstairs.  Abi you wan make i come help you climb the stairs? Cheesy

Posted: at 27-08-2010 07:30 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sukkytaiwo at 27-08-2010 07:34 PM (14 years ago)
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It's depend on Your definition of Marriage...?

Posted: at 27-08-2010 07:34 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- Kennee at 27-08-2010 07:46 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: wunzie on 27-08-2010 07:30 PM
I believe you know your way around the NP house. So, just come upstairs.  Abi you wan make i come help you climb the stairs? Cheesy

Hehehe l don forget yur Upstairs Room number  Cool

Or like yu ask, just come 2 the Stairs make we do am there  Smiley

Posted: at 27-08-2010 07:46 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 27-08-2010 08:21 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sukkytaiwo on 27-08-2010 07:34 PM
It's depend on Your definition of Marriage...?

You think so?

Posted: at 27-08-2010 08:21 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- typicalman84 at 27-08-2010 10:28 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 25-08-2010 11:01 AM
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on 25-08-2010 09:54 AM
mmmhhh, its ur choice gurl, u can remain single if u think it wil make u happy but bliv me a time wil wen u wish u were married

I'm not too sure about it!
Sometimes, marriage can destroy one's life!


No. Marriage do not destroy people's lives. Only people's selfishness destroy their lives. That you have live 20-something or 30-something years being one way when you were single doesn't necessarily mean you have to be the same way after you get married. it is all about compromise lady. if you do not want to compromise, then that is when you feel as if your life is crumbled. marriage is a very easy thing to handle. Just PEOPLE choose to make it a hard knock life.
Oh to answer your question, it is necessary that we humans get married. You can't tell me you will live the rest of your life without have sex since you aren't married...OR do you plan to commit adultery continuously the rest of your life. maybe you want to die a virgin???I don't think so.

Posted: at 27-08-2010 10:28 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Vixenx at 27-08-2010 11:52 PM (14 years ago)
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I'd rather commit adultery with my boyfriend than marry him Grin. Sometimes you don't know ppl's intention for wanting to marry you and you may not realize it until it's too late.  Then you will have to go through all that divorce crap and divorce court. Abeg I'd rather kick him out and send him on his merry way when he misbehaves than to get married . By then he'll probably get some of my assets Grin. Cheesy

Hehehehehe Tongue
Posted: at 27-08-2010 11:52 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- typicalman84 at 28-08-2010 04:21 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Vixenx on 27-08-2010 11:52 PM
I'd rather commit adultery with my boyfriend than marry him Grin. Sometimes you don't know ppl's intention for wanting to marry you and you may not realize it until it's too late.  Then you will have to go through all that divorce crap and divorce court. Abeg I'd rather kick him out and send him on his merry way when he misbehaves than to get married . By then he'll probably get some of my assets Grin. Cheesy

Hehehehehe Tongue


Hmmm. I have two words for you. Insecurity and Selfishness... Hehe...This is never good for marriage.

Posted: at 28-08-2010 04:21 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 28-08-2010 07:12 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 27-08-2010 10:28 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 25-08-2010 11:01 AM
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on 25-08-2010 09:54 AM
mmmhhh, its ur choice gurl, u can remain single if u think it wil make u happy but bliv me a time wil wen u wish u were married

I'm not too sure about it!
Sometimes, marriage can destroy one's life!


No. Marriage do not destroy people's lives. Only people's selfishness destroy their lives. That you have live 20-something or 30-something years being one way when you were single doesn't necessarily mean you have to be the same way after you get married. it is all about compromise lady. if you do not want to compromise, then that is when you feel as if your life is crumbled. marriage is a very easy thing to handle. Just PEOPLE choose to make it a hard knock life.
Oh to answer your question, it is necessary that we humans get married. You can't tell me you will live the rest of your life without have sex since you aren't married...OR do you plan to commit adultery continuously the rest of your life. maybe you want to die a virgin???I don't think so.

Sex is not mandatory, one could live without it with no problems!
I'm against sleeping around, so judge yourself!
And I really don't see marriage as being necessary, and yes,I hate to compromise
and to take all kind of craps a dude may serve!
So, everybody is choosing what's the best for them!

Posted: at 28-08-2010 07:12 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 28-08-2010 07:13 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Vixenx on 27-08-2010 11:52 PM
I'd rather commit adultery with my boyfriend than marry him Grin. Sometimes you don't know ppl's intention for wanting to marry you and you may not realize it until it's too late.  Then you will have to go through all that divorce crap and divorce court. Abeg I'd rather kick him out and send him on his merry way when he misbehaves than to get married . By then he'll probably get some of my assets Grin. Cheesy

Hehehehehe Tongue

I understand u Wink

Posted: at 28-08-2010 07:13 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- typicalman84 at 28-08-2010 08:21 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 28-08-2010 07:12 AM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 27-08-2010 10:28 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 25-08-2010 11:01 AM
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on 25-08-2010 09:54 AM
mmmhhh, its ur choice gurl, u can remain single if u think it wil make u happy but bliv me a time wil wen u wish u were married

I'm not too sure about it!
Sometimes, marriage can destroy one's life!


No. Marriage do not destroy people's lives. Only people's selfishness destroy their lives. That you have live 20-something or 30-something years being one way when you were single doesn't necessarily mean you have to be the same way after you get married. it is all about compromise lady. if you do not want to compromise, then that is when you feel as if your life is crumbled. marriage is a very easy thing to handle. Just PEOPLE choose to make it a hard knock life.
Oh to answer your question, it is necessary that we humans get married. You can't tell me you will live the rest of your life without have sex since you aren't married...OR do you plan to commit adultery continuously the rest of your life. maybe you want to die a virgin???I don't think so.

Sex is not mandatory, one could live without it with no problems!
I'm against sleeping around, so judge yourself!
And I really don't see marriage as being necessary, and yes,I hate to compromise
and to take all kind of craps a dude may serve!
So, everybody is choosing what's the best for them!


Sorry to say this but you sound like you have some personal issues. If you hate to compromise then that means you are a selfish person... So Selfish=Can never be happily married=Live your life in misery and loneliness=Die a painful death.


Sorry hun... just had to tell it like it is.

Posted: at 28-08-2010 08:21 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 28-08-2010 08:31 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-08-2010 08:21 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 28-08-2010 07:12 AM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 27-08-2010 10:28 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 25-08-2010 11:01 AM
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on 25-08-2010 09:54 AM
mmmhhh, its ur choice gurl, u can remain single if u think it wil make u happy but bliv me a time wil wen u wish u were married

I'm not too sure about it!
Sometimes, marriage can destroy one's life!


No. Marriage do not destroy people's lives. Only people's selfishness destroy their lives. That you have live 20-something or 30-something years being one way when you were single doesn't necessarily mean you have to be the same way after you get married. it is all about compromise lady. if you do not want to compromise, then that is when you feel as if your life is crumbled. marriage is a very easy thing to handle. Just PEOPLE choose to make it a hard knock life.
Oh to answer your question, it is necessary that we humans get married. You can't tell me you will live the rest of your life without have sex since you aren't married...OR do you plan to commit adultery continuously the rest of your life. maybe you want to die a virgin???I don't think so.

Sex is not mandatory, one could live without it with no problems!
I'm against sleeping around, so judge yourself!
And I really don't see marriage as being necessary, and yes,I hate to compromise
and to take all kind of craps a dude may serve!
So, everybody is choosing what's the best for them!


Sorry to say this but you sound like you have some personal issues. If you hate to compromise then that means you are a selfish person... So Selfish=Can never be happily married=Live your life in misery and loneliness=Die a painful death.


Sorry hun... just had to tell it like it is.

That's your opinion, and it's far from the reality!
If I hate to compromise, that doesn't mean at all that I'm selfish (what kind of thinking is that  ??) ,
but I can't compromise to the extend to nullify myself! That would mean living a miserable life!
Loneliness is not bitter when one chooses to be so!
I rather live my life alone than with a guy who thinks that everything revolves around him,
and treats his wife as she would be his slave, and expecting her to overlook all his craps!
That would be a life lived in misery, my friend!

Posted: at 28-08-2010 08:31 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- typicalman84 at 28-08-2010 03:45 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 28-08-2010 08:31 AM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-08-2010 08:21 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 28-08-2010 07:12 AM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 27-08-2010 10:28 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 25-08-2010 11:01 AM
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on 25-08-2010 09:54 AM
mmmhhh, its ur choice gurl, u can remain single if u think it wil make u happy but bliv me a time wil wen u wish u were married

I'm not too sure about it!
Sometimes, marriage can destroy one's life!


No. Marriage do not destroy people's lives. Only people's selfishness destroy their lives. That you have live 20-something or 30-something years being one way when you were single doesn't necessarily mean you have to be the same way after you get married. it is all about compromise lady. if you do not want to compromise, then that is when you feel as if your life is crumbled. marriage is a very easy thing to handle. Just PEOPLE choose to make it a hard knock life.
Oh to answer your question, it is necessary that we humans get married. You can't tell me you will live the rest of your life without have sex since you aren't married...OR do you plan to commit adultery continuously the rest of your life. maybe you want to die a virgin???I don't think so.

Sex is not mandatory, one could live without it with no problems!
I'm against sleeping around, so judge yourself!
And I really don't see marriage as being necessary, and yes,I hate to compromise
and to take all kind of craps a dude may serve!
So, everybody is choosing what's the best for them!


Sorry to say this but you sound like you have some personal issues. If you hate to compromise then that means you are a selfish person... So Selfish=Can never be happily married=Live your life in misery and loneliness=Die a painful death.


Sorry hun... just had to tell it like it is.

That's your opinion, and it's far from the reality!
If I hate to compromise, that doesn't mean at all that I'm selfish (what kind of thinking is that  ??) ,
but I can't compromise to the extend to nullify myself! That would mean living a miserable life!
Loneliness is not bitter when one chooses to be so!
I rather live my life alone than with a guy who thinks that everything revolves around him,
and treats his wife as she would be his slave, and expecting her to overlook all his craps!
That would be a life lived in misery, my friend!


Wanting to have it your way at all times is called SELFISHNESS young lady. When you can not compromise to keep things going in your marriage, it is called SELFISHNESS. When the man is the one always giving in to your demands just to make you happy, I wonder what you call that..... SELFISHNESS. When you do not want to get married just because you do not want to go half way with your spouse, it is called SELFISHNESS. Again selfish people are usually miserable because at the end of the day, friends become scarce and you end up living your life in misery. Young lady, I want you to think about what you do for a second. Get out of your head and think smart.

Posted: at 28-08-2010 03:45 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 28-08-2010 03:52 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-08-2010 03:45 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 28-08-2010 08:31 AM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-08-2010 08:21 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 28-08-2010 07:12 AM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 27-08-2010 10:28 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 25-08-2010 11:01 AM
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on 25-08-2010 09:54 AM
mmmhhh, its ur choice gurl, u can remain single if u think it wil make u happy but bliv me a time wil wen u wish u were married

I'm not too sure about it!
Sometimes, marriage can destroy one's life!


No. Marriage do not destroy people's lives. Only people's selfishness destroy their lives. That you have live 20-something or 30-something years being one way when you were single doesn't necessarily mean you have to be the same way after you get married. it is all about compromise lady. if you do not want to compromise, then that is when you feel as if your life is crumbled. marriage is a very easy thing to handle. Just PEOPLE choose to make it a hard knock life.
Oh to answer your question, it is necessary that we humans get married. You can't tell me you will live the rest of your life without have sex since you aren't married...OR do you plan to commit adultery continuously the rest of your life. maybe you want to die a virgin???I don't think so.

Sex is not mandatory, one could live without it with no problems!
I'm against sleeping around, so judge yourself!
And I really don't see marriage as being necessary, and yes,I hate to compromise
and to take all kind of craps a dude may serve!
So, everybody is choosing what's the best for them!


Sorry to say this but you sound like you have some personal issues. If you hate to compromise then that means you are a selfish person... So Selfish=Can never be happily married=Live your life in misery and loneliness=Die a painful death.


Sorry hun... just had to tell it like it is.

That's your opinion, and it's far from the reality!
If I hate to compromise, that doesn't mean at all that I'm selfish (what kind of thinking is that  ??) ,
but I can't compromise to the extend to nullify myself! That would mean living a miserable life!
Loneliness is not bitter when one chooses to be so!
I rather live my life alone than with a guy who thinks that everything revolves around him,
and treats his wife as she would be his slave, and expecting her to overlook all his craps!
That would be a life lived in misery, my friend!


Wanting to have it your way at all times is called SELFISHNESS young lady. When you can not compromise to keep things going in your marriage, it is called SELFISHNESS. When the man is the one always giving in to your demands just to make you happy, I wonder what you call that..... SELFISHNESS. When you do not want to get married just because you do not want to go half way with your spouse, it is called SELFISHNESS. Again selfish people are usually miserable because at the end of the day, friends become scarce and you end up living your life in misery. Young lady, I want you to think about what you do for a second. Get out of your head and think smart.

I think smarter than u'll ever think, pal!
You don't know absolutely anything about me or my life,so keep your absurd comments for yourself, ok?

Posted: at 28-08-2010 03:52 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- typicalman84 at 28-08-2010 03:59 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 28-08-2010 03:52 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-08-2010 03:45 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 28-08-2010 08:31 AM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-08-2010 08:21 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 28-08-2010 07:12 AM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 27-08-2010 10:28 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 25-08-2010 11:01 AM
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on 25-08-2010 09:54 AM
mmmhhh, its ur choice gurl, u can remain single if u think it wil make u happy but bliv me a time wil wen u wish u were married

I'm not too sure about it!
Sometimes, marriage can destroy one's life!


No. Marriage do not destroy people's lives. Only people's selfishness destroy their lives. That you have live 20-something or 30-something years being one way when you were single doesn't necessarily mean you have to be the same way after you get married. it is all about compromise lady. if you do not want to compromise, then that is when you feel as if your life is crumbled. marriage is a very easy thing to handle. Just PEOPLE choose to make it a hard knock life.
Oh to answer your question, it is necessary that we humans get married. You can't tell me you will live the rest of your life without have sex since you aren't married...OR do you plan to commit adultery continuously the rest of your life. maybe you want to die a virgin???I don't think so.

Sex is not mandatory, one could live without it with no problems!
I'm against sleeping around, so judge yourself!
And I really don't see marriage as being necessary, and yes,I hate to compromise
and to take all kind of craps a dude may serve!
So, everybody is choosing what's the best for them!


Sorry to say this but you sound like you have some personal issues. If you hate to compromise then that means you are a selfish person... So Selfish=Can never be happily married=Live your life in misery and loneliness=Die a painful death.


Sorry hun... just had to tell it like it is.

That's your opinion, and it's far from the reality!
If I hate to compromise, that doesn't mean at all that I'm selfish (what kind of thinking is that  ??) ,
but I can't compromise to the extend to nullify myself! That would mean living a miserable life!
Loneliness is not bitter when one chooses to be so!
I rather live my life alone than with a guy who thinks that everything revolves around him,
and treats his wife as she would be his slave, and expecting her to overlook all his craps!
That would be a life lived in misery, my friend!


Wanting to have it your way at all times is called SELFISHNESS young lady. When you can not compromise to keep things going in your marriage, it is called SELFISHNESS. When the man is the one always giving in to your demands just to make you happy, I wonder what you call that..... SELFISHNESS. When you do not want to get married just because you do not want to go half way with your spouse, it is called SELFISHNESS. Again selfish people are usually miserable because at the end of the day, friends become scarce and you end up living your life in misery. Young lady, I want you to think about what you do for a second. Get out of your head and think smart.

I think smarter than u'll ever think, pal!
You don't know absolutely anything about me or my life,so keep your absurd comments for yourself, ok?

Okie Dokie! If you say so lady.

Posted: at 28-08-2010 03:59 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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