Is marriage really necessary? (Page 34)

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Posted: at 23-09-2010 09:21 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

It all depend on what you want

Advantages are:
The ability to love and receive love in return.
The best way to have great, wonderful and guiltless sex.
Marriage provides some sort of security (especially for women), having someone who loves and chooses to support you financially is also a great advantage (don't you think?).
To have someone to love unconditionally until death parts you.
Marriage helps you to be tolerant, unselfish and caring.
You don't have to worry about the dating game any more.

Disadvantages
Sex with only one person for the rest of your life. For some people, it is unfair to have sex with only one person!
Everything you own belongs to her and vice-versa
The sacrifices or compromises you have to make in order to get along with your in-laws who particularly get on your nerves
You have to give up so much of your freedom in order to stay married
You cannot afford to spend your own money at will because you have a family to support
Having to live with the same person (who sometimes annoys or bores you to tears) for the rest of your life
You cannot afford to be selfish, self-centred, self-conceited and inconsiderate anymore
Marriage has lots of advantages and the disadvantages (if you choose) can be outweighed by the many advantages of marriage.

In all, marriage has a lot of advantages and disadvantages, just weigh it and make your choice

Posted: at 23-09-2010 11:29 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

@Bittersweet

Advantages
The ability to love and receive love in return. This is when the man love the woman and vice versa. Questionable how?

Marriage provides some sort of security (especially for women), having someone who loves and chooses to support you financially is also a great advantage (don't you think?). 98% of women really need that.

You don't have to worry about the dating game any more. That is how it should be, but it is really boring  and men can't abide by that rule so they only find an assistant to help her.       

Disadvantages
The sacrifices or compromises you have to make in order to get along with your in-laws who particularly get on your nerves
You have to give up so much of your freedom in order to stay married. Some in-laws are nasty and are parasite, so that is 100% correct.

Posted: at 23-09-2010 12:10 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

@Bittersweet

The ability to love and receive love in return. This is when the man love the woman and vice versa. Questionable how?That love can change in time, or even turn out that it wasn't real love at all! That means they are stupid in the first place to marry.

Posted: at 23-09-2010 12:30 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Marriage can be somehow difficult but that should not give the conclusion that it is not necessary

Posted: at 23-09-2010 12:50 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

There is no peace in being single, your companion is boredom & anguish

Posted: at 23-09-2010 03:40 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

is better to be single

Posted: at 23-09-2010 06:21 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

 

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Posted: at 23-09-2010 06:35 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

it is necessary,cuz if our parents all thought this way we will not even be existing to think of not getting married.

Posted: at 23-09-2010 11:02 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

dont be doubting thomus  blessed are those who did not see and believe

Posted: at 24-09-2010 05:24 AM (13 years ago) | Hero