I once knew a guy who said he didn't want to get married, he told me that he would like to give the woman the opportunity/chance to walk out whenever she pleased.I thought this was very wrong, he said they would live together in the same house unmarried?he said if she loved him she would agree to this.I asked what about my parents?he said if they come to the house and see how happy we are toghether they would not object?
We'll i think he was being selfish and i know he loves 2 F*ck a lot u won't belivee wat d guy said next to me that he made the most blasphemous offer to me that we can get married but it wouldn't be real wtf? crazyy b******.
Can u live with some1 without eva getting married to them?
Can u sacrifice ur dream for the one u love?
What exactly is the meaning of marriage?
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
Posted: at 30-08-2010 03:40 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
a couple lived together for 28yrs....only got married just last three yrs, they are in their 60s presently, still together. it's very common, nothing earth shattering abt it.
Posted: at 30-08-2010 03:46 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
PreetyInstinct at 30-08-2010 03:48 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Lolz it is 2 me maybe because i do wnat 2 get married?
But wat if he neds up walking out on me?it's different for women ooo and wat about kids?
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
Posted: at 30-08-2010 03:48 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
PreetyInstinct at 30-08-2010 03:48 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: PreetyInstinct on 30-08-2010 03:48 PM
Lolz it is 2 me maybe because i do want 2 get married?
But wat if he ends up walking out on me?it's different for women ooo and wat about kids?
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
Posted: at 30-08-2010 03:48 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
PreetyInstinct at 30-08-2010 03:50 PM (13 years ago) (f)
I think it's risky 4 a woman.
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
Posted: at 30-08-2010 03:50 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
PreetyInstinct at 30-08-2010 03:52 PM (13 years ago) (f)
What's the guarantee that this person will keep to there promise?
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
Posted: at 30-08-2010 03:52 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
PreetyInstinct at 30-08-2010 03:53 PM (13 years ago) (f)
I don't think it's a very respectful thing 2 do.
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
Posted: at 30-08-2010 03:53 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
some couples stay longer in r/s wit such arrangement, once they tie d knots! give them 12mths, they are divorced. some ppl feel choked up in marriage arrangement, but feel very comfortable in partner-live-in-love arrangement. and it work out for them pretty well.(mostly Europeans)
not African way!
Posted: at 30-08-2010 03:55 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
PreetyInstinct at 30-08-2010 04:04 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: mazi on 30-08-2010 03:55 PM
some couples stay longer in r/s wit such arrangement, once they tie d knots! give them 12mths, they are divorced. some ppl feel choked up in marriage arrangement, but feel very comfortable in partner-live-in-love arrangement. and it work out for them pretty well.(mostly Europeans)
not African way!
R they rebelious?or just desperate? y would they make such a desicion?
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
Posted: at 30-08-2010 04:04 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
Two people who agree to cohabit without the commitment should not be trusted. They don't want to commit so their short comings will be excusable. They don't want their consciences bugging them if/when they decide to act irresponsibly. They want to live wantonly and still enjoy certain privileges of marriage.
In my opinion it's just self deception and stupidity on low levels.
Posted: at 30-08-2010 04:09 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
PreetyInstinct at 30-08-2010 04:15 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: humblej on 30-08-2010 03:45 PM
Yes one can scarifies his or her dreams just for the one loved, I can if really the person worth it.
But will not accept the condition of living together without being married
Because?
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
Posted: at 30-08-2010 04:15 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
PreetyInstinct at 30-08-2010 04:17 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Reason being?
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
Posted: at 30-08-2010 04:17 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
some couples stay longer in r/s wit such arrangement, once they tie d knots! give them 12mths, they are divorced. some ppl feel choked up in marriage arrangement, but feel very comfortable in partner-live-in-love arrangement. and it work out for them pretty well.(mostly Europeans)
not African way!
R they rebelious?or just desperate? y would they make such a desicion?
non of ur above mention concerns! it's all abt comfortability,accommodation and happiness. they live a family life, kids and all. the only difference is not tying knots. even Africans hv joined d bandwagon.
Posted: at 30-08-2010 04:18 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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u won't belivee wat d guy said next to me that he made the most blasphemous offer to me that we can get married but it wouldn't be real wtf? 
crazyy b******. 
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