Unmarried But Married? (Page 3)

Date: 30-08-2010 3:40 pm (13 years ago) | Author: PreetyInstinct
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- PreetyInstinct at 30-08-2010 07:51 PM (13 years ago)
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I think Huh?

Posted: at 30-08-2010 07:51 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- akjasper at 30-08-2010 08:08 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: PreetyInstinct on 30-08-2010 03:40 PM
I once knew a guy who said he didn't want to get married, he told me that he would like to give the woman the opportunity/chance to walk out whenever she pleased.I thought this was very wrong, he said they would live together in the same house unmarried?he said if she loved him she would agree to this.I asked what about my parents?he said if they come to the house and see how happy we are toghether they would not object?

We'll i think he was being selfish and i know he loves 2 F*ck a lot Cheesy Lips Sealed u won't belivee wat d guy said next to me that he made the most blasphemous offer to me that we can get married but it wouldn't be real wtf? Shocked crazyy b******.  Angry Angry Sad

Can u live with some1 without eva getting married to them?

Can u sacrifice ur dream for the one u love?

What exactly is the meaning of marriage?


3 Questions at a go..huh...

1st,Well cohabiting aint good and i can't do dat.....

2condly,...I can never sacrifice my dream for the one i love....

Last question......I guess  mum/dad stand better chance to explain.
Posted: at 30-08-2010 08:08 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- PreetyInstinct at 30-08-2010 08:13 PM (13 years ago)
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Ok, but fortunatelly mum & dad will not marry 4 u so tell us. Smiley

Posted: at 30-08-2010 08:13 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- akjasper at 30-08-2010 08:30 PM (13 years ago)
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You shld ask dem........Cos it seems U dnt knw

Not moi .
Posted: at 30-08-2010 08:30 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- moneyinbrakemi at 30-08-2010 08:37 PM (13 years ago)
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THAT'S A COSTLY/EXPENSIVE JOKE THAT I CAN NEVER PLAY IN MY LIFETIME
Posted: at 30-08-2010 08:37 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- PreetyInstinct at 30-08-2010 11:10 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: akjasper on 30-08-2010 08:30 PM
You shld ask dem........Cos it seems U dnt knw

Not moi .

Wat has this got 2 do wif me? *smh*

Posted: at 30-08-2010 11:10 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- kayfem at 31-08-2010 04:14 AM (13 years ago)
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ahhhhhhhhhh! time up i no feel answer type now lol
Posted: at 31-08-2010 04:14 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- tmusowoya at 31-08-2010 08:45 AM (13 years ago)
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I'm thinking ... why would a genuine woman sink that low. I get it! Desperation and ZERO self esteem! As a man, I'm on my knees to all women here. Please my sisters you're worth much much .... much more than that!!!! 
Posted: at 31-08-2010 08:45 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Treasure2 at 31-08-2010 08:56 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: tmusowoya on 31-08-2010 08:45 AM
I'm thinking ... why would a genuine woman sink that low. I get it! Desperation and ZERO self esteem! As a man, I'm on my knees to all women here. Please my sisters you're worth much much .... much more than that!!!! 

Thanks alot for this peace. If only they will hear!!!!!
Posted: at 31-08-2010 08:56 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- peaceben at 31-08-2010 09:02 AM (13 years ago)
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is your life and not mine ok.
Posted: at 31-08-2010 09:02 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Agatex at 31-08-2010 09:26 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 30-08-2010 04:16 PM
I CANT live with a man am not married to who is not my relation.......no two ways about it!


GBAM
Posted: at 31-08-2010 09:26 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Adikpe at 31-08-2010 10:04 AM (13 years ago)
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LIVING TOGETHER WHILE WE ARE NOT
MARRIED? WHAT FOR?

I CAN'T DO THAT.
Posted: at 31-08-2010 10:04 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- esonu at 31-08-2010 10:14 AM (13 years ago)
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yes

Posted: at 31-08-2010 10:14 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Alex11 at 31-08-2010 01:50 PM (13 years ago)
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Living together without marriage puts the girl or lady in danger, and if there is love what is hoding them not to married?
Posted: at 31-08-2010 01:50 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- tmusowoya at 31-08-2010 03:18 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Bettychy on 30-08-2010 05:20 PM
It might be too early for me to respond to this question with yes or no,
but that is very common today NOT in Africa, but in other cotinents.
In countries like Germany..., it`s a>> "social responsibility"<< that latest, at the age of 16, one should have a lover (boy/girlfriend). It`s equally expected that between the ages of 18 & 22, one should move out of the family house into his/her own home (quit unlike the African/Asian tradition).

At this time, its normal either to move into your boyfriend`s- or your girlfriend`s  apartment as the case may be or you guys `ll arrange for one together. In most cases, the parents pay for the apartment.
Statistics say, the number of unmarried couples is almost 3times the number of married couples there.

In some countries, once you move in together, you`re legally seen by the state as couple: married or not.

Here in Nigeria, I know a few persons, who have lived with their boyfriends for some years now.
They`re financially independent of each other but understand each other very good.
They`re just happy & comfortable together unmarried.


You need to set standards for yourself and be disciplined to live by them. Or somebody else will do that 4 u and hey u don't want to be in that situation?
Posted: at 31-08-2010 03:18 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Mistura at 31-08-2010 03:27 PM (13 years ago)
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i cant even sleep under his roof for a night if we re not married, not to talk of living togeda.

its cheapens d lady.

Posted: at 31-08-2010 03:27 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- tsin at 31-08-2010 03:40 PM (13 years ago)
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it cheapens the lady, i dont think guys have anything to loss in this type of relaionship

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- solid_solid at 31-08-2010 04:22 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Alex11 on 31-08-2010 01:50 PM
Living together without marriage puts the girl or lady in danger, and if there is love what is hoding them not to married?

my guy ask them oooo ....
Posted: at 31-08-2010 04:22 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- esonu at 31-08-2010 04:24 PM (13 years ago)
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Huh?Huh?

Posted: at 31-08-2010 04:24 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Beauti4 at 31-08-2010 04:29 PM (13 years ago)
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these kinda pple are never vulnerable at all. selfishness in the highest order. i shall not obey this kind of stupidiological acts abeg.
Posted: at 31-08-2010 04:29 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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