![-]( "mezkaz18") mezkaz18 at 8-09-2010 07:51 AM (13 years ago)  (m) I think its wrong for a nigerian woman to ask her spouse to wash the plates. Dont ask him just wash ur own and leave his. I tnk God t hat in holland if u were the one who cooked the meal and the rest was chilling that automatically means they are wash the plates. xD [/qu Wetin You dey do their .?  good adviser | Posted: at 8-09-2010 07:51 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "bookai") bookai at 8-09-2010 08:21 AM (13 years ago) (f) well, in my own opinion, i can never ask him 2 do it, i am d lady n am in charge of dat.. | Posted: at 8-09-2010 08:21 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Adikpe") Adikpe at 8-09-2010 08:45 AM (13 years ago) (m) Nothing is wrong with that, but she shouldn't
be the one to ask him to do so. The guy can
do it if he feels like helping her.
Any girl who thinks that, it is right to ask her
spouse to wash the plates after eating, should
also know that she doesn't have the fear of God.
I have done it before, but I did it willingly,
she didn't ask me to do so. | Posted: at 8-09-2010 08:45 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "esonu") esonu at 8-09-2010 09:28 AM (13 years ago) (m) lolz
CHILDREN ARE BORN BUT MEN ARE MADE;THE GOLD THAT WILL BE REFINED MUST PASS THROUGH THE FURNACE.WORDS | Posted: at 8-09-2010 09:28 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "isdyroyal") isdyroyal at 8-09-2010 09:50 AM (13 years ago) (f) washing plate will not make him not to be the bread winner of the family, with one minute or 2 he will wash his plate and go his way especially when the spouse says pls help me tidy, there's no big deal there afterall we ought to help each other in the house of a thing whether african man or non africa, building a home is from both not just for the woman to work and die.  | Posted: at 8-09-2010 09:50 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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MEN HOW WOULD U FEEL IF AFTER EATING, UR SPOUSE COMES CLOSER TO YOU AND SAY "HONEY PLS AM VERY TIRED, JUST HELP ME AND TIDY UP DE PLATES"..WILL U DO IT OR U WILL SCOLD HER AND DECIDE NOT TO GRANT HER REQUEST.....
LADIES WILL U HAVE DE GUTS TO ASK UR SPOUSE TO WASH DE PLATES WHICH YOU BOTH USED IN EATING? !!!!!!!!!!UR OPINIONS PLSSSSSSSSSSSSS
O BOY! This one funny O::: ANYWAY: It depends on the approach.
If approaches me3 with a commanding voice;i will object and talk some sense into her anyway i can!
BUT if the approach is polite,I will succumb after she is my wife and not my slave | Posted: at 8-09-2010 09:55 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "anonymous2") anonymous2 at 8-09-2010 10:07 AM (13 years ago) (f) MEN HOW WOULD U FEEL IF AFTER EATING, UR SPOUSE COMES CLOSER TO YOU AND SAY "HONEY PLS AM VERY TIRED, JUST HELP ME AND TIDY UP DE PLATES"..WILL U DO IT OR U WILL SCOLD HER AND DECIDE NOT TO GRANT HER REQUEST.....
LADIES WILL U HAVE DE GUTS TO ASK UR SPOUSE TO WASH DE PLATES WHICH YOU BOTH USED IN EATING? !!!!!!!!!!UR OPINIONS PLSSSSSSSSSSSSS
wats d big deal if i ask him to do dat
Dnt like me? Have a sit with the rest of the bitches waitin for me to give a 4k | Posted: at 8-09-2010 10:07 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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MEN HOW WOULD U FEEL IF AFTER EATING, UR SPOUSE COMES CLOSER TO YOU AND SAY "HONEY PLS AM VERY TIRED, JUST HELP ME AND TIDY UP DE PLATES"..WILL U DO IT OR U WILL SCOLD HER AND DECIDE NOT TO GRANT HER REQUEST.....
LADIES WILL U HAVE DE GUTS TO ASK UR SPOUSE TO WASH DE PLATES WHICH YOU BOTH USED IN EATING? !!!!!!!!!!UR OPINIONS PLSSSSSSSSSSSSS
wats d big deal if i ask him to do dat That's weird | Posted: at 8-09-2010 10:09 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "kason") kason at 8-09-2010 11:04 AM (13 years ago) (m) when a child want to insult his father he will say lion fether, weman in cos of ur hoseband loving u as his only wife then u plan to ragg him in the dust.each of one of u have role to play in the family so dont violet it .allelse the understanding in that aspect is there. u as my wife shouled know what u all not to ask me. someday she will ask me to watsh her pantie cos she is tired.ev she is my wife i will repalce her wit prostitude that respect me . | Posted: at 8-09-2010 11:04 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "cadanre") cadanre at 8-09-2010 11:24 AM (13 years ago) (f) I will definitely wash more than dishes/plates for my wife. She no doubt deserve more than that and at least, one has to find a way of showing to his dear wife that he more than care for and respect her. I will do all sorts of housework for my wife, most especially when she is pregnant. I can even bathe her (I am serious). She is my wife, we are part of each other. I want her to know that I love her and we are one, and that anything possible to releave her of her heavy housework burden, I am indebted to help her with it. That is a true love, and a true marital relationship. In marriege affairs, husband has to be acting in many different ways. Sometimes like a father, a husband himself, sometimes like a servant to his queen, while sometimes one has to behave like her bodyguard. MY WIFE MEANS EVERYTHING TO ME AND DESERVES MORE THAN WASHING PLATES OR DOING DISHES FOR HER.
IN ZAKA FADI, FADI GASKIYA, KOMAI TA JA MA A YI MAKA | Posted: at 8-09-2010 11:24 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Treasure2") Treasure2 at 8-09-2010 11:27 AM (13 years ago) (f) when a child want to insult his father he will say lion fether, weman in cos of ur hoseband loving u as his only wife then u plan to ragg him in the dust.each of one of u have role to play in the family so dont violet it .allelse the understanding in that aspect is there.
u as my wife shouled know what u all not to ask me. someday she will ask me to watsh her pantie cos she is tired.ev she is my wife i will repalce her wit prostitude that respect me .
hmmmmm | Posted: at 8-09-2010 11:27 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "esonu") esonu at 8-09-2010 11:31 AM (13 years ago) (m) when a child want to insult his father he will say lion fether, weman in cos of ur hoseband loving u as his only wife then u plan to ragg him in the dust.each of one of u have role to play in the family so dont violet it .allelse the understanding in that aspect is there.
u as my wife shouled know what u all not to ask me. someday she will ask me to watsh her pantie cos she is tired.ev she is my wife i will repalce her wit prostitude that respect me .
hehehehehehehehehe like ur lyrics man...dont allow a woman to rule u
CHILDREN ARE BORN BUT MEN ARE MADE;THE GOLD THAT WILL BE REFINED MUST PASS THROUGH THE FURNACE.WORDS | Posted: at 8-09-2010 11:31 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "uzjosh") uzjosh at 8-09-2010 12:03 PM (13 years ago) (m) love conquer's every thing, with love nothing is imposible so if there is love betwen them then the man wil accept the offer with good faith.......... | Posted: at 8-09-2010 12:03 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "xter") xter at 8-09-2010 12:09 PM (13 years ago) (m) Abi i don wash am ni?
Here comes d Great King Xtervaganza  | Posted: at 8-09-2010 12:09 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Yes!MUST! It's common sense to clean after yourself! Nobody is a slave for nobody! I was brought up in a family where we all responsible for cleaning our own dishes unless it is a family meal- in which case someone is assigned to do the dishes. Thats the way I plan on running my OWN family. Now, if my husband is acting like doing dishes is way above him what is he teaching our kids? So I agree with the bitter-sweet...he has gotta to do it. As a reasonable man (I'm assuming my hubby will be), if approached right, he should agree with this. Especially given that I hate seeing a pile of dirty dishes | Posted: at 8-09-2010 12:17 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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The unfortunate irony of your post is that you would be the first person to crucify your sister-in-law if she referred to herself as a "maid" for washing dishes.You are the same person that will drag angels from the heavens and uproot demons from hell if a daughter-in-law tried such.
Pathetic!
NB : When a guy doesn't play his role as the man of the house, he's called a lazy slob/failure in life but when a woman washes dishes, she's now a "maid".How wonderful.These are the "blessings" of feminism.
What a pity!
You either know me very well or you've met my sister-in-law (I don't have one). Speak for yourself, you don't know me. My mother raised a man not an idiot. I will not raise an idiot. Your manhood is not determined by how much a woman can serve or respect you. If you think that after a woman cooks, serves you, clears the plate it is wrong for you to assist in washing up because it is not a man's role, good for you. Goodluck to you and the woman you marry. You can scold a maid that says she is too tired and needs your assistance to wash your dishes because you pay her not your wife who is asking for assistance after she has cooked and served you. I am not a feminist. [/quote]hey gurl you write so eloquent and descret,i feel your points so so much,i have not made any coments on this post but i have read through peoples opinion.i would say at this point that i agree with to a reasonable extent but pls try to reduce ur emotion in issues like this, i hope you get where your emotions was felt?A man is not a man because of his man hood,what makes him man cuts across taking responsibilty of the subject matter here when the need arises.i wash the dishes when the need arises,and it does not reduce me in any way,i even find joy in keeping my home clean with or without a woman.have a nice day! | Posted: at 8-09-2010 12:27 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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well quite sure it ain't a bad idea 4 ur spouse 2 help out..bt d way sum gurlz show dere pride here is disgustin..we surely gonna abide by our tradition coz we ain't gonna forfeit it 4 sum pples tradition..u c dats y marriage doesn't last dz dayz coz of d western life style our gurlz r imbibing in2 demselves all in d name of civilization..da devorce rate now is very high compare 2 our fada's dayz coz of dz fin dey called civilization.. olwayz trying 2 copy frm d white man..
how is it that MOST men remember tradition when it suits them. Below are the traditions of men VS women roles - Men provide food, cloths, pocket money, shelter, school fees, holidays and general upkeep of the family. This means no splitting of bills whatsoever. He should also adopt his wife's family and provide for them financially - Women take care of the home, kids n hubby...this includes house chores etc. She adopts his family n help them cook, clean etc e.g. during major events (parties etc), or provide care for the elderly. depending on how far her in-laws lives, do the chores there too. - Part of tradition also means marrying b4 sex so no modern short-cuts there. I cant think of anything else but I am sure there are more | Posted: at 8-09-2010 12:31 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "osifekoa") osifekoa at 8-09-2010 12:36 PM (13 years ago) (m) IF MAN SHULD WASH PLATES AT HOME,NO WAHALA,EVRYTIN IN THE HOUSE WIL B 50/50,SHE WIL PAY 50 % OF THE HOUSE RENT,SHE WIL BRING 50% OF THE MONEY FOR FOOD STUFF E.T.C . THO,THERE IS NOTHIN WRONG HELPIN OUT,BUT IT SHULDN'T B THE ODA OF THE DAY,PLS | Posted: at 8-09-2010 12:36 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Yes!MUST! It's common sense to clean after yourself! Nobody is a slave for nobody! Oh yeah, i got your points very clear! You know what, a typical African man will never want to wash his plate after eating. Traditionally he believe that the woman should take care of all the domestic activities. And him the man provides for the family as the bread winner ! I see! Well, we don't have this problem here,with our guys. Moreover, I know many families where the women bring much more money home then their men,so. .. in that case, who is the bread winner? Lol, In this case the woman is actually the bread winner!. But the man here is to be seen as the head in the family by the woman. Sorry, it's not at all my way of seeing things! Hiaa!!! then which is your way of seeing things? You don't want to know!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 8-09-2010 12:48 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Yes!MUST! It's common sense to clean after yourself! Nobody is a slave for nobody! I was brought up in a family where we all responsible for cleaning our own dishes unless it is a family meal- in which case someone is assigned to do the dishes. Thats the way I plan on running my OWN family. Now, if my husband is acting like doing dishes is way above him what is he teaching our kids? So I agree with the bitter-sweet...he has gotta to do it. As a reasonable man (I'm assuming my hubby will be), if approached right, he should agree with this. Especially given that I hate seeing a pile of dirty dishes Good way of seeing things, dear! 
Live and let live! | Posted: at 8-09-2010 12:50 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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