Yes!MUST! It's common sense to clean after yourself! Nobody is a slave for nobody! Oh yeah, i got your points very clear! You know what, a typical African man will never want to wash his plate after eating. Traditionally he believe that the woman should take care of all the domestic activities. And him the man provides for the family as the bread winner !  I see! Well, we don't have this problem here,with our guys. Moreover, I know many families where the women bring much more money home then their men,so. .. in that case, who is the bread winner?  no wonder divorce is on the increase from ur own part of the world
Oh,yeah?
How do you know that? Have you lived here?
Don't jump in conclusions without having the facts!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 8-09-2010 12:52 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Yes!MUST! It's common sense to clean after yourself! Nobody is a slave for nobody! Oh yeah, i got your points very clear! You know what, a typical African man will never want to wash his plate after eating. Traditionally he believe that the woman should take care of all the domestic activities. And him the man provides for the family as the bread winner ! I see! Well, we don't have this problem here,with our guys. Moreover, I know many families where the women bring much more money home then their men,so. .. in that case, who is the bread winner? no wonder divorce is on the increase from ur own part of the world Oh,yeah? How do you know that? Have you lived here? Don't jump in conclusions without having the facts! this naijapals shud be called jumpin pals....too many people jump into conclusions around here | Posted: at 8-09-2010 12:56 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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You're right! It's really tiresome! 
Live and let live! | Posted: at 8-09-2010 12:58 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "tyabo") tyabo at 8-09-2010 01:21 PM (14 years ago)  (m) lol, from a lot of the posts I'm reading on this site I think a few Nigerian men are confusing their wives and girlfriends as maids. ok so a woman cooks for you,you eat, she probably clears the table by herself while you sit down watching T.V and drinking beer ( because thats what maids do right... errm sorry women) and then for whatever reason, she is tired and then ask that you to help with the dishes and you think she should be scolded for that  lol wow. Yes I would ask, I hope I wont find the man that I would have to ask in the first place. The unfortunate irony of your post is that you would be the first person to crucify your sister-in-law if she referred to herself as a "maid" for washing dishes.You are the same person that will drag angels from the heavens and uproot demons from hell if a daughter-in-law tried such. Pathetic! NB : When a guy doesn't play his role as the man of the house, he's called a lazy slob/failure in life but when a woman washes dishes, she's now a "maid".How wonderful.These are the "blessings" of feminism. What a pity! no mind her jaree..allow her make she dey run mouth dere.. | Posted: at 8-09-2010 01:21 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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r we still on d dish washin??
When u dont work, and u r home as a housewife...afta ur hubby come home, why he still hav to do dishes??
U think tht is normal??
Even when u both work, there r tins a man can help u with, but oda tins pls do it urself | Posted: at 8-09-2010 01:24 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "tyabo") tyabo at 8-09-2010 01:24 PM (14 years ago) (m) Well,I see no reason why I should ask my husband to wash the plates.how tired can a woman be, not to be able to wash two people's plates?.which kind laziness be tht one.
@onyin Na man u be or Na shemale? And wat has tht got to do wit you?. Oyin no mind am he as been brain washed by his woman..  | Posted: at 8-09-2010 01:24 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "tyabo") tyabo at 8-09-2010 01:33 PM (14 years ago) (m) sure...abi he no get hand
infact he must
dz part of wot we r talking about sum pple r jst arrogant 2 dere husband. quite sure its nt a bad idea 4 him 2 wash da dishes bt 4 dz kinda statement MUST den u've failed unless he is being brain washed if nt so no man wit his ryt senses will take such order frm a woman..later on now dey will b d 1 praying 2 God 4 a husband. mshccceeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwww.. | Posted: at 8-09-2010 01:33 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "onyin") onyin at 8-09-2010 01:35 PM (14 years ago) (f) r we still on d dish washin??
When u dont work, and u r home as a housewife...afta ur hubby come home, why he still hav to do dishes??
U think tht is normal??
Even when u both work, there r tins a man can help u with, but oda tins pls do it urself
Your husband is a lucky man.Tht's a real tlk.Its little things like this tht do leads to divorce in most marriages,just lil things tht makes no sense. | Posted: at 8-09-2010 01:35 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyin") onyin at 8-09-2010 01:37 PM (14 years ago) (f) Well,I see no reason why I should ask my husband to wash the plates.how tired can a woman be, not to be able to wash two people's plates?.which kind laziness be tht one.
@onyin Na man u be or Na shemale? And wat has tht got to do wit you?. Oyin no mind am he as been brain washed by his woman.. Yea, i know.  | Posted: at 8-09-2010 01:37 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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@ tyabo, i follow u for tht...When i wud tell my hubby, u must do d dishes 
@onyin, thx luvv...but its true na, these small small tins can create big problem later on...
U wan tell ur kids, mom and dad broke up over dish washin problem, abeg ooo | Posted: at 8-09-2010 01:39 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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@ tyabo, i follow u for tht...When i wud tell my hubby, u must do d dishes
@onyin, thx luvv...but its true na, these small small tins can create big problem later on...
U wan tell ur kids, mom and dad broke up over dish washin problem, abeg ooo You be correct girl... thumbs up!
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 8-09-2010 01:40 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "tyabo") tyabo at 8-09-2010 01:44 PM (14 years ago) (m) wft...why wont ma hubby wash da plates and even cook, and take care of our kids....marriage is all about unity and helpin ur wife or hubby when it is needed, our african culture is really fcukin up wat marriage is really about
and pls also remember that in da new age we dont have house maids and gettin one is alot of money and even a babysitter is not a joke...buh anyways dis is just how i feel
i will do anythin for ma hubby and he will do anythin for me, that doesnt mean i wont respect him and honor him as da man of da house
MAN'S EGO is not a good thin at times
just adding ma own opinion
nd WTF do u fink ur saying huh ? insulting our own tradition bcoz whitemen av made u so dumb 2 d xtent of u insultin ur tradition wot a pity u don't knw where u came frm sorry 2 say so bt i jst gat 2..nd d issue of u sayin our african tradition is 4kn up marriages den i fink u nid 2 c a psychologist cuz dere is no simple truth here..jst check out da divorce rate of d westerners compare 2 dat of Africans.nd ours even got a lil bit high wen u gurlz begin 2 practice d whiteman's lyf style..damn it.... | Posted: at 8-09-2010 01:44 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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aaah typical man, we agree again 
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Tyabo take it easy dear...
But i hav to say u r right....unfortunatly for my own pipo we hav 2 much divorce over here....
Cuz they always think, tins r betta on d oda side....untill they cant find no more....
Tht is why i respect African (Nigerian) culture a lot... not 1 case i knw of divorce among all my friends and pipo i knw... | Posted: at 8-09-2010 01:47 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "onyin") onyin at 8-09-2010 01:51 PM (14 years ago) (f) Tyabo take it easy dear...
But i hav to say u r right....unfortunatly for my own pipo we hav 2 much divorce over here....
Cuz they always think, tins r betta on d oda side....untill they cant find no more....
Tht is why i respect African (Nigerian) culture a lot... not 1 case i knw of divorce among all my friends and pipo i knw...
Awwwwwwwwwww,you are sweet. | Posted: at 8-09-2010 01:51 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Tyabo take it easy dear...
But i hav to say u r right....unfortunatly for my own pipo we hav 2 much divorce over here....
Cuz they always think, tins r betta on d oda side....untill they cant find no more....
Tht is why i respect African (Nigerian) culture a lot... not 1 case i knw of divorce among all my friends and pipo i knw...
Awwwwwwwwwww,you are sweet.  | Posted: at 8-09-2010 01:54 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "tyabo") tyabo at 8-09-2010 01:58 PM (14 years ago) (m) Tyabo take it easy dear...
But i hav to say u r right....unfortunatly for my own pipo we hav 2 much divorce over here....
Cuz they always think, tins r betta on d oda side....untill they cant find no more....
Tht is why i respect African (Nigerian) culture a lot... not 1 case i knw of divorce among all my friends and pipo i knw...
i dun hear u jaree flymama..olwayz trying 2 copy wotz nt original dere's nd later it doz back fire @ dem dats wen u will c dem blaming d devil..hw u doing ? | Posted: at 8-09-2010 01:58 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "esonu") esonu at 8-09-2010 02:05 PM (14 years ago) (m) love conquer's every thing, with love nothing is imposible so if there is love betwen them then the man wil accept the offer with good faith..........
people like u dey mumu for woman
CHILDREN ARE BORN BUT MEN ARE MADE;THE GOLD THAT WILL BE REFINED MUST PASS THROUGH THE FURNACE.WORDS | Posted: at 8-09-2010 02:05 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "tyabo") tyabo at 8-09-2010 02:07 PM (14 years ago) (m) love conquer's every thing, with love nothing is imposible so if there is love betwen them then the man wil accept the offer with good faith..........
people like u dey mumu for woman true talk | Posted: at 8-09-2010 02:07 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "esonu") esonu at 8-09-2010 02:11 PM (14 years ago) (m) lolz
CHILDREN ARE BORN BUT MEN ARE MADE;THE GOLD THAT WILL BE REFINED MUST PASS THROUGH THE FURNACE.WORDS | Posted: at 8-09-2010 02:11 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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