another delima

Date: 15-09-2010 3:33 pm (13 years ago) | Author: KINZREMEDY AKYNROTOLA OBAR.
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- at 15-09-2010 03:33 PM (13 years ago)
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i kinzremedy, i fell in love a clean black slim girl .... you know when i say in love, I MEANT IT . she always tells me she don't have anybody except me.... one faithful afternoon, i was at my former office cyber cafe, she called my phone number and asked to meet her at my own apartment (at my house).... immediately i left to meet her there.... so, we were chatting and playing (as in normal playing NOT SEX, i meant cracking  jokes).......... so, i took up her cell phone and went to her outbox straight, immediately, i saw a message she sent to a guy called DAVID. immediately i sighted the message a wept.... and she saw some tears of waters on my face, she asked me "what's wrong with you?........... i told her nothing..... immediately she collected her fone and erased the message...... and till now she is telling me that she loves me so much, that she cannot marry that DAVID but me......  i text a message to her that she has been forgiven that she should come back to my life..... she was surprised (i was serious about her coming back to me) ...... but yester 14th of sept, 2010... she accepted a call infront of me telling that person "HELLO BABY"............(at the )  I LOVE YOU......but she thought i was busying doing something else..... but i kept quite....... we have been having ****** several times........... PLZ, DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO FOR HER, I REALLY LOVE THIS GIRL SO MUCH !........................PLZ, I LOVE YOU

Posted: at 15-09-2010 03:33 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
- divineproject at 15-09-2010 03:38 PM (13 years ago)
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Well I do tell people who fall in love to get ready for HURTS..............betrayed trust here I guess.......but I dont actually know what you want me to tell you now.......

Posted: at 15-09-2010 03:38 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 15-09-2010 03:39 PM (13 years ago)
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Fall in Love but dont break yr back bones Grin Grin

Posted: at 15-09-2010 03:39 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- kinzremedy at 15-09-2010 03:44 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 15-09-2010 03:38 PM
Well I do tell people who fall in love to get ready for HURTS..............betrayed trust here I guess.......but I dont actually know what you want me to tell you now.......


plz, tell me what to do with HER ?...................... i really love her........... bcos of her, i stopped hunting for another girl
Posted: at 15-09-2010 03:44 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- blessedme at 15-09-2010 03:53 PM (13 years ago)
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stick 2 her n try witdrawing a little from her maybe she will return back to her senses
but come to think of it are u sure dis girl loves u as much as u love her?
cos if she really do she wouldnt tell another in ya presence ow much she loves him
op she is not taking u for granted sha
Posted: at 15-09-2010 03:53 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 15-09-2010 03:55 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kinzremedy on 15-09-2010 03:44 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 15-09-2010 03:38 PM
Well I do tell people who fall in love to get ready for HURTS..............betrayed trust here I guess.......but I dont actually know what you want me to tell you now.......


plz, tell me what to do with HER ?...................... i really love her........... bcos of her, i stopped hunting for another girl

If you really love someone, you will do well to bring to dat person's notice where he/she is hurting you.......both of you need to have a serious talk........it has to do with what you guys want for the future.........meanwhile you need let her know dat her actions do not correspondence with her words.......Lies kill relationships and that if it keeps happening the relationship would be as good as ended........ Heart-to-heart talk.............try dat for a start lets see what happens!

Posted: at 15-09-2010 03:55 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- esonu at 15-09-2010 04:12 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kinzremedy on 15-09-2010 03:33 PM
i kinzremedy, i fell in love a clean black slim girl .... you know when i say in love, I MEANT IT . she always tells me she don't have anybody except me.... one faithful afternoon, i was at my former office cyber cafe, she called my phone number and asked to meet her at my own apartment (at my house).... immediately i left to meet her there.... so, we were chatting and playing (as in normal playing NOT SEX, i meant cracking  jokes).......... so, i took up her cell phone and went to her outbox straight, immediately, i saw a message she sent to a guy called DAVID. immediately i sighted the message a wept.... and she saw some tears of waters on my face, she asked me "what's wrong with you?........... i told her nothing..... immediately she collected her fone and erased the message...... and till now she is telling me that she loves me so much, that she cannot marry that DAVID but me......  i text a message to her that she has been forgiven that she should come back to my life..... she was surprised (i was serious about her coming back to me) ...... but yester 14th of sept, 2010... she accepted a call infront of me telling that person "HELLO BABY"............(at the )  I LOVE YOU......but she thought i was busying doing something else..... but i kept quite....... we have been having ****** several times........... PLZ, DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO FOR HER, I REALLY LOVE THIS GIRL SO MUCH !........................PLZ, I LOVE YOU
u wept cos of a woman? guy u need to grow jare...she is a cheat,,dump her before she dumps u..there are numerous gurls seeking for whom to say hello to them so why wasting precious time on a gurl who gonna make u weep

Posted: at 15-09-2010 04:12 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- kinzremedy at 15-09-2010 04:39 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 15-09-2010 03:55 PM
Quote from: kinzremedy on 15-09-2010 03:44 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 15-09-2010 03:38 PM
Well I do tell people who fall in love to get ready for HURTS..............betrayed trust here I guess.......but I dont actually know what you want me to tell you now.......


plz, tell me what to do with HER ?...................... i really love her........... bcos of her, i stopped hunting for another girl

If you really love someone, you will do well to bring to dat person's notice where he/she is hurting you.......both of you need to have a serious talk........it has to do with what you guys want for the future.........meanwhile you need let her know dat her actions do not correspondence with her words.......Lies kill relationships and that if it keeps happening the relationship would be as good as ended........ Heart-to-heart talk.............try dat for a start lets see what happens!





thanks to you so much !.....................  i will try to do that stuff if it's going to work
Posted: at 15-09-2010 04:39 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- esonu at 15-09-2010 04:44 PM (13 years ago)
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make i pass

Posted: at 15-09-2010 04:44 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- DiannaB at 15-09-2010 04:50 PM (13 years ago)
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i saw a message she sent to a guy called DAVID. immediately i sighted the message a wept.... and she saw some tears of waters on my face,

lol are you serious!!!!
Posted: at 15-09-2010 04:50 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- esonu at 15-09-2010 04:52 PM (13 years ago)
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hehehehehehe ask him again oooo

Posted: at 15-09-2010 04:52 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- kinzremedy at 15-09-2010 05:07 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: DiannaB on 15-09-2010 04:50 PM
i saw a message she sent to a guy called DAVID. immediately i sighted the message a wept.... and she saw some tears of waters on my face,

lol are you serious!!!!



i swear to GOD .. am serious about it
Posted: at 15-09-2010 05:07 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- divineproject at 15-09-2010 05:13 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kinzremedy on 15-09-2010 05:07 PM
Quote from: DiannaB on 15-09-2010 04:50 PM
i saw a message she sent to a guy called DAVID. immediately i sighted the message a wept.... and she saw some tears of waters on my face,

lol are you serious!!!!



i swear to GOD
.. am serious about it

You would do well not to swear to God next time.......let your yes be YES and your no be NO........you shouldnt swear to make people believe you! Cool

Posted: at 15-09-2010 05:13 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- DiannaB at 15-09-2010 05:24 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 15-09-2010 05:13 PM
Quote from: kinzremedy on 15-09-2010 05:07 PM
Quote from: DiannaB on 15-09-2010 04:50 PM
i saw a message she sent to a guy called DAVID. immediately i sighted the message a wept.... and she saw some tears of waters on my face,

lol are you serious!!!!



i swear to GOD
.. am serious about it

that was a rhetorical question
Posted: at 15-09-2010 05:24 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Teejay2 at 15-09-2010 07:33 PM (13 years ago)
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Guy,no dey dull urself cos dis girl don't love u at all,if she love u,she won't call d guy baby not to even tell him dat she love him,soji ara e guy
Posted: at 15-09-2010 07:33 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- onchedu at 15-09-2010 07:53 PM (13 years ago)
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U look like a knowing guy. Better act like a knowing guy. The girl obviously has some level of disregardfor Ur devotion to her (which may or may not be Ur fault more than it is hers).

U should drop her like a bad habit. U forgave her too easy the first time U "caught" her.
Posted: at 15-09-2010 07:53 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- moneyinbrakemi at 15-09-2010 07:58 PM (13 years ago)
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Its all about UPS and DOWNS__Its so complicated...
So you should be ready for the UNEXPECTED!
Posted: at 15-09-2010 07:58 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 15-09-2010 08:10 PM (13 years ago)
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Oh,boy!
Do you think you could trust her again?
What kind of stressful life are you wishing for?

Posted: at 15-09-2010 08:10 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- tyabo at 15-09-2010 08:22 PM (13 years ago)
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read my lips DUMP HER !!!
Posted: at 15-09-2010 08:22 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- esonu at 16-09-2010 07:46 AM (13 years ago)
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........

Posted: at 16-09-2010 07:46 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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