Female tongue control: how can it help us become better partners? (Page 2)

From my own point of view or rather from my observation, I have found out that men whose wives talk back at them are those who have lost respect before their wives.  We need know that respect is earned and not forced............men need to recognise that their wives are there partners and not servants......for those men just going into marriage, try as much as you can NOT to lift your hands against your wife for once, becos the  first time you beat your wife you begin to diminish before her, next time she will say, afterall it will only take a beating...........with each beating, she becomes more hardened.........beating doesnt change an adult, rather it hardens the person........the person wont respect you, rather you may end up being feared/hated..........surely FEAR and HATRED are not needed in relationships........

For the women, we have to learn to put our tongue in check and try not to provoke the men in anyway...........brb

I believe the only solution to it is understanding when there is understanding between the two couple...it will be very difficult for the man to raise his hand to beat his wife..but what most women dont understand is whenever a man is not happy maybe due to a bad day at work or he's going thru stress he can easilly get provoked with just little thing and in such situation u as a woman is to calm him down talk something nice to him give him hope...when he(man)says he want to be alone at that moment let him be dont say a word.there are so many ways to avoid fighting in a relationship wish i have said earlier wish is the same understanding.....but it's true that most women love beating and when u dont beat then they will never feel confortable i've seen alot of women like that

tht's the spirit, my guy