CONTINUE WITH THE MARRIAGE OR WHAT????????? (Page 2)

abeg, divorce the shithead and save yourself.....i won't expect anyone to tolerate an abusive husband/wife at all.  There is far too many abuse in Nigeria or indeed African household, this need to stop.  nor be by force, sometimes, it's better to walk away.

Posted: at 26-09-2010 12:01 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

She shudn pay attention to d guy on FB, anybody who is sweet to her now she go fall for

cos she feel lost and hurt.... Tell her to turn to God and pray for betta...tht she shud try to reason along with her hubby

like dat he will b there for her 2!

Posted: at 26-09-2010 12:41 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

nawah ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh,marriage is indeed an institution
na school wey no dey finish,person no dey graduate 4rom am.

Posted: at 26-09-2010 02:19 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Now that's where the long story was summarized. Looks to me like someone is refused to embrace the present and let go of the past and is hoping to find justification for crimes that will be committed if the former isn't done.

Posted: at 26-09-2010 02:36 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

You sound like a civilised a man.A man who does not approve or support abuse.And trust me,there are lots of men like you out there.I once attended a marriage programme and I was suprised and shocked wit the way men responded and behaved.I was proud of to be a Nigerian.I was proud of my country men.You men have learnt from our ancestors.You saw those innocent tears of our mothers.And you men are ready to be a better father  and a husband.You want to be different from our fathers.Life itself is a lesson,and a journey.But only the wise ones are smart enough to know the difference blw good and bad.Yes, I believe in Love.But firstly,I believe in Godly love cos it will neva fade.Jesus loved us unconditionally even after all he went through on earth.(Well ,maybe you aint a believer).But a romantically love will fade,no matter how hard you try to decieve yourself.Cos it will get to a time when you both will start gettin bored of yourselves.And how many romantic love have lasted?.Wat good have sum of this romantically love done to marriages,even after all the craziness ,they later hate themselves not even dislike themselves.And sum even end up,murdering themselves and make their kids pay for their carelessness and selfishness.A boy was rushed into a hospital by his parent,the doctor told his parent tht the boy has upto 6 different health issues.The doctor tried his best ,and when his parent gave up cos they could not watch the boy suffer the boy passed away and it was touching.His parent were fighting and balming each other ,cos it was so painful to see this innocent child pay for their carelessness.His mom wished she had stayed in her marriage and his dad wished he was a different dad.They realised their mistakes,but it was just too late.The mom blamed herself for everything,a woman who couldnot forgive herself.Na romantic love be this ooooooooooo!.London ranks NO1 in teenage pregnancy ,in Europe.Most of this girls are from broken homes.The gun and knife crimes here is caused mostly by kids from broken home.PARENT ARE ROLE MODELS TO THEIR KIDS AND NOT BEYONCE OR NICKI MINAJ.And everyone is free to make a choice of their own,but be verycareful wit the choices you make when it comes to marriage issues.LET THE DIVORCE THINGY END IN HEATHROW AIRPORT AND NOT ENTER NAIJA ,COS IF IT DOES.MY BROTHER OUR KIDS FUTURE IS AT RISK.LET'S EMBRACE OUR CULTURE AND TRADITION.AND EDUCATE OURSELVES,CREATE AWARNESS.I believe those few men who still think like our ancestors will change soon.COS OUR YOUTHS ARE DIFFERENT.

Posted: at 26-09-2010 04:48 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

And for u not to wait,come to papa now

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Posted: at 26-09-2010 05:34 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

GOD am really speechless now,4ur mom urboy ur dad got matured like u said and realized his mistakes.remember is very difficult 4 a man 2 accept one thing(am wrong and am sorry)cos they want 2 keep their pride
as the man.4 d second story am really sad 4 d woman,domestic violence is a bad thing and 80% of naija women go tru it.
i still believe onyii is making sense cos i stayed with my senior sis 4rom my child hood and she was married 2 a rich man,she had
all but she has no right.he calls the shorts,come home late,if they have problem 4 days he will not eat her food and she keeps on keeping food 4 him on d dinning room,i do get angry with her 4 being soft.but she was always on her knees praying.they quarrel and he will bite her up seriously,with time he changed & they have five kids even had she just deliver a baby and i asked her why she said she did not know,there is so much love in the air cos they have grown 2 love and appreciate each other not like d early days of marriage.
mum told me that d older d marriage d more understanding and love among them.

Posted: at 26-09-2010 08:44 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

i undastand lynn...why i told that story was just to spot the 2 outcomes.....either they end up in love or someone ends up in regrets......either way i am nt in support of divorce bt i would never rule it out, wen things goes reallllly bad..thats all..

Posted: at 26-09-2010 08:55 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

MARRIAGE IS A BED OF ROSES. LET HER LEAVE HER HUSBAND. FRYING PAN TO FIRE. LISTEN TO OTHERS AND YOU WILL THANK GOD 

Posted: at 28-09-2010 09:41 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming