Handling Rejection! (Page 2)

Date: 28-09-2010 4:40 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Obiajunwa
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- pkingx at 29-09-2010 09:55 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: mallorca on 29-09-2010 02:07 AM
Quote from: pkingx on 29-09-2010 12:26 AM
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the best way to handle such suitation is to hope on God....bcos wen dis door closed another one will surely open

no be lie
well if to hope on God is lie accoding to you...that means you need more than luck to survive in any suitation you find ur self

O boy eh! u sure say u be true born 9ja? wats so complicated in the phrase ''no be lie'' dat u culd not understand?
no be lie = fact = true talk = nail on d head ...i culd go on n on n on
i'll advice u come enroll in my pidgin english skool man...u need it...its free...hehehe

Posted: at 29-09-2010 09:55 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Ballsy at 29-09-2010 09:57 AM (13 years ago)
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Rejection is just anothre way of saying, u deserve better...so i look ahead and most importantly believe in Jah's plans 4 me or 'US'!
Posted: at 29-09-2010 09:57 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- divineproject at 29-09-2010 10:00 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kokokool on 29-09-2010 01:10 AM
Quote from: divineproject on 28-09-2010 04:40 PM
At one time or the other in our lives we might have faced rejection...........it doesnt necessarily have to do with just gal/guy relationship, but also in other endeavours of life.  How can one handle such blow which if not well handled can get one frustrated!.........


pay a visit to d nearest bar, spend some quality time there, go home and sleep.....quietly

What about someone who doesnt drink?.........what other way to handle it?

Posted: at 29-09-2010 10:00 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- pkingx at 29-09-2010 10:07 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Ballsy on 29-09-2010 09:57 AM
Rejection is just anothre way of saying, u deserve better...so i look ahead and most importantly believe in Jah's plans 4 me or 'US'!

God bless u my brother for this beautiful input

Posted: at 29-09-2010 10:07 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sophiebaby at 29-09-2010 10:10 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 28-09-2010 04:40 PM
At one time or the other in our lives we might have faced rejection...........it doesnt necessarily have to do with just gal/guy relationship, but also in other endeavours of life.  How can one handle such blow which if not well handled can get one frustrated!.........

When hit by rejection, it is uplifting to know you are not alone.

Posted: at 29-09-2010 10:10 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- pkingx at 29-09-2010 10:13 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 29-09-2010 10:00 AM
Quote from: kokokool on 29-09-2010 01:10 AM
Quote from: divineproject on 28-09-2010 04:40 PM
At one time or the other in our lives we might have faced rejection...........it doesnt necessarily have to do with just gal/guy relationship, but also in other endeavours of life.  How can one handle such blow which if not well handled can get one frustrated!.........


pay a visit to d nearest bar, spend some quality time there, go home and sleep.....quietly

What about someone who doesnt drink?.........what other way to handle it?

DP...he didnt mention alcohol na...besides u can stil get malt drinks there or abi u no dey drink malt?

Posted: at 29-09-2010 10:13 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bittersweet at 29-09-2010 10:21 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: pkingx on 29-09-2010 10:13 AM
Quote from: divineproject on 29-09-2010 10:00 AM
Quote from: kokokool on 29-09-2010 01:10 AM
Quote from: divineproject on 28-09-2010 04:40 PM
At one time or the other in our lives we might have faced rejection...........it doesnt necessarily have to do with just gal/guy relationship, but also in other endeavours of life.  How can one handle such blow which if not well handled can get one frustrated!.........


pay a visit to d nearest bar, spend some quality time there, go home and sleep.....quietly

What about someone who doesnt drink?.........what other way to handle it?

DP...he didnt mention alcohol na...besides u can stil get malt drinks there or abi u no dey drink malt?

Hmm!
I guess he meant to go and intoxicate yourself (getting drunk) .
Can you get drunk with those malt drinks?

Posted: at 29-09-2010 10:21 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 29-09-2010 10:23 AM (13 years ago)
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"We are troubled on every side, yet not distressed, we are perplexed, but not in despair, persecuted, but not forsaken, cast down, but not destroyed"
Posted: at 29-09-2010 10:23 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 29-09-2010 10:26 AM (13 years ago)
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And we rise every time we fall, right?
And we became stronger after all those trials!  Wink

Posted: at 29-09-2010 10:26 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- solojaro at 29-09-2010 10:27 AM (13 years ago)
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Rejection! it made my life more determined, When I was a child my own father (late) rejected me and my other brothers and sisters, refusing to do anything with us, like buying our clothes, books and even school fees. just because he had problem with our mom. These made us more determined in life to achieve what we are today. so when that happen to you  just rest it upon God and focuse on the future.
Posted: at 29-09-2010 10:27 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- solojaro at 29-09-2010 10:28 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 29-09-2010 10:23 AM
"We are troubled on every side, yet not distressed, we are perplexed, but not in despair, persecuted, but not forsaken, cast down, but not destroyed"
That is true.
Posted: at 29-09-2010 10:28 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- divineproject at 29-09-2010 10:29 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: pkingx on 29-09-2010 10:13 AM
Quote from: divineproject on 29-09-2010 10:00 AM
Quote from: kokokool on 29-09-2010 01:10 AM
Quote from: divineproject on 28-09-2010 04:40 PM
At one time or the other in our lives we might have faced rejection...........it doesnt necessarily have to do with just gal/guy relationship, but also in other endeavours of life.  How can one handle such blow which if not well handled can get one frustrated!.........


pay a visit to d nearest bar, spend some quality time there, go home and sleep.....quietly

What about someone who doesnt drink?.........what other way to handle it?

DP...he didnt mention alcohol na...besides u can stil get malt drinks there or abi u no dey drink malt?

I dey watch my weight......................lol.......... Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 29-09-2010 10:29 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 29-09-2010 10:30 AM (13 years ago)
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I am loving the comments here...............uplifting comments I must say...........

Posted: at 29-09-2010 10:30 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 29-09-2010 10:32 AM (13 years ago)
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 Wink

Posted: at 29-09-2010 10:32 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 29-09-2010 10:33 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 29-09-2010 10:30 AM
I am loving the comments here...............uplifting comments I must say...........

DP u don dey find me trouble abi? heheheheh
thanks Smiley

Posted: at 29-09-2010 10:33 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 29-09-2010 10:40 AM (13 years ago)
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* Don’t Take it Personally:
In many cases, the so-called rejection may have nothing to do with you at all.
For instance, someone may reject your advances because you remind them of someone from their past (not your fault), they are having a career crisis (not your fault) or are dealing with some other pressing personal issue that they elect not to explain (again, not your fault).

* Silence your Inner Child:
The Inner Child often overreacts and feels the whole world has turned thumbs down and that true love will never come (insert high-pitched wail here). Our adult selves know this is simply not true yet the words of our Inner Child ring in our ears.

* Don’t Let it Rattle You:
Don’t let a negative response shake your confidence.

* Think of It as a Favor

* Turn It into a Positive
Sounds cheesy but you can make rejection work as a motivator for self-improvement. "Knock-backs aren’t fun, that’s for sure.

* Don’t Dwell on It

Posted: at 29-09-2010 10:40 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 29-09-2010 10:45 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 29-09-2010 10:33 AM
Quote from: divineproject on 29-09-2010 10:30 AM
I am loving the comments here...............uplifting comments I must say...........

DP u don dey find me trouble abi? heheheheh
thanks Smiley

Me??...........How??..............hmmmm...am at sea ooo.........

Meanwhile, thanks for the lecture above this comment...........it is well appreciated!....we are all learning!

Posted: at 29-09-2010 10:45 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 29-09-2010 10:49 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 29-09-2010 10:45 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 29-09-2010 10:33 AM
Quote from: divineproject on 29-09-2010 10:30 AM
I am loving the comments here...............uplifting comments I must say...........

DP u don dey find me trouble abi? heheheheh
thanks Smiley

Me??...........How??..............hmmmm...am at sea ooo.........

Meanwhile, thanks for the lecture above this comment...........it is well appreciated!....we are all learning!

u welcome

Posted: at 29-09-2010 10:49 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- hotguy77 at 29-09-2010 10:58 AM (13 years ago)
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Just be positive that the rejection is for a positive reason and move on
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- mallorca at 29-09-2010 10:59 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: pkingx on 29-09-2010 09:55 AM
Quote from: mallorca on 29-09-2010 02:07 AM
Quote from: pkingx on 29-09-2010 12:26 AM
Quote from: mallorca on 29-09-2010 12:01 AM
the best way to handle such suitation is to hope on God....bcos wen dis door closed another one will surely open

no be lie
well if to hope on God is lie accoding to you...that means you need more than luck to survive in any suitation you find ur self

O boy eh! u sure say u be true born 9ja? wats so complicated in the phrase ''no be lie'' dat u culd not understand?
no be lie = fact = true talk = nail on d head ...i culd go on n on n on
i'll advice u come enroll in my pidgin english skool man...u need it...its free...hehehe

i hear you Mr Lecturer

Posted: at 29-09-2010 10:59 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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