im like every oda normal gal u se on da street,but deep down inside me i no i av a problem.my relationships dont last more dan a month cos i get fed up easily.the guy i av on for now is ok but i just cant keep shut about my past relationships.he considers me to be a cheap tin but im not. ow do i make im undastand and as a mata of fact i dont tink i love him cos av neva fallen in love.my relatonship life is doomed
Posted: at 12-10-2010 06:48 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
mydicksweet at 12-10-2010 07:19 PM (14 years ago) (m)
First of all why did u accept him? when u know that deep down inside u.you dont love him and like u said ur relationship dont last why would it last?and i'm glad u know that ur the course of ur own problem u need to learn to love someone and untill u start doing that i'm afraid things will still remain the same 4u life is too short gurl
Posted: at 12-10-2010 07:19 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Gurl everyone do hve their own problems...but u cannot continue to live your daily life to please any body. Like i always say, you responsible for your own happiness, it doesn't if your hustband give u the whole world, if you have everything u needed. U still needs to apply some happiness to your life. You are only in this r/ship bcos of u want some1 to please u. but u need to please yourself ist, beauty have nothing to do with your outer-ward, it comes from within...so u gotta show your innermost self the real u. I suggest u learn how to love u, and see yourself the way God sees u. Pple will hve always something to say about u. But don't let your past r/ship hindered your ability of bcomin something greater.
Posted: at 13-10-2010 11:12 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Maybe its not your time,I mean there is a time for everything in life.Maybe all you need right now,is sum peaceful time to yourself.Just to discover who you really are and to love and appreciate yourself.And not changing boyfriends ,every now and then.Like the way you change your cloths.Take a GAP YEAR OR YEARS(BREAK).Sit down,learn from mistakes and turn your weakness into strenght.Dont be too desperate to have a man in your life ,just because all your friends have one or becos of your age ,but becos its the right time for you.If you rush in ,you will rush out.
Posted: at 13-10-2010 11:26 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
misty120 at 13-10-2010 11:32 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Beauti4 on 13-10-2010 11:12 PM
Gurl everyone do hve their own problems...but u cannot continue to live your daily life to please any body. Like i always say, you responsible for your own happiness, it doesn't if your hustband give u the whole world, if you have everything u needed. U still needs to apply some happiness to your life. You are only in this r/ship bcos of u want some1 to please u. but u need to please yourself ist, beauty have nothing to do with your outer-ward, it comes from within...so u gotta show your innermost self the real u. I suggest u learn how to love u, and see yourself the way God sees u. Pple will hve always something to say about u. But don't let your past r/ship hindered your ability of bcomin something greater.
:)well said
Posted: at 13-10-2010 11:32 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
misty120 at 13-10-2010 11:34 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: onyin on 13-10-2010 11:26 PM
Maybe its not your time,I mean there is a time for everything in life.Maybe all you need right now,is sum peaceful time to yourself.Just to discover who you really are and to love and appreciate yourself.And not changing boyfriends ,every now and then.Like the way you change your cloths.Take a GAP YEAR OR YEARS(BREAK).Sit down,learn from mistakes and turn your weakness into strenght.Dont be too desperate to have a man in your life ,just because all your friends have one or becos of your age ,but becos its the right time for you.If you rush in ,you will rush out.
True talk YES!!!!
Posted: at 13-10-2010 11:34 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
@Poster, if the age on your profile is true, then you have to concentrate on your studies for now. Aside that, have you thought of becoming a reverend sister that is if you have no ......?
Posted: at 14-10-2010 12:09 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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