When your husband has started doing some funny stuff behind with some reasons for a cover, also when u finally open the closet and realize he has a mistress, What should she do?
Posted: at 15-10-2010 01:53 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
See question is like a competition between u and the other lady so what i would avd start doing is to step my game on doing things that will be bring him home to me... I will not divorce him but keep showing him love...he will always come back to me.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 15-10-2010 02:21 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
i know here in naija some marriages are built on false feelings or reasons, making dem one sided marriage were d WIFE in most cases doesn't really hv the right blend wit d husband. In a classic case like dat d woman will nt hv d gut to ask d man or even found out d reason for such a behaviour. Cos asking will b tantamount to going back to ur her mother.
But in a case of a marriage built wit mutual respect for each other, wen u start spotting somethg abnormal it's always easier to ask him/her. So if u r are damn sure he has a mistress, nd u love ur husband, confrontation will mess it up more. Reach down within ask him if thr is any issue he has wit u, or anythg wrong u did or hv done to make him feel bad or nt to love u any more. He won't knw were u r heading wit these subtle questions, he's gonna give u honest answers.
If all his ansas to ur questions are NO honey! or woteva pet name. Then, d same way, wit same subtle voice nd manner ask him why then do u hv a mistress outside? It's either he gapes open-mouthed or start stammering if he still has respect or love for u, instead of reacting in violent manner. If he does still respect u nd ur marriage. U would hv dealt a shameful blow to him which will make him end such a r/s.
Posted: at 15-10-2010 02:39 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
sweety2010 at 15-10-2010 07:00 AM (14 years ago) (f)
thanks guys, in my world of belief, asking a man if he is seeing someone else isn't necessary. Also, leave him to have his fill and when he is full to satisfaction with much sincerity, he will appreciate the wife and come to his senses But it do take a while and patience from the other person
Men just want to flirt a little and are servants to honeypot
Posted: at 15-10-2010 07:00 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 15-10-2010 07:43 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
erikaakpan at 15-10-2010 07:58 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: mazi on 15-10-2010 02:39 AM
i know here in naija some marriages are built on false feelings or reasons, making dem one sided marriage were d WIFE in most cases doesn't really hv the right blend wit d husband. In a classic case like dat d woman will nt hv d gut to ask d man or even found out d reason for such a behaviour. Cos asking will b tantamount to going back to ur her mother.
But in a case of a marriage built wit mutual respect for each other, wen u start spotting somethg abnormal it's always easier to ask him/her. So if u r are damn sure he has a mistress, nd u love ur husband, confrontation will mess it up more. Reach down within ask him if thr is any issue he has wit u, or anythg wrong u did or hv done to make him feel bad or nt to love u any more. He won't knw were u r heading wit these subtle questions, he's gonna give u honest answers.
If all his ansas to ur questions are NO honey! or woteva pet name. Then, d same way, wit same subtle voice nd manner ask him why then do u hv a mistress outside? It's either he gapes open-mouthed or start stammering if he still has respect or love for u, instead of reacting in violent manner. If he does still respect u nd ur marriage. U would hv dealt a shameful blow to him which will make him end such a r/s.
baby...wats been going on? u have been having a lot to say
Flirtation: Attention without intention.
Posted: at 15-10-2010 07:58 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
sophiebaby at 15-10-2010 09:08 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Patiently, full of prayer, full of hope, and full of forbearance and occasional efforts to draw him into conversation about her longings for him.
By occasional efforts to draw him into conversation about her longings for him, I mean the opposite of nagging. Nagging is day after day, coming at the guy sideways, top down, underneath, and communicating by body language and sideways comments that he is not measuring up. That destroys the relationship. It paralyzes the partner. It feels hopeless, and it feels like love is vanishing.
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 15-10-2010 09:08 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
solojaro at 15-10-2010 09:48 AM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: HOPEA23 on 15-10-2010 02:21 AM
See question is like a competition between u and the other lady so what i would avd start doing is to step my game on doing things that will be bring him home to me... I will not divorce him but keep showing him love...he will always come back to me.
Interesting, 99% Hope you are married.
Posted: at 15-10-2010 09:48 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 15-10-2010 09:51 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 15-10-2010 10:35 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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