WHAT WILL YOU DO?

Date: 16-10-2010 7:56 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Dr. Rukevwe Odjimogho
- at 16-10-2010 07:56 PM (13 years ago)
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Assuming your fiancee was gangraped by armed robbers in your house and later on you get to discover, 3 days to your wedding ceremony, that she's now HIV Positive...Guys would you call off the wedding (knowing that you cannot afford to have unprotected sex with her and by extension, you may not be able to Father a child by her) OR continue with it (considering the stigma, terrible heartbreak, great shame and unimaginable disgrace it will bring you, her and both families if the wedding is called off and also considering the fact that her HIV Positive status is no fault of hers)?...Ladies, what would you expect a guy in this predicament to do? Your candid opinions please. Thks.

Posted: at 16-10-2010 07:56 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
- onyin at 16-10-2010 07:58 PM (13 years ago)
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A tough one.brb
Posted: at 16-10-2010 07:58 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Vixenx at 16-10-2010 08:02 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Renewed on 16-10-2010 07:56 PM
Assuming your fiancee was gangraped by armed robbers in your house and later on you get to discover, 3 days to your wedding ceremony, that she's now HIV Positive...Guys would you call off the wedding (knowing that you cannot afford to have unprotected sex with her and by extension, you may not be able to Father a child by her) OR continue with it (considering the stigma, terrible heartbreak, great shame and unimaginable disgrace it will bring you, her and both families if the wedding is called off and also considering the fact that her HIV Positive status is no fault of hers)?...Ladies, what would you expect a guy in this predicament to do? Your candid opinions please. Thks.

And if you never knew about the gang rape, what would you have done?
Posted: at 16-10-2010 08:02 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Michro at 16-10-2010 08:04 PM (13 years ago)
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God forbid bad thing
Posted: at 16-10-2010 08:04 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- omorewa at 16-10-2010 08:05 PM (13 years ago)
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IT IS TOUGH BUT TO PREVENT FUTURE WAHALA IT IS BETTER TO TALK SERIOUS TALK BETWEEN THEMSELVES AND CUT OFF THE WEDDING... BUT THEY SHOULD NOT TELL ANYONE THE REASON ...

INFACT LET ME THINK PROPERLY

Posted: at 16-10-2010 08:05 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Michro at 16-10-2010 08:07 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: omorewa on 16-10-2010 08:05 PM
IT IS TOUGH BUT TO PREVENT FUTURE WAHALA IT IS BETTER TO TALK SERIOUS TALK BETWEEN THEMSELVES AND CUT OFF THE WEDDING... BUT THEY SHOULD NOT TELL ANYONE THE REASON ...

INFACT LET ME THINK PROPERLY



U beta reject and rebuke it now.
Posted: at 16-10-2010 08:07 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- omorewa at 16-10-2010 08:17 PM (13 years ago)
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i rebuke it ooo..

thanx Smiley
Posted: at 16-10-2010 08:17 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Michro at 16-10-2010 11:50 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: omorewa on 16-10-2010 08:17 PM
i rebuke it ooo..

thanx Smiley

E k 'abo
Posted: at 16-10-2010 11:50 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mydicksweet at 17-10-2010 01:02 AM (13 years ago)
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Drinking and contemplating on what to say brb
Posted: at 17-10-2010 01:02 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- MelanieJayne at 17-10-2010 01:12 AM (13 years ago)
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If you do not stand alondside this woman, through her most haunting nightmare, then you were never truly committed to her and would have been a weak husband anyway..

Posted: at 17-10-2010 01:12 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Renewed at 17-10-2010 02:30 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Vixenx on 16-10-2010 08:02 PM
Quote from: Renewed on 16-10-2010 07:56 PM
Assuming your fiancee was gangraped by armed robbers in your house and later on you get to discover, 3 days to your wedding ceremony, that she's now HIV Positive...Guys would you call off the wedding (knowing that you cannot afford to have unprotected sex with her and by extension, you may not be able to Father a child by her) OR continue with it (considering the stigma, terrible heartbreak, great shame and unimaginable disgrace it will bring you, her and both families if the wedding is called off and also considering the fact that her HIV Positive status is no fault of hers)?...Ladies, what would you expect a guy in this predicament to do? Your candid opinions please. Thks.

And if you never knew about the gang rape, what would you have done?

It was done in the house...so it cant be kept secret.
Posted: at 17-10-2010 02:30 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Renewed at 17-10-2010 02:32 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Michro on 16-10-2010 08:04 PM
God forbid bad thing

Amen for both of us. But its just an assumption...not a reality.
Posted: at 17-10-2010 02:32 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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