what do i do?

hey pals,

i dated a girl that got pregnant and had a baby for me, but we had problem in the course of her pregnancy, her family doesn't want her to see me anymore and they have blocked my access to the baby. The girl wants us to be together again but her family militates against it. Now there's a girl i'm dating now that will do anything to keep me. Now i can't take the other girl's call in her presence cos she'll b angry over it. She's already suspected that i have a baby but i denied it. Do i come out open and tell her the truth and let her decide or wait for her to find out.

Posted: at 21-10-2010 05:49 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

why on earth did u deny ur kid?

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Posted: at 21-10-2010 05:51 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

@diplomatik i didn't deny my baby,her bride pize was not paid during that time, she and her family got angry at that.

Posted: at 21-10-2010 05:58 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Don't bring trouble to urself,find a way to let her knw dat indeed u have a baby.If she can't cope with it she'll leave u but if she can then she'll stay.Also,hope d mother of ur baby is aware of d new gurl?

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Posted: at 21-10-2010 06:10 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

you already messed up..but is not too late now to let her know about it..is better you tell her than she find out.

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Posted: at 21-10-2010 08:55 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

oh boy talking from experience your baby mother still loves you and no woman pray to just be a baby mother to a guy.
it is all her family faults trying to ruin her life for their own selfish interest

your new girl is kind of desperate to me and i see that you are scared of her or what anyway i don't know if you still love your baby mother if not then move on but try and study your new girl properly before another pregnancy!!! now if you look at it properly your baby mother is the loser just because of her family..
 i believe that listening to third party has ruin your relationship and right now this is the time you need to think about your child first

talk to an elderly person in your family okay

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Posted: at 21-10-2010 09:33 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

nosense, poster let that innocent girl go cause in this case i belive sooner or later you are still going to make peace with that baby mother of yours,i hv seen alot of cases like this,

Posted: at 21-10-2010 09:48 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I've got nothing to tell u, just get outta here and go work hard for money

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Posted: at 21-10-2010 10:46 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

you can say that again

Posted: at 21-10-2010 11:03 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

u can never hv peace of mind by being dodgy.
d truth shall always set u free.

Posted: at 21-10-2010 11:09 PM (13 years ago) | Hero