RINGS...........................????? (Page 7)

so what is the point of ring??

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Posted: at 26-10-2010 03:54 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

As i have said wearing or not wearing ring is not an issue here if a man or woman does not fear He who takes away life (GOD) is it RING that he or she will fear? Let's talk better thing and forget about ornament. I don go.

Posted: at 26-10-2010 04:17 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Wearing wedding ring or not wearing means nothing, if  a m,an is gonna cheat he will cheat while he has it on, a lot of women are attracted to married men, so this days, wedding ring is a babe magnet. Wearing the ring wont change your mind set if you are a cheat, alot of women cheat and they are married and have their rings on 24/7. we need to stop kidding ourselves jare.. wearing something doesnt symblise your faithfullness. Hope i made small sense sha

Posted: at 26-10-2010 04:24 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

shldnt keh somuch about him wearing the ring,cos a ring is just a ting...
all u should keh about is to know if his love is deep enough from in-within.

remember,silver & gold will surely fadeaway... while true love will forever stay!!

Posted: at 26-10-2010 05:07 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Ring na copy from whiteman, paste for blackman!

Posted: at 26-10-2010 05:15 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Wearing a ring does not matter who you are, but the only things is your heart, feeling, love, honest, truthful and faithful to ur wife. Somemen dont wear there ring not bcos they want to cheat there wife or not, but it depend on there time e.g if u're working, u will wake up by 4:00am take ur birth brush and dress b4 u see it, u're running out of time. Even you will not remember to wear tie meanwhile u will forget ur ring.

I'm talking from experience, my people is not always easy, both men and women.
U can still be wearing it one or two years after your wedding but later u'll forget it.

Posted: at 26-10-2010 05:52 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

WELLSAID AND SUPPORTED

Posted: at 26-10-2010 06:34 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

i totally disagree with you dear even though some people like this comment in the sense that if a man is ready to bondage and handcuff a lady for the rest of her life why can't the lady too do the same YOU SEE.. THAT IS WHY WOMEN NOWADAYS DON'T KNOW THEIR RIGHTS AND WHEN THEY WANT TO CHALLENGE THEIR HUSBANDS THEY GET PHYSICAL/EMOTIONALLY/VERBALLY ABUSED.... ladies don't complain when they get rings from guys so why are guys complaining or given excuses...
the only excuse that i know of is EMPLOYMENTS AND HEALTH CONDITIONS( WOMEN ARE ALWAYS SACRIFICE LOTS OF THING FOR MEN IN DIFFERENT WAYS SO WHY CAN'T MEN DO THE SAME  JUST ONE THING.... THAT EXCUSE TO ME IS LAME  

[/quote]This reasoning is so ridiculously twisted i don't even know where to start tearing it apart from.
1. When i say handcuffs and bondage its in a symbolic manner, a reprsentation of what girls like you see a ring as not marriage.
2. My comment was not just for men, if a woman does not like wearing a wedding ring i see no reason to, alot of girls i know wear theirs around their neck.
3. Your little "snipe" about women rights, challenging their husbands and getting beat up, i don't know how that factors here. Wearing a wedding band is a right that i can choose to or not to express.
4. I don't know what sacrifices you are talking about, give me an example, i don't think i av ever made any sacrifice that hasn't benefited me in the long run.

Posted: at 26-10-2010 08:55 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

okay i have seen some points and hope singles and married people have learned something

WHAT ARE THE DIFFERENCES BETWEEN MARRIED MEN/WOMEN AND SINGLE GUYS/LADIES IN THE SOCIETY AND HOW CAN PEOPLE KNOW THAT YOU ARE COMMITTED TO SOMEONE WITHOUT YOU TELLING THEM FIRST? 

GUYS HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF YOUR WIVES REMOVE THEIR WEDDING RINGS BECAUSE THEY DON'T NEED IT AGAIN??
i am not saying you should wear it 24/7 but try and effort

 

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Posted: at 27-10-2010 12:48 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

omo na wa for u oo! do u realized tht in UK & US its easy to marry in the morning... wear the ring all day & night... then divorce the nxt morning? ring does nt symbolize love bt only means the person wearing it is taken. somtimes the ring fades after som yrs & the husby might feel no need to wear it again until he purchase a new quality one (which we all knw is expensive) and ths takes time cos he's more worried abt other things aside ring.

FYI, many young married men in Lagos now wears their ring proudly & somtimes during rush hours, a guy might 4get to wear his. ring or no ring, faithfulness is only from a true conscience heart.

on ur last question, if a wife removes her ring cos she doesn't need it again means tht she's feed up with her husband. bsides why will a womam do tht whn she's proud of being married? note that, the way women feels is diff frm men & ths also apply to ring wearing all times. a married man cn decide to hide his marital status in an environment nt only bcos he wants to cheat bt maybe he wants to avoid other things frm happening.

Posted: at 27-10-2010 08:08 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming