Hello, everyone. I am writting here to get some advice. Well I am a young mother of a 4 month old boy. Well I am still with the father but a serious problem has been decoverd by me. My sons father has been having relastionships with different women. Taking them out buying things, buying meals and having sex with them. He keeps in contact with most of his ex's including a frew in Nijia. He will tell me about his incounters with them. But, when I question him why he says I am no one to question him. And that until he is sure I am the one to mind my business. I have tried to look at it like at least he is telling me he cheats. Still I am very confused. Does his not wanting to be with only me mean he does not truly love me. Or is he just being honest? Please, all comments are welcome. I'm mixed and was born in the states he is full Igbo and was born in Nijia. Thanks
Posted: at 29-10-2010 07:21 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
mydicksweet at 29-10-2010 07:45 PM (13 years ago) (m)
I guess u just have to bear with him since he's giving u everything u want u just never can tell with time he might change if u have a pastor go to him put him in ur prayers day and night fast and pray there's nothing too small for God to do and like u know prayers is the master key i wish u goodluck gurl
Posted: at 29-10-2010 07:45 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
juleshotluv at 29-10-2010 08:24 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Ur1Desire on 29-10-2010 07:21 PM
Hello, everyone. I am writting here to get some advice. Well I am a young mother of a 4 month old boy. Well I am still with the father but a serious problem has been decoverd by me. My sons father has been having relastionships with different women. Taking them out buying things, buying meals and having sex with them. He keeps in contact with most of his ex's including a frew in Nijia. He will tell me about his incounters with them. But, when I question him why he says I am no one to question him. And that until he is sure I am the one to mind my business. I have tried to look at it like at least he is telling me he cheats. Still I am very confused. Does his not wanting to be with only me mean he does not truly love me. Or is he just being honest? Please, all comments are welcome. I'm mixed and was born in the states he is full Igbo and was born in Nijia. Thanks
You are still with the father you said? meaning he is the father of your son right? From what you have written, He is the father of your 4 month son. He has to man up and be responsible for his son. He is setting a bad example for his son.
I dont think you should continue to live with such a person. If at this point he is behaving like this then I dont see him changing. By the way, what does he mean by this "And that until he is sure I am the one to mind my business" If he wasnt sure whether am the one for him then why did we have a kid together? Lady, I think you are trying to make something which is not there to be there. If he is your man, he would not be searching outside for someone else. He is telling you boldly that you are not enough for him and thats why he is still sleeping around with other women. Stop setting for less when there is more. He definitely is not the only man out there..I know you have a child with him already but if he is not going to be treating you the way you should be treated then why force it. Its not like both of you are married. you are not married to this man so i would advice you to put yourself out there for the man that is for you. Because definitely its not him.
Posted: at 29-10-2010 08:24 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
sweetrae at 29-10-2010 11:58 PM (13 years ago) (f)
baby, do u have FOOL tattoo'd on ur forehead? i ain't tryin' be rude... girl, u'll never be d one nd he don't even respect u!...talk less of lovin' u... love urself enough to rid urself of him...he aint never gonna be correct... take good care of ur baby...good luck sista!
Posted: at 29-10-2010 11:58 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
preciouslyme at 30-10-2010 04:45 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Ur1Desire on 29-10-2010 07:21 PM
Hello, everyone. I am writting here to get some advice. Well I am a young mother of a 4 month old boy. Well I am still with the father but a serious problem has been decoverd by me. My sons father has been having relastionships with different women. Taking them out buying things, buying meals and having sex with them. He keeps in contact with most of his ex's including a frew in Nijia. He will tell me about his incounters with them. But, when I question him why he says I am no one to question him. And that until he is sure I am the one to mind my business. I have tried to look at it like at least he is telling me he cheats. Still I am very confused. Does his not wanting to be with only me mean he does not truly love me. Or is he just being honest? Please, all comments are welcome. I'm mixed and was born in the states he is full Igbo and was born in Nijia. Thanks
wow, thats got to be tough. Truth is most men cheat, but only you truly know what to do, if a man loves you whole heartedly, then he only has eyes for you, some part of me feels like he has taken your love for granted, he knows you are not going anywhere. As the mother of his child, and him being a Naija man he should have done whats right, If he wanted to Marry you he would have done it already. So at this point you have to think of your self and your child and do what YOU think is right
Posted: at 30-10-2010 04:45 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
baby, do u have FOOL tattoo'd on ur forehead? i ain't tryin' be rude... girl, u'll never be d one nd he don't even respect u!...talk less of lovin' u... love urself enough to rid urself of him...he aint never gonna be correct... take good care of ur baby...good luck sista!
Wow i swear i thing our brains are twins,lol. @ poster, he is not the one 4 you and it would be gud if you realized this now. If with u the mother of his child he is doing this, he is never, i repeat he will never love you the way he should. So that love you have, pour it into taking care of your baby and let that fool go.
Posted: at 30-10-2010 05:47 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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