i have a girlfriend that i dated for 3 nd half yrs nd after paying her bride price in naija, i found out that she has a 10 yrs old son already.but her family concealed it from me and my family, until d day she mistakenly told me about the development after having a good sex with her that eve, what should i do guys pls help.
Sorry dude, you are married now. you just have to ask her why she kept such a thing from you for good three years. Also try to find out what other things she has been keeping from you and both of you should establish trust between each other or else you too are not going to last. | Posted: at 12-11-2010 02:03 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "wonders4") wonders4 at 12-11-2010 02:08 PM (14 years ago)  (m) Very interesting match. But cheer you enter 18 fine what stop you from scoring to get the second goal. Add another goal DONSTAN1
Efficient 4 Global | Posted: at 12-11-2010 02:08 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 12-11-2010 02:11 PM (14 years ago) (f) heheheheheeeeeeeeeeeee
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 12-11-2010 02:11 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "omorewa") omorewa at 12-11-2010 02:13 PM (14 years ago) (f)  
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you! | Posted: at 12-11-2010 02:13 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 12-11-2010 02:18 PM (14 years ago) (f) But u know say some men no fit count their children ? how abaut that ?
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 12-11-2010 02:18 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 12-11-2010 02:19 PM (14 years ago) (f) forgive and move on wif ya life cos divorce is out of dis case | Posted: at 12-11-2010 02:19 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "macgreat") macgreat at 12-11-2010 02:23 PM (14 years ago) (m) Huh
My life is BEAUTIFUL! . . don't NEED attentions, Give 'em to those who really NEED 'em. . . No Time | Posted: at 12-11-2010 02:23 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 12-11-2010 02:25 PM (14 years ago) (f) yea !!!
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 12-11-2010 02:25 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "ILOVEIT") ILOVEIT at 12-11-2010 02:27 PM (14 years ago) (m) But u know say some men no fit count their children ? how abaut that ?
LOL
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. | Posted: at 12-11-2010 02:27 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Pepesy") Pepesy at 12-11-2010 03:08 PM (14 years ago) (f) immediately she told me dat she is gonna get her ass kicked out immediately.. despite d fact its gonna take time 2 heal d wounds bt dats gonna b ma decision.
Datz for u not evrybdy | Posted: at 12-11-2010 03:08 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 12-11-2010 03:14 PM (14 years ago) (m) i have a girlfriend that i dated for 3 nd half yrs nd after paying her bride price in naija, i found out that she has a 10 yrs old son already.but her family concealed it from me and my family, until d day she mistakenly told me about the development after having a good sex with her that eve, what should i do guys pls help.
Na waoo, how on earth is this possible, hiding such thing from you is not good. Complicated issue 
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 12-11-2010 03:14 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 12-11-2010 11:03 PM (14 years ago) (m) i have a girlfriend that i dated for 3 nd half yrs nd after paying her bride price in naija, i found out that she has a 10 yrs old son already.but her family concealed it from me and my family, until d day she mistakenly told me about the development after having a good sex with her that eve, what should i do guys pls help.
She Kept Somthin like dis from yu? There's definitely more Bombshells to Drop Later Call it off Her type is Obvious na... She and her Family only Want the Man Cos of the Financial Aid they're getting from him
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 12-11-2010 11:03 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 12-11-2010 11:05 PM (14 years ago) (m) And the Family might just be Seriously Trying to Offload the Girl, so the Secret was Very Important to them They didn't Wanno Lose any Suitor
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 12-11-2010 11:05 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "onyin") onyin at 12-11-2010 11:12 PM (14 years ago) (f) Wow!. | Posted: at 12-11-2010 11:12 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "tyabo") tyabo at 13-11-2010 05:48 AM (14 years ago) (m) But u know say some men no fit count their children ? how abaut that ?
says hu ? | Posted: at 13-11-2010 05:48 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "tyabo") tyabo at 13-11-2010 05:49 AM (14 years ago) (m) forgive and move on wif ya life
cos divorce is out of dis case
Blessedme dat 1 wey u dey yarn na tori..if na me DIVORCE is still very much in d picture. hu tell her say make she no zip up r tin wen e dey itch her huh ? | Posted: at 13-11-2010 05:49 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "tyabo") tyabo at 13-11-2010 05:50 AM (14 years ago) (m) | Posted: at 13-11-2010 05:50 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "DONSTAN1") DONSTAN1 at 26-11-2010 03:34 AM (14 years ago) (m) i am lost... don't understand your post properly...
did she lied to you?
are you still engage to her?
infact i don't get it but i am coming back
she and her family (mum and dad) concealed it fro me..even after paying her bride price.....but we are no longer together. | Posted: at 26-11-2010 03:34 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "DONSTAN1") DONSTAN1 at 26-11-2010 03:37 AM (14 years ago) (m) hmmm..............dark secrets............
Having a child out of wedlock is not a crime.............but concealing it from the person you wish to marry is a crime against that person.............he/she has the right to know so as to decide whether he/she can cope............
Poster, I know that your faith in her and in this marriage is shaken if not destroyed...........I think both of you really need a long talk on the way forward....
well i have cancelled the union...she can put poison in my food... 4 how long we have been dating b4 d incident-... | Posted: at 26-11-2010 03:37 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "DONSTAN1") DONSTAN1 at 26-11-2010 03:49 AM (14 years ago) (m) Very interesting match. But cheer you enter 18 fine what stop you from scoring to get the second goal.
Add another goal DONSTAN1
hmmm..............dark secrets............
Having a child out of wedlock is not a crime.............but concealing it from the person you wish to marry is a crime against that person.............he/she has the right to know so as to decide whether he/she can cope............
Poster, I know that your faith in her and in this marriage is shaken if not destroyed...........I think both of you really need a long talk on the way forward....
i think am lucky not to have scored the second goal even though i did b4 too but it was said to be throwing well i have cancelled the union...she can put poison in my food... 4 how long we have been dating b4 d incident-... | Posted: at 26-11-2010 03:49 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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