i have a girlfriend that i dated for 3 nd half yrs nd after paying her bride price in naija, i found out that she has a 10 yrs old son already.but her family concealed it from me and my family, until d day she mistakenly told me about the development after having a good sex with her that eve, what should i do guys pls help.
Posted: at 12-11-2010 01:07 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
divineproject at 12-11-2010 01:15 PM (14 years ago) (f)
hmmm..............dark secrets............
Having a child out of wedlock is not a crime.............but concealing it from the person you wish to marry is a crime against that person.............he/she has the right to know so as to decide whether he/she can cope............
Poster, I know that your faith in her and in this marriage is shaken if not destroyed...........I think both of you really need a long talk on the way forward....
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 12-11-2010 01:15 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
mydicksweet at 12-11-2010 01:16 PM (14 years ago) (m)
To my understanding i dont think u need any advice here unless u dont love ur gurl,beside she was the one that told u herself and not that i find out urself i believe ur man enought to know what u want in life,
Posted: at 12-11-2010 01:16 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
hmmmmmmmmmm this is serious but do u think she disclosed this to u because u gave her the "best" she ever had ? I dont think so because if she is bent on hidding it from u nothing will make her spil it .I hope u knew her well enough before proceedingb to marry her
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 12-11-2010 01:21 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
@Omerawa,,, he sd his newly married wify (they dated 3yrs plus) deceived him by nt telling him about her 10yrs old boy from another guy b4 marrying him. did u get it now???
Bros,,,, pls take heart she should ve told u dat earlier bu,,,, as it,,,, she is already ur wify find a place in ur heart 2 4giv her.
Posted: at 12-11-2010 01:23 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 12-11-2010 01:34 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
i have a girlfriend that i dated for 3 nd half yrs nd after paying her bride price in naija, i found out that she has a 10 yrs old son already.but her family concealed it from me and my family, until d day she mistakenly told me about the development after having a good sex with her that eve, what should i do guys pls help.
She Kept Somthin like dis from yu? There's definitely more Bombshells to Drop Later
Call it off
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
Posted: at 12-11-2010 01:37 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 12-11-2010 01:45 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
WOMEN! WOMEN!! WOMEN!!! WHY IS IT THAT SOME WOMEN ARE SO MYSTERIOUS,CHEII THREE GOOD YEARS SHE HAVE BEEN HIDING THIS FROM YOU. I JUST WONDER WHAT WILL FOLLOW NEXT.DAMN!!
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits..
Posted: at 12-11-2010 01:48 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
bomsiluv at 12-11-2010 01:56 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Kennee on 12-11-2010 01:37 PM
Quote from: DONSTAN1 on 12-11-2010 01:07 PM
i have a girlfriend that i dated for 3 nd half yrs nd after paying her bride price in naija, i found out that she has a 10 yrs old son already.but her family concealed it from me and my family, until d day she mistakenly told me about the development after having a good sex with her that eve, what should i do guys pls help.
She Kept Somthin like dis from yu? There's definitely more Bombshells to Drop Later
Call it off
Ewo! Kennee.
Posted: at 12-11-2010 01:56 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 12-11-2010 02:00 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
immediately she told me dat she is gonna get her ass kicked out immediately.. despite d fact its gonna take time 2 heal d wounds bt dats gonna b ma decision.
Posted: at 12-11-2010 02:00 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
i have a girlfriend that i dated for 3 nd half yrs nd after paying her bride price in naija, i found out that she has a 10 yrs old son already.but her family concealed it from me and my family, until d day she mistakenly told me about the development after having a good sex with her that eve, what should i do guys pls help.
She Kept Somthin like dis from yu? There's definitely more Bombshells to Drop Later
Call it off
Kennee i support u 101 times..
Posted: at 12-11-2010 02:03 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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