Honesty Really is the Best Policy

Date: 13-11-2010 4:18 pm (14 years ago) | Author: king Iyke Eke
- at 13-11-2010 04:18 PM (14 years ago)
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When you join an online dating service, you are looking for a girl that you can like…even come to love.  That girl is looking for a guy that SHE can like or even love.  What you aren’t looking for is a girl who would like your best friend or your idea of what the perfect guy looks like or talks like or thinks like.  So, in order to find the right girl for you…and she IS out there…you need to be completely honest with yourself about yourself when writing the online profile, during the dating process and beyond.

The best way to begin writing your profile is to carefully analyze your past relationship (s).  What was right?  What was wrong?  What things really made you like the last girl?  Which didn’t?  Don’t assume that just because you hated that your last girl was so totally self-involved that she couldn’t see anything else, you’ll be able to overlook that quality this time. You won’t. 

  If you aren’t 6’1” with a six-pack to be proud of, don’t claim to be.  If you are a bar tender, don’t claim to be a lawyer with a six figure income. If you are 40 going on 50, don’t pretend to be 30 something.

Remember, the idea here is to find a girl who will like you exactly like you are. If you have lied in your profile, the first face-to-face meeting will remove all her doubt that you are a liar…and probably a cheat, as well.   

Lastly, once you have found a girl that you believe can be the one for you, for goodness sakes, cancel your membership to the online dating service.  After all, you know and she knows that online dating services are intended for those who are looking…not those who have found or been found.

Posted: at 13-11-2010 04:18 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
- macgreat at 13-11-2010 04:21 PM (14 years ago)
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Hmm. . .

My profile is BLANK. . . Sorry!
Posted: at 13-11-2010 04:21 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- diplomatik at 13-11-2010 04:22 PM (14 years ago)
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for the guys abi? i'm out>>>>>>
Posted: at 13-11-2010 04:22 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 13-11-2010 04:25 PM (14 years ago)
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Dos and donts of online dating?...........
Posted: at 13-11-2010 04:25 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- macgreat at 13-11-2010 04:30 PM (14 years ago)
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pretty much so
Posted: at 13-11-2010 04:30 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- omorewa at 13-11-2010 04:34 PM (14 years ago)
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i was here
Posted: at 13-11-2010 04:34 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dorro at 13-11-2010 04:36 PM (14 years ago)
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@poster are u a good example
 Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh?
Posted: at 13-11-2010 04:36 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- macgreat at 13-11-2010 04:37 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: omorewa on 13-11-2010 04:34 PM
i was here

Of course  Wink
Posted: at 13-11-2010 04:37 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- kingIyke at 13-11-2010 08:09 PM (14 years ago)
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Being who u are pays. I dont think there is anything to gain wen people are nt there self
Posted: at 13-11-2010 08:09 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- juleshotluv at 13-11-2010 08:27 PM (14 years ago)
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Tell em' guys poster, some of them might just need it Grin
Posted: at 13-11-2010 08:27 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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