Do i attend my ex-lover wedding? (Page 3)

Date: 05-12-2007 11:16 pm (17 years ago) | Author: Femi Ojo
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- Vixenx at 18-02-2008 10:04 PM (17 years ago)
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I think i would attend the wedding if i aint got no feelings for him still...and i'm sure sometimes in the future, they'll divorce and he'll come back looking for me... Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 18-02-2008 10:04 PM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dejifortune at 19-02-2008 02:50 AM (17 years ago)
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Quote from: nigerianvixen26 on 29-12-2007 08:46 PM
Sausage is thicker...so i'll go with sausage.......

Sausage coming all the way.......
Posted: at 19-02-2008 02:50 AM (17 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Grease at 19-02-2008 08:56 AM (17 years ago)
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Quote from: xcomman on  5-12-2007 11:16 PM
About a year ago, my honey left me for another rich guy all in the name that she want to get married by 25.  first of all i'm not ripe enouch finacially for marriage and i keep telling her  getting wedded at that age is not the issue but the blissfulness thereof....... all of a sudden my wolrd tuned upside and no fomular worked any longer.... friends, family and well wishers intervened all to no avail.... at this point the only thing she knows how to do is to capitalised on my shutcomings.... When it got to the point that i discovered i will just die for nothing , i decided to accept my fate!  months latter we started communicating - she realised her mistake and i realised mine and improved seriously on the quality of my life... We talk everytime on phone except this few eeks , i tried to smoothen d odd between her ,friend and  my family...  The funniest part is that the new guy knows me well - right from the time i was tight with the girl but i never knew him. Her wedding ceremony is coming up this month and a copy of invitation has been brought to us.... but i do not think i can stand been at the ceremony for now....... what do u think i can do..............

According to your post...It seems like you ex loves you and willing to marry you but you ain't ready for that big step so she had to find someone who isn't taking baby steps. I think  the whole issue if from you i would do the same if i was the girl" She made it clear to you that she wanted to get married at the age of 25 and you ain't ready for marriage. Do not blame her for doing what she did.... I tell y'all, there more to this story than the OP is posting... My little advice for you is to stand up and look for someone way younger than you are so that you can  have many years ahead of you to get financially settled.... Like you said you have improved seriously on the quality of your life so be a man and attend the wedding and quit bitching around plus she ain't your honey no more

Posted: at 19-02-2008 08:56 AM (17 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- myragonza at 19-02-2008 04:31 PM (17 years ago)
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and stop crying over spilled milk
Posted: at 19-02-2008 04:31 PM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- damien2 at 19-02-2008 07:18 PM (17 years ago)
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  the girl  even had the guts to send you her wedding invitation(could be a kind of mockery) man if i were you i wouldnt even communicate with her again and me being in her wedding ceremony means i might end up pissing on their wedding cake.....throw up the middle finger at her and go find a better girl(there are lots of them who are willing to do anything to keep a guy like you) lets not lose our pride over worthless and less than nothing golddiggers
Posted: at 19-02-2008 07:18 PM (17 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Grease at 20-02-2008 01:09 AM (17 years ago)
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Quote from: myragonza on 19-02-2008 04:31 PM
and stop crying over spilled milk

 Grin
Posted: at 20-02-2008 01:09 AM (17 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dejifortune at 20-02-2008 01:11 AM (17 years ago)
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brb
Posted: at 20-02-2008 01:11 AM (17 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- myragonza at 20-02-2008 11:24 AM (17 years ago)
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are u attending a wedding deji.....?
Posted: at 20-02-2008 11:24 AM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Grease at 20-02-2008 12:09 PM (17 years ago)
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Quote from: myragonza on 20-02-2008 11:24 AM
are u attending a wedding deji.....?

 Undecided
Posted: at 20-02-2008 12:09 PM (17 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Motunrayooluwa at 20-02-2008 12:55 PM (17 years ago)
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Quote from: xcomman on  5-12-2007 11:16 PM
About a year ago, my honey left me for another rich guy all in the name that she want to get married by 25.  first of all i'm not ripe enouch finacially for marriage and i keep telling her  getting wedded at that age is not the issue but the blissfulness thereof....... all of a sudden my wolrd tuned upside and no fomular worked any longer.... friends, family and well wishers intervened all to no avail.... at this point the only thing she knows how to do is to capitalised on my shutcomings.... When it got to the point that i discovered i will just die for nothing , i decided to accept my fate!  months latter we started communicating - she realised her mistake and i realised mine and improved seriously on the quality of my life... We talk everytime on phone except this few eeks , i tried to smoothen d odd between her ,friend and  my family...  The funniest part is that the new guy knows me well - right from the time i was tight with the girl but i never knew him. Her wedding ceremony is coming up this month and a copy of invitation has been brought to us.... but i do not think i can stand been at the ceremony for now....... what do u think i can do..............

If you do not feel right about attending the wedding, then don't go...you have to move on (I feel like I have been myself on every post).
I just can't seem to understand why it seems to be most nigerian guys here that get their hearts broken and all that... that is just so weird sturvs... You all need to be men and suck it up. Life ain't fair, you just deal with it and move on.
Posted: at 20-02-2008 12:55 PM (17 years ago) | Upcoming
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- myragonza at 20-02-2008 03:08 PM (17 years ago)
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actually ur presence in ur ex's wedding may cause some old sparks to rise.... Wink
Posted: at 20-02-2008 03:08 PM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Grease at 20-02-2008 08:08 PM (17 years ago)
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Quote from: myragonza on 20-02-2008 03:08 PM
actually ur presence in ur ex's wedding may cause some old sparks to rise.... Wink

Old sparks for real
Posted: at 20-02-2008 08:08 PM (17 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- myragonza at 20-02-2008 08:59 PM (17 years ago)
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old treasure to be dugged out
Posted: at 20-02-2008 08:59 PM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bishgate at 20-02-2008 10:22 PM (17 years ago)
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You have said it, "i dont feel attending". So, dont attend the wedding, life goes on. Just give yourself time, you can stil find someone better.

Take heart!
Posted: at 20-02-2008 10:22 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie
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- Grease at 20-02-2008 10:28 PM (17 years ago)
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Come talk to deji....He can find you some chocolate and honey babes on naijapals Smiley Smiley
Posted: at 20-02-2008 10:28 PM (17 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dejifortune at 21-02-2008 01:50 AM (17 years ago)
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Quote from: myragonza on 20-02-2008 11:24 AM
are u attending a wedding deji.....?

No, i only went to get some more chocolate and honey
Posted: at 21-02-2008 01:50 AM (17 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Grease at 21-02-2008 06:25 AM (17 years ago)
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Quote from: dejifortune on 21-02-2008 01:50 AM
Quote from: myragonza on 20-02-2008 11:24 AM
are u attending a wedding deji.....?

No, i only went to get some more chocolate and honey

 Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 21-02-2008 06:25 AM (17 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- myragonza at 21-02-2008 09:27 PM (17 years ago)
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are u laughing at me...?
Posted: at 21-02-2008 09:27 PM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Vixenx at 22-02-2008 12:37 AM (17 years ago)
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who's laughing at you Myra?... Angry Angry Angry
Posted: at 22-02-2008 12:37 AM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Grease at 22-02-2008 12:40 AM (17 years ago)
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Quote from: myragonza on 21-02-2008 09:27 PM
are u laughing at me...?

 Tongue Tongue Tongue
Posted: at 22-02-2008 12:40 AM (17 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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