THIS IS A MUST STORY TO READ BY EVERYONE. THIS STORY MADE ME CRY (Page 4)

Date: 03-12-2010 4:22 pm (10 years ago) | Author: John Hope Onyedikachi
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- mexiboku at 29-10-2011 04:58 PM (9 years ago)
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oh no she 4 no die now
Posted: at 29-10-2011 04:58 PM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- Sexymi at 16-11-2011 01:09 PM (9 years ago)
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This is fiction not reall from Flopky Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 16-11-2011 01:09 PM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- zainaim01 at 17-11-2011 05:19 PM (9 years ago)
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This is a touching story
Posted: at 17-11-2011 05:19 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- OguguaH at 19-11-2011 09:53 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: onyi2010 on  3-12-2010 04:22 PM
MARRIAGE

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and  Said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly.  Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

 Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know What I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, Why?

 I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the Chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't Talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what Had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory     Answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn't love her anymore. I just  Pitied her! With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated That she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.

She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent   Ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for Her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I Had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front Of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually A kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several  Weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

 The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something At the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell  Asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane.

 When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not Care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want Anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She  Requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a  Life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken Marriage

 This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to Recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.

She requested that every day for the month's duration I carry her out of Our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going  Crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd  Request.

 I told Jane about my wife's divorce conditions.She laughed loudly and Thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to Face the divorce, she said scornfully.

 

 My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was Explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we  Both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy  In his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to The sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in  My arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about The divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside  The door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the Office.

 On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my Chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I  Hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she  Was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair Was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I  Wondered what I had done to her.

 On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy Returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.

 On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was Growing again. I didn't tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry Her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me  Stronger.

 

 She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few  Dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my Dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

 Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

 Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer  and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I  might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her     hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly;     it was just like our wedding day.

 But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I  held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.

 I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the  door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

 She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have  a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I  didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.

 Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then  slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.

 At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my  wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and  wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

 That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.

 My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save  me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push  through with the divorce.-- At least, in the eyes of our son--- I'm a loving husband....

 The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

 If you don't share this, nothing will happen to you.

 If you do, you just might save a marriage.

 Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they     were to success when they gave up.

 A CHRIST-CENTERED MARRIAGE IS A MARRIAGE THAT IS SURE TO LAST A  LIFETIME.

 So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has  joined together, let not man separate.
Posted: at 19-11-2011 09:53 PM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- priceless87 at 21-11-2011 12:35 PM (9 years ago)
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Touching.....the death of the woman is caused by the husband
Posted: at 21-11-2011 12:35 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kosarachi at 10-03-2012 07:48 AM (9 years ago)
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I was touched with d story.....
Posted: at 10-03-2012 07:48 AM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- kingjoe1 at 10-03-2012 12:57 PM (9 years ago)
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what a wise story i have learn from it will always hug my wife
Posted: at 10-03-2012 12:57 PM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- wilat at 22-03-2012 01:26 PM (9 years ago)
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I don read tire

Posted: at 22-03-2012 01:26 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- MildLola at 17-05-2012 12:22 PM (9 years ago)
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sad Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry
Posted: at 17-05-2012 12:22 PM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- mizcollins1 at 17-05-2012 11:29 PM (9 years ago)
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beautiful and sad at the same time
Posted: at 17-05-2012 11:29 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bekayos at 18-05-2012 02:43 PM (9 years ago)
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its a lesson for  all of us both single and married.i learn from people experiences whether good or bad.love ur wife and dont divorce her expect if she commit sexual sin so that u will not be guilty.
Posted: at 18-05-2012 02:43 PM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- mizcollins1 at 19-05-2012 12:06 PM (9 years ago)
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VERY TRUE
Posted: at 19-05-2012 12:06 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- stevinchrist at 19-05-2012 12:41 PM (9 years ago)
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I pray for all our naijapals, whatever that may try to steal intimacy in our marriages shall be consume by Holy Ghost acidic Fire in Jesus Name................................can i hear you say your loudest Amen

Posted: at 19-05-2012 12:41 PM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- Tutu24 at 22-05-2012 03:08 PM (9 years ago)
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a touchin story guys learn ur lessons @poster are sure dis not d story of ur life u can sell it to Nollywood
Posted: at 22-05-2012 03:08 PM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- mamroseob at 28-05-2012 06:30 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: uprising on  8-12-2010 04:58 PM
copy and paste

Yes, its a copy and paste story, i have read it somewhere before this
Posted: at 28-05-2012 06:30 PM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- Solidstonez at 10-06-2012 12:05 AM (9 years ago)
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Hmmmmmmmm

Posted: at 10-06-2012 12:05 AM (9 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- chicco77 at 23-06-2012 06:23 PM (8 years ago)
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 Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss
Posted: at 23-06-2012 06:23 PM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dlimelite at 5-07-2012 02:18 PM (8 years ago)
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Interesting
Posted: at 5-07-2012 02:18 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- dktotz at 3-08-2012 12:33 PM (8 years ago)
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A good story.  Lesson learned. learn to appreciate.

Posted: at 3-08-2012 12:33 PM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Youngessien at 8-08-2012 01:46 PM (8 years ago)
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I feel like crying but i promise my safe not to cry again in my life
Posted: at 8-08-2012 01:46 PM (8 years ago) | Newbie
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