If a man marries a woman that wore short skirts before marriage why would he think she would stop wearing it after marriage.
If you don't want your wife to wear short skirts marry a woman that doesn't wear short skirts. If she wore short skirts while you dated her and shes was 'hot' but still faithful its not going to change after she gets married (unless she decides not to continue being faithful) changing the length of her skirt has nothing to do with it. Same way if you marry a woman that was sleeping around before marriage, short skirt or long skirt, if she decides to she will do the same while married.
RANT ALERT

(This is MY opinion you don't have to read and reply with you meaningless insults. I am aware that most of it has nothing to do with this topic, my reply to it is above)
Some men act like their wives are their private property or item and everything she does after marriage she should do only with him in mind and just how he likes it no questions asked because he is the head of the family or man of the house. The thing is, the head is nothing without the body, you dont see only heads walking on the streets. The head of the family is nothing without the family, if you want to go that way it can easily be said that the heart is in the body itself and it is also important. Only a stupid person would be thinking, which is more important the head or the heart/body?, because they are both important, they can not function right without each other. It take two to tangle.
I hear alot of men talk about how they would send their wives back to her fathers house or send her packing ( hint comment above) like it is the ultimate insult or like only the woman is loosing. Both of you are loosing, the man and women... you have broken up your family, its not only the woman that is without a husband, you are without a wife and you can go on and be the head of yourself all you want now. Thats thing was more effective when women didn't do anything, could not afford to live by themselves and depended on men for everything. Only a woman that has nothing going on for her would be threatened by that.
I am not saying men are not important or their opinions don't matter, I am saying women are important and their opinions matter as well. Someone replied to me on the post about tattoos saying that a married womans body belongs to her husband. I didn't even bother to reply, yeah its belongs to her husband if he will help her carry their babies in his womb and he will help her push them out from his womb as well. If your wife wants to get tattoos she will ask your opinion not permission to mark HER body. If you convince her not to... good for you, if not deal with it, you can send her back to her fathers house because of a tattoo if you like but she should have a choice.
Anyway I just thought I should put this in here because of some of the replies I have read and generally the replies I read on other posts about subjects like this.
Posted: at 9-12-2010 01:33 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming |
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