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Date: 22-12-2010 6:21 am (14 years ago) | Author: E2c
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- oyindabty at 22-12-2010 09:50 AM (14 years ago)
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is dis a way to help the poster out of the Pastor's wahala or wht are you pple doin
Posted: at 22-12-2010 09:50 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 22-12-2010 09:58 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 22-12-2010 08:46 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 22-12-2010 08:39 AM
Hmmm ur friend is fcuking the pastor and they r bribing u togeda....

BUT, u r married?? hmmmm how com ur husband dont knw abt ur pregnancy??


d hubby might know abt the pregnancy and it been in her tube, but maybe doesnt know abt how far she's gone wit her friend and the pastor
If he knw abt her pregnancy why not keep it wen u r married??

An if he knw, he shud help her not send her on her own

Posted: at 22-12-2010 09:58 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 22-12-2010 10:30 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 22-12-2010 09:58 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 22-12-2010 08:46 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 22-12-2010 08:39 AM
Hmmm ur friend is fcuking the pastor and they r bribing u togeda....

BUT, u r married?? hmmmm how com ur husband dont knw abt ur pregnancy??


d hubby might know abt the pregnancy and it been in her tube, but maybe doesnt know abt how far she's gone wit her friend and the pastor
If he knw abt her pregnancy why not keep it wen u r married??

An if he knw, he shud help her not send her on her own



abi ooo

Posted: at 22-12-2010 10:30 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- blessedme at 22-12-2010 10:41 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: tmusowoya on 22-12-2010 07:56 AM
false prophets on the loose!!!!
who loose them? abeg hold them make we tie them back
Posted: at 22-12-2010 10:41 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- solojaro at 22-12-2010 10:47 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 22-12-2010 08:36 AM
Tell ur husband.
dont pa any money
report dat pastor to the police (he is a disgrace to christaindom)
Quit ur relationship  wit her
Don't waste time, Oya poster do this before it is too late.
Posted: at 22-12-2010 10:47 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedme at 22-12-2010 11:03 AM (14 years ago)
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lol
Posted: at 22-12-2010 11:03 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 22-12-2010 11:09 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: solojaro on 22-12-2010 10:47 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 22-12-2010 08:36 AM
Tell ur husband.
dont pa any money
report dat pastor to the police (he is a disgrace to christaindom)
Quit ur relationship  wit her
Don't waste time, Oya poster do this before it is too late.

abi

people don dey use the name of pastor dey make moni

Posted: at 22-12-2010 11:09 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- blessedme at 22-12-2010 11:10 AM (14 years ago)
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i don pass again
Posted: at 22-12-2010 11:10 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 22-12-2010 11:21 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Aigbonohan on 22-12-2010 06:21 AM
Am married with kids. I was pregnant again and the baby was in my tube, i told a friend and she gave me a pastor's number to call which i did and the pastor said that i shuld give her 45,000 cos she needs to do some prayers for me. I neva knew dat one can pay for prayers so i told her to hold on dat i will call her back in 2days. So i told my friend everything and that i can't pay for prayers and since the baby is not giving me problem i will prefer to wait for God to answer my prayers. After 2months i took some injection to remove the baby from the tube but part of it came out and i was so happy to tell my friend that d baby is finally out of my tube cos some things came out of me.
She called the pastor and told her everything and 2wks after she told me dat the pastor wants the 45k dat she did all the prayers. I was confuse cos i told the pastor to hold on and i did tell her dat i was not interested, she was saying dat the pastor will deal with me n dat she has no mother n father cos this pastor is her everything. She even went to the extent of saying that she regretted knowing me.
Pls help me cos i don't know wat she can do. (1) Should i tell my husband? (2) Should i pay the money? (3)Can she still be my friend? I later went to the doctor to check myself and i was told that the baby is still in the tube and i need to operate it. So wat am i paying the pastor for?


Why would some women like to take things into their hands at first, without letting the man of the house know first, You prefer your friend than the man you called your husband ? You've gone to money seekers now who will pay the husband for sure, thats why, You're asking if you should tell him............. why not ? go on and tell him now, Poor men, what can we do, if we don't take care of the mess now, we will get a name to it.

In the first place he is the man responsible for your pregnant, you're own man, he should know every move, every problem you encounter along the line before you start seeking an outside help. Now problem is on the way, You remember him. too bad  Angry Angry

Tell him everything asap !! and you're friend is not a friend indeed, just in-case you don't know that, that pastor is not a pastor also, confirmed money seeker, fake one, which prayer he/she did ?

Posted: at 22-12-2010 11:21 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 22-12-2010 11:25 AM (14 years ago)
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Hmmmmm!
Why married ppl keep things away from each other?
Look what could lead that to!
Undecided

Posted: at 22-12-2010 11:25 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onyin at 22-12-2010 12:22 PM (14 years ago)
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Tell your husband everything,join a good church and narrate your story to the pastor.let them pray for you,if its still necessary for you to get the operation done,then do it.and for your friend and the fake pastor?.delete the friend from your life,she's not worth your friendship.get the pastor arrested if such threats continues or if no more threats then just ignore and forget the pastor.you need to be prayerful and you need to move closer to God.
Posted: at 22-12-2010 12:22 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- juleshotluv at 22-12-2010 01:09 PM (14 years ago)
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Giving money to a pastor to do some prayers for you...that right there is a red sign. What kind of pastor collects money before praying for someone? Are we referring to a native sort of pastor here? A real pastor shouldn’t demand money from anyone before praying for them as far as am concern. What sort of tube are you talking about poster? What do you mean by baby in the tube? Is it tube or womb?  And what do you mean you took some injection and some of the baby came out?  Are we talking about abortion here?( I guess yes right?). So, my question is who was/is responsible for the pregnancy since you haven’t told your husband yet and you went on with an abortion? (I might be wrong).  What I don’t understand here is, why did you take injection to remove the baby? Whose baby was it? Didn’t the baby belong to your husband? Or were you cheating on your husband and you got pregnant with another man; you then wanted to sneak/ go behind your husband’s back and abort the pregnancy but complications happened?  I mean, if this baby in your tube/womb belongs to the both of you; you and your husband, why did you have to take injection to remove it? And it seems your husband is unaware of it.

 For your questions: 1) should you tell your husband? I believe that was the first thing you should have done? When you started having this issue, you should have gone to him. I guess the reason you don’t want to go to your husband is because the baby is not his?? 

2) Should you pay the money? This pastor is not a normal pastor I would say..So it’s better you pay him to avoid any forward problem but then again what makes you believe that once you pay her, she would not demand for more money?  Clearly your friend and this pastor are bribing you.

 3) Can she still be your friend? How can such person still be your friend? From your own stand point, is she still worthy to be a friend? Shouldn’t she be the one pleasing with this pastor of hers (which is also her father and mother) on your behind? Instead she is pleasuring you into paying the money and saying she is disappointed in you. 

At this point, if the pregnancy wasn’t from your husband that is why you kept it a secret and went to the extent of removing it without his knowledge then pay the pastor and then confront your husband about it and stay away from your friend because she is not  your friend.  But if its otherwise, then reply my comment and i will rephrase my comments.
Posted: at 22-12-2010 01:09 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 22-12-2010 01:14 PM (14 years ago)
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Jules, u hit the nail on the head!

I guess the baby is not from her husband, and that is why she didn't tell him!
Why would she abort the baby, when she is married and happy?
And i also don't understand what she means with 'part of the baby came out'?

All i can say is from reading this post, she doesn't sound like a normal woman to me, because
of the way she talk about the pregnancy, the husband, and her friend!
Posted: at 22-12-2010 01:14 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- juleshotluv at 22-12-2010 01:17 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 22-12-2010 01:14 PM
Jules, u hit the nail on the head!

I guess the baby is not from her husband, and that is why she didn't tell him!
Why would she abort the baby, when she is married and happy?
And i also don't understand what she means with 'part of the baby came out'?

All i can say is from reading this post, she doesn't sound like a normal woman to me, because
of the way she talk about the pregnancy, the husband, and her friend!



Thanks FlyMamacita!

I dont understand this woman either.
Posted: at 22-12-2010 01:17 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- truenaija2 at 22-12-2010 01:23 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Aigbonohan on 22-12-2010 06:21 AM
Am married with kids. I was pregnant again and the baby was in my tube, i told a friend and she gave me a pastor's number to call which i did and  Shocked that  :ocos she needs t Shocked. I neva knew dat one can pay for prayers so i told her to hold on dat i will call her back in 2days. So i told my friend everything and that i can't pay for prayers and since the baby is not giving me problem i will prefer to wait for God to answer my prayers. After 2months i took some injection to remove the baby from the tube but part of it came out and i was so happy to tell my friend that d baby is finally out of my tube cos some things came out of me.
She called the pastor and told her everything and 2wks after she told me dat the pastor wants the 45k dat she did all the prayers. I was confuse cos i told the pastor to hold on and i did tell her dat i was not interested, she was saying dat the pastor will deal with me n dat she has no mother n father cos this pastor is her everything. She even went to the extent of saying that she regretted knowing me.
Pls help me cos i don't know wat she can do. (1) Should i tell my husband? (2) Should i pay the money? (3)Can she still be my friend? I later went to the doctor to check myself and i was told that the baby is still in the tube and i need to operate it. So wat am i paying the pastor for?


u dont have a friend thats what d yoruba call ota ile meaning internal enemy does r the worst type of enemies u can have dey can destroy without u know she just wanted to use u to get money for this pastorfriend maybe they will even share d money dont let her also collect your husband oooh strange things r happening pls tell ur husband about it in details and dont pay any money tell ur pastor about so he can pray against any spiritual a ttack and fast and pray. nawa for naija ooo Grin jesus said in d end time there will fake pastors wolfs in sheeps clothing and he said we should watchout for them  Grin
Posted: at 22-12-2010 01:23 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- truenaija2 at 22-12-2010 01:25 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on 22-12-2010 12:22 PM
Tell your husband everything,join a good church and narrate your story to the pastor.let them pray for you,if its still necessary for you to get the operation done,then do it.and for your friend and the fake pastor?.delete the friend from your life,she's not worth your friendship.get the pastor arrested if such threats continues or if no more threats then just ignore and forget the pastor.you need to be prayerful and you need to move closer to God.

CORRECT TALK Onyin Wink
Posted: at 22-12-2010 01:25 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- samboko at 22-12-2010 01:33 PM (14 years ago)
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this is delicate to respond to but i see senses in what Jules said and asked. If you have another pastor, tell him about the pastor who is forcing you to pay for prayers he didnt do....pastors are like herbalists too....they can use same bible to do evil, dont you know that?

about your friend, dont jump into conclusion that she is trying to rob you. what if she is scared of this her pastor more than you can imagine? put her to test, tell her to help you get some of the money and watch her reaction.....a good friend can turn bad overnight, and a bad friend can be our lifesaver sometimes....

i will wait for you to answer juleshotluv question about who has the baby and why dont you tell your husband that you are removing it....
Posted: at 22-12-2010 01:33 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- FlyMamacita at 22-12-2010 01:34 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: samboko on 22-12-2010 01:33 PM
this is delicate to respond to but i see senses in what Jules said and asked. If you have another pastor, tell him about the pastor who is forcing you to pay for prayers he didnt do....pastors are like herbalists too....they can use same bible to do evil, dont you know that?

about your friend, dont jump into conclusion that she is trying to rob you. what if she is scared of this her pastor more than you can imagine? put her to test, tell her to help you get some of the money and watch her reaction.....a good friend can turn bad overnight, and a bad friend can be our lifesaver sometimes....

i will wait for you to answer juleshotluv question about who has the baby and why dont you tell your husband that you are removing it....
Wise words!
Posted: at 22-12-2010 01:34 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- samboko at 22-12-2010 01:36 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 22-12-2010 01:34 PM
Quote from: samboko on 22-12-2010 01:33 PM
this is delicate to respond to but i see senses in what Jules said and asked. If you have another pastor, tell him about the pastor who is forcing you to pay for prayers he didnt do....pastors are like herbalists too....they can use same bible to do evil, dont you know that?

about your friend, dont jump into conclusion that she is trying to rob you. what if she is scared of this her pastor more than you can imagine? put her to test, tell her to help you get some of the money and watch her reaction.....a good friend can turn bad overnight, and a bad friend can be our lifesaver sometimes....

i will wait for you to answer juleshotluv question about who has the baby and why dont you tell your husband that you are removing it....
Wise words!


thanks
Posted: at 22-12-2010 01:36 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- juleshotluv at 22-12-2010 03:09 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: samboko on 22-12-2010 01:33 PM
this is delicate to respond to but i see senses in what Jules said and asked. If you have another pastor, tell him about the pastor who is forcing you to pay for prayers he didnt do....pastors are like herbalists too....they can use same bible to do evil, dont you know that?

about your friend, dont jump into conclusion that she is trying to rob you. what if she is scared of this her pastor more than you can imagine? put her to test, tell her to help you get some of the money and watch her reaction.....a good friend can turn bad overnight, and a bad friend can be our lifesaver sometimes....

i will wait for you to answer juleshotluv question about who has the baby and why dont you tell your husband that you are removing it....


you are right, some questions needs to be answered in order to clear the air.
Posted: at 22-12-2010 03:09 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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