![-]( "veldana") veldana at 5-01-2011 09:08 AM (14 years ago)  (f) @poster.you are right.most people spend too much energy and time on wedding preparation and think less about life after wedding.and sumtimes,its money issues.spending all the money they have on wedding or taking loans and not been able to pay back can really stress both couple up.big time stress,instead of been happy they are sad ,cos they are thinking too much and working too hard just to pay back the loans.and you are so right,most people dont even know why they get married or why they are getting married.hmmm seems everyone is so quick to forget that love is patient.A true love grows with time.
corect. nice one there  | Posted: at 5-01-2011 09:08 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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the parents have a lot to do in dis respect and d women have to take marriare so seriously. marriage needs adjustment and its d women dat makes marriage to work well. | Posted: at 5-01-2011 10:35 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "sun-shine") sun-shine at 5-01-2011 10:38 AM (14 years ago) (f) Wedding is a special event, but marriage is a process.Wedding is a one-day affair, but marriage is "until death do us part". Sometimes, wedding is a four-hour affair which people invest so much on, but marriage which is for life is not given required attention, preparation and quality investment.Wedding is a public event, that is why it is usually attended by people from all works of life, but marriage is a private affair. After wedding, witnesses, supporters, sponsors, ministers of God, bridal train withdraw to their homes, and marriage between the bride and groom begins privately in their newly found home.I hope someone understands better now  Word  | Posted: at 5-01-2011 10:38 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "onyimau20") onyimau20 at 5-01-2011 11:05 AM (14 years ago) (f) marriage is not about money, marriage need knowledge ,even if your parents don't teach you anything about marriage,you are not a baby,you can lien from books, lien from the mistake others did,if there is something you don't know how to do it,ask someone that have the knowledge of marriage,there are some ppl there father and mother fight almost every day,don't allow such ppl to teach you anything about marriage,because if they do,you will fight your husband one day,marriage is for better for wost, is not a holiday,
Nice talk | Posted: at 5-01-2011 11:05 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "vikky123") vikky123 at 5-01-2011 11:09 AM (14 years ago) (m) i fink marriage is smfin dat needs too be managed,n not damaged by ppls personal n selfish reasons of wantin 2 pair 2 uncompactible individuals.....i also fink marriage is smfin dat shuld go all d way,shuld be based on luv n nt mare lust,ppls selfish desire as we do witness in 2day marriages,,makin ppl see marriage as a newly evolved business.....wch is not supposed 2 be.... | Posted: at 5-01-2011 11:09 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Plzzzzz tell me the dif btw marriage and wedding cos am lost here
marriage is Union btw man n woman forever (or for as long as the marriage last i guess). Wedding is an event/ ceremony where the Union does takes place | Posted: at 5-01-2011 11:40 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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i tink the correct word shld be wedging so dem no go seperate
lol @ wedging | Posted: at 5-01-2011 11:41 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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There are legitimate reasons for seeking a divorce, and nobody should be vilified for choosing to leave a marriage for legitimate reasons. When you have lived long enough in this world you realize that you can do everything right and still not reap a harvest.
True- back in the days when divorce didnt use to b an option, where it was a forever thing. People r forced to actually try and make it work. Yes initially it might seem like hell but eventually both parties learn to accept the inevitable and make it work the way they noe how to best. Nowadays, most marriages seem to end it before it begins as the couples, run at the fight sign of trouble. Are there people out there who genuinely have a good reason to divorce each other? Yes. But for one of those couple u will find a hundred others who seem to quit becuz it is too much hard work / corse they cant b bothered. | Posted: at 5-01-2011 11:56 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Oh and one moe thing.... Dont u just h8 it wen couples cite "irreconcilable differences" as a reason for their divorce? BS! no two people r alike so yes there r gonna b differences, the word is COMPROMISE. Besides, shudnt courting b about learning about most of these differences n deciding on whether u can live with them. | Posted: at 5-01-2011 11:57 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "thaat") thaat at 5-01-2011 12:02 PM (14 years ago) (f) For me my advice go to ladies of today we need to have patience if we want to enjoy our marriage life, because guys of today are not ready to settle down only to have child. So we ladies need to be patience and pray hard. | Posted: at 5-01-2011 12:02 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "walerian") walerian at 5-01-2011 12:09 PM (14 years ago) (m) tell them o! lol | Posted: at 5-01-2011 12:09 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "emmablow") emmablow at 5-01-2011 12:32 PM (14 years ago) (m) took tym n read thru all d comments.....hmmm.buh nw tink im jst speechlessssssssssssssssssssssssss!!!!! | Posted: at 5-01-2011 12:32 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "2000y247") 2000y247 at 5-01-2011 12:43 PM (14 years ago) (m) Marriage is money making venture it as lose is meaning long time,people marry cuz wat they are going to benefit from the other person thats why alot of divorce | Posted: at 5-01-2011 12:43 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "xena15") xena15 at 5-01-2011 12:46 PM (14 years ago) (f) I dey come.
D devil must b using ur destiny 2 weave his pubic hair if u think imma change all ma colors 4 u! | Posted: at 5-01-2011 12:46 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "betty55") betty55 at 5-01-2011 12:53 PM (14 years ago) (f) many women don take boyfriend turn husband and take husband make boyfriend.the same wit the men.if u guys are not meant for each other even ur angelic caracter will not keep the marriage.we most always pray hard when it comes to settling down.so that God will give one the right person and most inportantly God fearing partner.cos he or she will be afraid of hurting each other for the sake of God rules in their marriage.danke | Posted: at 5-01-2011 12:53 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "austineok") austineok at 5-01-2011 12:56 PM (14 years ago) (m) I dey come.
i no fit wet o! Mak u come my house sharp sharp o! | Posted: at 5-01-2011 12:56 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "austineok") austineok at 5-01-2011 01:03 PM (14 years ago) (m) For me my advice go to ladies of today we need to have patience if we want to enjoy our marriage life, because guys of today are not ready to settle down only to have child. So we ladies need to be patience and pray hard.
Abeg tell dem ladies | Posted: at 5-01-2011 01:03 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "mashkells") mashkells at 5-01-2011 02:05 PM (14 years ago) (m) wat a post since i registered for naijapal this is the most reasonable post i see so far nyc one dear | Posted: at 5-01-2011 02:05 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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It shouldn't be Marriage VS Wedding bcos na total different tin!
The wedding is show, the marriage is REAL | Posted: at 5-01-2011 02:30 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "brainline") brainline at 5-01-2011 02:46 PM (14 years ago) (m) its very simple, dey only use it as a game....... so u dnt need 2 blame dem | Posted: at 5-01-2011 02:46 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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