Help I don't understand her game with me

Date: 02-01-2011 11:15 am (14 years ago) | Author: Salami Habeeb
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- at 2-01-2011 11:15 AM (14 years ago)
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Hello pips
There is this gal that we have been friend for close to 4yrs.I proposed to her early 2009,but  she told she has a boyfriend,then I decided to drop her from my list but she always complain everytime I don't call her for more than 2wks.and anytime I invited her out she always turn me down by given me one excuse or the other.
plz I am feed up with her excuses.cos I luv her, what do suggest I do?


Posted: at 2-01-2011 11:15 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
- bittersweet at 2-01-2011 11:48 AM (14 years ago)
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Seems to be a confused girl there!
Talk straight to her!

Posted: at 2-01-2011 11:48 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 2-01-2011 12:33 PM (14 years ago)
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U proposed to her, so she knws how u feel abt her!
She had a bf, is she still togeda with him? If not, maybe u can explain ur feelings again....

If after all the talking it didn help, i sugest u move on!
Posted: at 2-01-2011 12:33 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 2-01-2011 05:38 PM (14 years ago)
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keep on trying

Posted: at 2-01-2011 05:38 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- juleshotluv at 2-01-2011 09:22 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: codelord on  2-01-2011 11:15 AM
Hello pips
There is this gal that we have been friend for close to 4yrs.I proposed to her early 2009,but  she told she has a boyfriend,then I decided to drop her from my list but she always complain everytime I don't call her for more than 2wks.and anytime I invited her out she always turn me down by given me one excuse or the other.
plz I am feed up with her excuses.cos I luv her, what do suggest I do?


She said she has a boyfriend so..why are you still bothered?  Undecided
Posted: at 2-01-2011 09:22 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- temi07 at 2-01-2011 09:31 PM (14 years ago)
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What here do you not understand, she wants a friend not a boyfriend, i am guessing she is refusing your offer to take her out because she knows what it would result into. Infact i think she's a precious one because other girls would not mind you taking them out and spending ur money and time on them but at the end of the day they would still say no. She is drawing a line for u and trying not to confuse you. Stop over thinking everything and just call her once in a while to say hello, its kinda selfish dropping someone that values u out of ur life just because they refuse to go out with u.
Posted: at 2-01-2011 09:31 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 2-01-2011 10:24 PM (14 years ago)
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let her nag..moreover she isn't your gal.Don't get bother with her complains..is it a must ..you have to call her....
tell her..if she really do care..like want to hear from you..tell her to do the calling and think about your proposer.yu get life now..

Posted: at 2-01-2011 10:24 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Anagbogu at 3-01-2011 04:11 PM (14 years ago)
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Drop her and look for and girls. their are many fishes in the river they say, so go get one from there and free the one that plays games with u, u are a man of ur own.
Posted: at 3-01-2011 04:11 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- Adikpe at 3-01-2011 04:57 PM (14 years ago)
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Guy, you have to move on.
Posted: at 3-01-2011 04:57 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pointzero at 3-01-2011 04:58 PM (14 years ago)
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Ummmm

Posted: at 3-01-2011 04:58 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyin at 3-01-2011 05:18 PM (14 years ago)
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she likes you but
Posted: at 3-01-2011 05:18 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Pointzero at 3-01-2011 05:19 PM (14 years ago)
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But wat?

Posted: at 3-01-2011 05:19 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- naugty_spoil at 3-01-2011 08:37 PM (14 years ago)
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if a princess refuses u being her prince, that means a better queen is awaiting u to hold her hand as her king. So bro 4get about a worthless princess 4 d best u deserve. She is not meant 4 u may be. However....
Posted: at 3-01-2011 08:37 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- onyin at 3-01-2011 08:42 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Pointzero on  3-01-2011 05:19 PM
But wat?
she dont want to break her boyfriend's heart.so mr poster is plan B.maybe she's not saying yes,cos she doubting if she and mr poster will work.
Posted: at 3-01-2011 08:42 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Pointzero at 3-01-2011 08:43 PM (14 years ago)
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Oh...I C

Posted: at 3-01-2011 08:43 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- truenaija2 at 3-01-2011 08:45 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on  2-01-2011 05:38 PM
keep on trying

good answer
Posted: at 3-01-2011 08:45 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pointzero at 3-01-2011 08:46 PM (14 years ago)
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Lol

Posted: at 3-01-2011 08:46 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ILOVEIT at 3-01-2011 08:49 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: codelord on  2-01-2011 11:15 AM
Hello pips
There is this gal that we have been friend for close to 4yrs.I proposed to her early 2009,but  she told she has a boyfriend,then I decided to drop her from my list but she always complain everytime I don't call her for more than 2wks.and anytime I invited her out she always turn me down by given me one excuse or the other.
plz I am feed up with her excuses.cos I luv her, what do suggest I do?
she like you meaning "only your company",but don't love you meaning "she can't marry you"..so now it left for you to decide whether to accept her as a mutual friend or you leave her totally and look for someone else aight!!

Posted: at 3-01-2011 08:49 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Pointzero at 3-01-2011 09:48 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on  3-01-2011 08:49 PM
Quote from: codelord on  2-01-2011 11:15 AM
Hello pips
There is this gal that we have been friend for close to 4yrs.I proposed to her early 2009,but  she told she has a boyfriend,then I decided to drop her from my list but she always complain everytime I don't call her for more than 2wks.and anytime I invited her out she always turn me down by given me one excuse or the other.
plz I am feed up with her excuses.cos I luv her, what do suggest I do?
she like you meaning "only your company",but don't love you meaning "she can't marry you"..so now it left for you to decide whether to accept her as a mutual friend or you leave her totally and look for someone else aight!!

Mutuallism.....do me I do u man no go vex,I think it's better for him Dan commensalism

Posted: at 3-01-2011 09:48 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ILOVEIT at 3-01-2011 09:56 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Pointzero on  3-01-2011 09:48 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on  3-01-2011 08:49 PM
Quote from: codelord on  2-01-2011 11:15 AM
Hello pips
There is this gal that we have been friend for close to 4yrs.I proposed to her early 2009,but  she told she has a boyfriend,then I decided to drop her from my list but she always complain everytime I don't call her for more than 2wks.and anytime I invited her out she always turn me down by given me one excuse or the other.
plz I am feed up with her excuses.cos I luv her, what do suggest I do?
she like you meaning "only your company",but don't love you meaning "she can't marry you"..so now it left for you to decide whether to accept her as a mutual friend or you leave her totally and look for someone else aight!!

Mutuallism.....do me I do u man no go vex,I think it's better for him Dan commensalism
lol na you talk that one

Posted: at 3-01-2011 09:56 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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