I pledged to remain a virgin until marriage, but .... (Page 7)

you did not offend any man but GOD,so go to him in prayers and tell him that you are sorry"he is always ready to forgive us when we  ask him.forgive your self too as well as the guy that disvirgined you and renew your promise. some of us the men are the reasons why some women regret when they got disvirgined as we dont show them the kind of love that we lured them with that made them to succumb to our pressure or temptations and in most cases women hardly got disvirgined by their dream men but those that took advantage of them hence they regret after they were disvirgined because if a woman was in love before she was disvirgined and was still in love after they were disvirgined they would not complain or regret  .  lets try our best to keep away from premarital sex. take heart my sister you are just a human who is bound to make mistakes or fall into temptations.for the fact that you are no more a virgin does not make you a not qualified or less marriage material. if you keep your self away from sex till you get married your husband to be might still think that you are a virgin but never you deceive any man into thinking that you are virgin but he is going to respect u as though you are still a virgin if he finds penetrations a little bit difficult as your body is still going to tighten up again because a woman does not get completely disvirgined in a single sex of a round.i mean that even though you are no more a virgin your body will still be tight if it is just that once that u did it. u might still bleed the second time if you don't continue till you get married but pls dont tell ur husband that u are virgin when u are not. if you need more question or advice feel free to ask me but through my private box. i wish you luck