I got Boyfriend Problem, help!

I met this former schoolmate of mine on facebook and we started chatting and now we are dating. He lives flamboyant, parties and he is more understanding and fun person than most of the guys i've dated before.so we hit it off quickly. i visited my boyfriend in his city only to find out that the boy actually has all th nice clothes, nice car, a house and all that but he is heavily in debt.Now that was scary for me. i like him because he understands me a lot better than most guys i date, and i never have to pretend with him.but abeg, i am an ordinary college student i don't want to start my life on someone's huge debt.the boy can't pay his own bills.i try to tell him to cut down on his unnecessary spending like on parties,drinks and sponsoring friends and family members when he knows that kobo no dey for am pocket.unfortunately,this boy tells me that oh i will work and make money then spend it. ahh,what a fool! i am not getting any younger.i am 26yrs old and my mother won't let me sleep without bothering me about marriage but my boyfriend can't afford to take care of himself well talking about starting a family.if there's any bigger liar in this world than him, i will vote him for a priest. he will lie about anything.I care about him but I can't take up his responsibilities with my own. This boy has never bought a pin for me not even on my birthday so on his birthday i bought a shirt i was going to post to him but instead i gave it away to someone.because i think this boy is taking me for granted.he is not a lazy person,he works every single day but he can't keep the money he makes.What do i do? I want to be engaged by the end of this year if i am still with or move on because i don't want to waste my time. please advice me...i am open to any opinion.Thanks to everyone of you here!

Posted: at 7-01-2011 06:37 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie

Well,if i were you i will move on.its good you know wat you want in life.leave the dude,he will learn the hard way.life is a lesson.

Posted: at 7-01-2011 06:45 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

honestly,i dnt think u guys r compatible.,going into marriage is beyond fun, parties etc..it calls 4 commitment,dedicatn and maturity. Have a rethink

Posted: at 7-01-2011 07:57 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

That guy bites more than he can chew!
Think well if you want to be in that mess!
Moreover, read your post carefully: "lie about anything","this boy is taking me for granted"...
He lacks responsibility, maturity, lives the moment probably, but we should think at tomorrow too!
Chances for him to change are almost zero, so don't count on that!
May God show you the right way!

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Posted: at 7-01-2011 08:24 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

move wif ya life girl

Posted: at 7-01-2011 10:07 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

THE DOOR IS OPEN,LEAVE OR BECOME THE DEBTORS WIFE.

Posted: at 7-01-2011 12:43 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Compartibility is essential in marriage ........................and in your case both of you are very far from beeing compartible

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Posted: at 7-01-2011 01:03 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

who no like better tin ...i beg

Posted: at 7-01-2011 01:17 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

well as hard as this is to say i belive u knw wht is right for u i know u are waiting for someone to encourage u that this dude will change so u can move with him but the truth be told this guy aint going to change a bit so the ball is in ur court, if u think his swagger is worth the fall then go for him but if u are seriously looking at making life out of marriage then move on with ya life girl

Posted: at 7-01-2011 01:38 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

Let him go he's nt do 4 u

Posted: at 7-01-2011 01:47 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming