Would you like your family to decide whoever you would love?

Date: 09-01-2011 8:17 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Darlington
- at 9-01-2011 08:17 PM (13 years ago)
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A friend told me that his family (mother) will find him a wife  when he's ready to get married. Although I disagreed but I respect his choice of how he want to live his life. On the other hand, this issue seem a global debate confronting people. When I was in Africa I thought it never exist anywhere else, but here in Europe is another different thing.My friend's girlfriend is disowned and banish by her family because she did not yield to their decision. Please can someone share his/her view about this.

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- juleshotluv at 9-01-2011 08:18 PM (13 years ago)
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NO!
Posted: at 9-01-2011 08:18 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- cayico at 9-01-2011 08:19 PM (13 years ago)
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never
Posted: at 9-01-2011 08:19 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- darlingtonise at 9-01-2011 08:36 PM (13 years ago)
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with due respect to your families what would you do if you were in this shoe? Run away? stand by your decision and ignored? live without thinking about them?? and how would you confront it??? please share in details so that others will learn.
Posted: at 9-01-2011 08:36 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- bittersweet at 9-01-2011 08:52 PM (13 years ago)
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That will never happen!

Posted: at 9-01-2011 08:52 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 9-01-2011 10:16 PM (13 years ago)
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i will say...i will stand with my decision..moreover,they are not the one that is going to live my life for me...

Posted: at 9-01-2011 10:16 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ILOVEIT at 9-01-2011 10:17 PM (13 years ago)
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no time for long thing

Posted: at 9-01-2011 10:17 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 9-01-2011 10:19 PM (13 years ago)
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- darlingtonise at 9-01-2011 10:33 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  9-01-2011 10:16 PM
i will say...i will stand with my decision..moreover,they are not the one that is going to live my life for me...

great
Posted: at 9-01-2011 10:33 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- darlingtonise at 9-01-2011 10:36 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  9-01-2011 10:16 PM
i will say...i will stand with my decision..moreover,they are not the one that is going to live my life for me...

I like that
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- Kennee at 9-01-2011 10:41 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: darlingtonise on  9-01-2011 08:17 PM
A friend told me that his family (mother) will find him a wife  when he's ready to get married. Although I disagreed but I respect his choice of how he want to live his life. On the other hand, this issue seem a global debate confronting people. When I was in Africa I thought it never exist anywhere else, but here in Europe is another different thing.My friend's girlfriend is disowned and banish by her family because she did not yield to their decision. Please can someone share his/her view about this.

In my Opinion, it's not Right

Posted: at 9-01-2011 10:41 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 9-01-2011 11:05 PM (13 years ago)
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it is not right what

Posted: at 9-01-2011 11:05 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- darlingtonise at 9-01-2011 11:16 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  9-01-2011 11:05 PM
it is not right what
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Abeg Hope help me ask am. God bless
Posted: at 9-01-2011 11:16 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- diplomatik at 10-01-2011 12:08 AM (13 years ago)
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Impossible!

Posted: at 10-01-2011 12:08 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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