Peter Okoye, popularly known as "Mr. P" of the Nigerian music duo P-Square, recently made headlines with a controversial statement about marriage. In a now-deleted post on his Instagram story, he shared a meme that read, "If you can't trust your wife, marry your mother." The post received mixed reactions, with some fans expressing support for Okoye's statement, while others found it offensive and problematic. Let's take a closer look at the meaning behind Okoye's statement and the implications it carries.
Okoye's statement seems to suggest that if a man cannot trust his wife, he should marry his mother instead. On the surface, it may appear to be a lighthearted joke, but when examined closely, it reveals a problematic belief about gender roles and relationships. The statement implies that a man's mother is the only woman he can trust, and that his wife cannot be trusted. This perpetuates harmful stereotypes about women and undermines the autonomy and agency of wives in marriages.
See his post below:
Posted: at 15-04-2023 09:45 AM (1 year ago) | Addicted Hero
There is no standard procedure on women issues. Just know who you're with, and then take your decisions. Some wives are better than some mothers. The beauty of this Hakimi story is that he was able to find out his wife's true intentions and acted fast enough. But that is NOT the standard procedure for all.
What is the color beneath your skin?
Posted: at 15-04-2023 09:58 AM (1 year ago) | Addicted Hero
There is no standard procedure on women issues. Just know who you're with, and then take your decisions. Some wives are better than some mothers. The beauty of this Hakimi story is that he was able to find out his wife's true intentions and acted fast enough. But that is NOT the standard procedure for all.
Read Well on their story, the wife is one of the richest Spanish actresses and super wealthy, the reason she filled for a divorce was that Hakimi brought in a woman into their matrimonial home, the woman later accused Hakimi of rape which he's denying as the case is still ongoing. The wife knew his assets are in his mum's name, she only wants a divorce to move on from Hakimi's abuse and disrespect. The interesting truth here is that he must give the woman 25% of his earnings according to law cos they've got 2 kids together. This media hype painting the woman as a gold digger are just some perpetrators from Hakimi's side trying to tarnish his wife's image out of sheer frustration and bitterness. I was really sad for the wife when I read the full story....
Posted: at 15-04-2023 10:22 AM (1 year ago) | Gistmaniac
Hahaha lol Captain Sensible has been cut down to size. I told your brain is in your ass. You're only good at criticism of anyone who's not in support of Obi's ambition. Dumb Ass.
Posted: at 15-04-2023 10:26 AM (1 year ago) | Upcoming
Read Well on their story, the wife is one of the richest Spanish actresses and super wealthy, the reason she filled for a divorce was that Hakimi brought in a woman into their matrimonial home, the woman later accused Hakimi of rape which he's denying as the case is still ongoing. The wife knew his assets are in his mum's name, she only wants a divorce to move on from Hakimi's abuse and disrespect. The interesting truth here is that he must give the woman 25% of his earnings according to law cos they've got 2 kids together. This media hype painting the woman as a gold digger are just some perpetrators from Hakimi's side trying to tarnish his wife's image out of sheer frustration and bitterness. I was really sad for the wife when I read the full story....
There is no standard procedure in marriages and relationship issues sis. I didn't dig deeper than what was reported on various outlets about the wife demanding for half of his worth, and the court informing her that everything is in her mothers name. That was also the basis on which the numerous social media arguments stand. She may be rich but wants to get richer. Some of these ''WOKE'' new generation wives will rather go for divorce and the ''BAG'' rather than work on their marriage. Hakimi is 24, she is 36, meaning that she should be wiser, more mature and more tolerant. She should know that ''IF'' Hakimi cheated, that it may be out of immaturity. She should have channeled a bit of energy on making it work, rather than trying to swap a ''3 year'' Marriage for the bag. Hakimi knew what she would do and knew what to do, but that is not a standard procedure for all relationships.
What is the color beneath your skin?
Posted: at 15-04-2023 10:56 AM (1 year ago) | Addicted Hero
Hahaha lol Captain Sensible has been cut down to size. I told your brain is in your ass. You're only good at criticism of anyone who's not in support of Obi's ambition. Dumb Ass.
All these low IQ ''UP NEPA !'' kind of people self. Please, when intellectuals are having an exchange, you should stand aside with the likes of MC Oluomo to throw dice and gamble.
What is the color beneath your skin?
Posted: at 15-04-2023 10:57 AM (1 year ago) | Addicted Hero
Read Well on their story, the wife is one of the richest Spanish actresses and super wealthy, the reason she filled for a divorce was that Hakimi brought in a woman into their matrimonial home, the woman later accused Hakimi of rape which he's denying as the case is still ongoing. The wife knew his assets are in his mum's name, she only wants a divorce to move on from Hakimi's abuse and disrespect. The interesting truth here is that he must give the woman 25% of his earnings according to law cos they've got 2 kids together. This media hype painting the woman as a gold digger are just some perpetrators from Hakimi's side trying to tarnish his wife's image out of sheer frustration and bitterness. I was really sad for the wife when I read the full story....
..Comments made by fineboy is on tracks. The issue is about Psquar,s comments to marry one,s mother if you cannot trust your wife. But you went too far talking about Hakini and his divorce matters which is entirely not the subject matter at hand.
Posted: at 15-04-2023 10:58 AM (1 year ago) | Gistmaniac
All these low IQ ''UP NEPA !'' kind of people self. Please, when intellectuals are having an exchange, you should stand aside with the likes of MC Oluomo to throw dice and gamble.
u go kill person o
Posted: at 15-04-2023 11:20 AM (1 year ago) | Gistmaniac
I wished I was as clever as this clever footballer. I lost all after divorce. Men should start to learn that your wife is not a member of your family. I have experoenced such. during my dvorce process to my wife, her family were against me doing all sorts to bring me down but they couldnt, howvever my ex got the houses. this happened in 2013 in London. If I was that clever then, I would had bought aleast one of the houses with mu mother's name.
Men be careful, no matter how good your wife is noe just wait for issue of divorce that is when you will see the greed, wickness from her and her family. I will advise men to do what Hakimi did. Women are not to be trusted they go into marriage with different intentions most greed and wickness.
God will help
Posted: at 15-04-2023 02:14 PM (1 year ago) | Upcoming
I wished I was as clever as this clever footballer. I lost all after the divorce. Men should start to learn that their wife is not a member of their family. I have experienced such. during my divorce process with my wife, her family was against me and doing all sorts to bring me down but they couldn't, however, my ex got the houses. this happened in 2013 in London. If I was that clever then, I would have bought at least one of the houses with my mother's name.
Men be careful, no matter how good your wife is not just wait for the issue of divorce that is when you will see the greed, and wickedness of her and her family. I will advise men to do what Hakimi did. Women are not to be trusted they go into marriage with different intentions greed and wickedness
God will help
Posted: at 15-04-2023 02:17 PM (1 year ago) | Upcoming
There is no standard procedure in marriages and relationship issues sis. I didn't dig deeper than what was reported on various outlets about the wife demanding for half of his worth, and the court informing her that everything is in her mothers name. That was also the basis on which the numerous social media arguments stand. She may be rich but wants to get richer. Some of these ''WOKE'' new generation wives will rather go for divorce and the ''BAG'' rather than work on their marriage. Hakimi is 24, she is 36, meaning that she should be wiser, more mature and more tolerant. She should know that ''IF'' Hakimi cheated, that it may be out of immaturity. She should have channeled a bit of energy on making it work, rather than trying to swap a ''3 year'' Marriage for the bag. Hakimi knew what she would do and knew what to do, but that is not a standard procedure for all relationships.
Very true! I honestly thought about her putting more effort into making things work rather than leaving him and demanding for half of his wealth which honestly he doesn't own her that.
Posted: at 15-04-2023 03:29 PM (1 year ago) | Gistmaniac
Lol Up MC Oluomo and Up Tinubu lol * MC Oluomo stopped Obidiots taking over Lagos. Watch what would happened after the inauguration. * Tinubu defeated Mr One Black shirt "Yes Daddy" Presidential candidate. If you're not happy. Let me see you jump in the Lagoon. All you do is, stay here and blow big grammar. Mr Failed Professor. What does your intellectual prowess help? It didn't even guarantee your candidate the position of the president of Nigeria. Born fool.
Posted: at 19-04-2023 10:06 AM (1 year ago) | Upcoming
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