I have a friend, engaged and expected to tie the knot before the yr runs out but was surprised to hear when he said he is quitting the engagement. His reason: His wife to be is having an affair. He was told by the gals mother because the family wanted to know what went wrong. Recently, the gal told him she was going to see someone they both know, after 2hrs he called to check if she met the person only to be shocked when the gal said she is now in another state. Curiously, he called the guy his gal suppose to go and see but the guy said he has not seen the gal in 4months! When he confronted his gal, she started insulting him. They have been dating for over a yr but never had sex on the suggestion of my dear friend, and the gal is never a virgin!
What do you guys think, is the gal cheating because they dont have sex or she doesnt want this dude at all? Can my friend just quit his engagement based on speculation? Was my friend wrong by suggesting no sex before marriage? Your advice is essentially needed pls...
Posted: at 12-01-2011 04:05 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
The boy no serious at all The worst mistake a man will do is suggesting NO SEX B4 MARRIAGE if the babe is not a virgin, ur friend no sabi say person dey help am?
make em go look bush
no matter how incorrect ur time is, it will be correct twice a day.
Posted: at 12-01-2011 04:11 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
sophiebaby at 12-01-2011 04:15 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Firstly! why did she lie about her trip?
i think, since he opted for no sex till marriage, maybe she doesnt like it that way and prefares having it outside...lol on the other hand... both of them should calm their nerves down and talk to eachother concerning the matter... anger and unnecesary suspects... wont help matters.
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 12-01-2011 04:15 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
MissyBarbie at 12-01-2011 04:17 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: samboko on 12-01-2011 04:05 PM
I have a friend, engaged and expected to tie the knot before the yr runs out but was surprised to hear when he said he is quitting the engagement. His reason: His wife to be is having an affair. He was told by the gals mother because the family wanted to know what went wrong. Recently, the gal told him she was going to see someone they both know, after 2hrs he called to check if she met the person only to be shocked when the gal said she is now in another state. Curiously, he called the guy his gal suppose to go and see but the guy said he has not seen the gal in 4months! When he confronted his gal, she started insulting him. They have been dating for over a yr but never had sex on the suggestion of my dear friend, and the gal is never a virgin!
What do you guys think, is the gal cheating because they dont have sex or she doesnt want this dude at all? Can my friend just quit his engagement based on speculation? Was my friend wrong by suggesting no sex before marriage? Your advice is essentially needed pls...
You sure sey ya friend fit Drive??? because i dont think a guy would not want to have sex with his woman until after marriage if he's not hiding anything....Abeg carry ya friend come make i test am
Posted: at 12-01-2011 04:17 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
sophiebaby at 12-01-2011 04:19 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: waco on 12-01-2011 04:11 PM
The boy no serious at all The worst mistake a man will do is suggesting NO SEX B4 MARRIAGE if the babe is not a virgin, ur friend no sabi say person dey help am?
make em go look bush
la lolo
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 12-01-2011 04:19 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
mydicksweet at 12-01-2011 04:21 PM (14 years ago) (m)
I think maybe the gurl don dey kolo or better still she don dey loko tell ur friend to go get himself a brown new fish this is new year for Christ sake no dulling at all o my guy shuoooo
Posted: at 12-01-2011 04:21 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
I have a friend, engaged and expected to tie the knot before the yr runs out but was surprised to hear when he said he is quitting the engagement. His reason: His wife to be is having an affair. He was told by the gals mother because the family wanted to know what went wrong. Recently, the gal told him she was going to see someone they both know, after 2hrs he called to check if she met the person only to be shocked when the gal said she is now in another state. Curiously, he called the guy his gal suppose to go and see but the guy said he has not seen the gal in 4months! When he confronted his gal, she started insulting him. They have been dating for over a yr but never had sex on the suggestion of my dear friend, and the gal is never a virgin!
What do you guys think, is the gal cheating because they dont have sex or she doesnt want this dude at all? Can my friend just quit his engagement based on speculation? Was my friend wrong by suggesting no sex before marriage? Your advice is essentially needed pls...
You sure sey ya friend fit Drive??? because i dont think a guy would not want to have sex with his woman until after marriage if he's not hiding anything....Abeg carry ya friend come make i test am
abeg come test me
no matter how incorrect ur time is, it will be correct twice a day.
Posted: at 12-01-2011 04:23 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
but if she's not guilty why the insults?.seems she lacks respect,and that's trouble if they both get married.and why the lies ?.God has a reason for everything.let him count himself very lucky.
Posted: at 12-01-2011 04:29 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
MissyBarbie at 12-01-2011 04:30 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: waco on 12-01-2011 04:23 PM
Quote from: MissyBarbie on 12-01-2011 04:17 PM
Quote from: samboko on 12-01-2011 04:05 PM
I have a friend, engaged and expected to tie the knot before the yr runs out but was surprised to hear when he said he is quitting the engagement. His reason: His wife to be is having an affair. He was told by the gals mother because the family wanted to know what went wrong. Recently, the gal told him she was going to see someone they both know, after 2hrs he called to check if she met the person only to be shocked when the gal said she is now in another state. Curiously, he called the guy his gal suppose to go and see but the guy said he has not seen the gal in 4months! When he confronted his gal, she started insulting him. They have been dating for over a yr but never had sex on the suggestion of my dear friend, and the gal is never a virgin!
What do you guys think, is the gal cheating because they dont have sex or she doesnt want this dude at all? Can my friend just quit his engagement based on speculation? Was my friend wrong by suggesting no sex before marriage? Your advice is essentially needed pls...
You sure sey ya friend fit Drive??? because i dont think a guy would not want to have sex with his woman until after marriage if he's not hiding anything....Abeg carry ya friend come make i test am
abeg come test me
You don born na.... i no need to test you again...you're more than OK
Posted: at 12-01-2011 04:30 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
The boy no serious at all The worst mistake a man will do is suggesting NO SEX B4 MARRIAGE if the babe is not a virgin, ur friend no sabi say person dey help am?
make em go look bush
That was my word too. I was surprised to hear him say he is doing no sex till marriage! He was having sex back in sch i dont know all of a sudden he turns Mr. Holy.....
Posted: at 12-01-2011 04:32 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
i think, since he opted for no sex till marriage, maybe she doesnt like it that way and prefares having it outside...lol on the other hand... both of them should calm their nerves down and talk to eachother concerning the matter... anger and unnecesary suspects... wont help matters.
I know ppl say it is bad to monitor your partner but in this case, i suggest to him to do SSS on her by secretly watching from afar and visit her without her awareness....
Posted: at 12-01-2011 04:35 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming