At what age should a man or a woman get married? (Page 3)

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Posted: at 20-01-2011 11:12 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

Any girl above 20 can get married if she  know you  can handle it becos marriage is not a thing of Mum or Dad's boy and a guy of 28 to 35 only if you can take care of your responsibility period.

Posted: at 20-01-2011 11:54 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

I got married @ age 28 and my wife was 22.We are really doing well. And our marriage is 4yrs now, blessed with a kid already who will also be 4 by November. It is like Paradise on earth. People thought we would not be able to cope cos of our ages when we got married. But I can confidently say that we have managed every crises that tried to raise its ugly head without the support of any third party.So, Just like the Bible says that LOVE covers all things, tolerates all things, endures all things etc.(Read more in 1Cor. Chapter 13). You may not really understand what that chapter of the bible is saying until you are married.But my candid advice is, a man that has no regular source of income yet should not venture into marriage. A responsible husband and father should be ready to secure and provide for the members of his family. The woman will definitely be ready to support if she notices that you are not trying to hide anything from her in whatever sense.As it takes two to tango...the maturity that is expected of any intending couple should be from both sides.

Posted: at 20-01-2011 12:16 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

the usual saying is that age is nothing but of a numbers. for ladies anytime from 22 is ok and for the guyz if u don hold enof money to invite extra person.

Posted: at 20-01-2011 12:35 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

For a woman, i suggest 22 - 25, man btw 28 and 32 or at most 35 years of age.

Posted: at 20-01-2011 01:01 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

As for me sha,I don't believe marriage has anything to do with MONEY or AGE,but maturity,understanding,compatibility and above all LOVE.If both of you are able to have all these 4 qualities I mentioned above,then,you have it all b'cos you are to work together to make ur living.It's not compulsory that man should always provides the needs for the family but you are to do it together because men are not born to kill themselves for women to live because of love.

gbam

Exactly

Posted: at 20-01-2011 01:18 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

we had dis topic already a few weeks ago

Posted: at 20-01-2011 02:30 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

lol alrite... i hope we all knw now

Posted: at 20-01-2011 03:00 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Well, age matters in marriage but what matters a lot is love, understanding and tolerance. then money can come any time God says

Posted: at 20-01-2011 03:14 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

who said 40yrs......... well that is her opinion,it is very good to marry early in this life,you will enjoy it at your old age,if God bless you with good childern...at laste 22 to 28 for female and male 28 to 35

Posted: at 20-01-2011 04:13 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie