![-]( "onyin") onyin at 20-01-2011 09:12 AM (13 years ago)  (f) Its depends,if wat its a serious relationship i will say yes.but if its not sumthing serious,then i will say no.
then is it that one must always expect marriage when a rltnship has lasted for a while? yes,mostly if that's wat the other person wants.and if no signs of marriage after all those years,then i guess its high time to try the person next door.my point is if anyone thinks they deserve more, than they should go grab it and not settle for less. and when you try the person next door, do you hold any grudges against your ex? because that is a part of this discussion... | Posted: at 20-01-2011 09:12 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyin") onyin at 20-01-2011 09:15 AM (13 years ago) (f) Marriage has taken over love in this era we are today, if you want to toast a lady don't even bring the issue of love cuz you'll be damned, but by the time you start by saying "I WILL LIKE TO HAVE YOU AS A WIFE" then you'll have love.
becos most ladies are wiser now.he dates you for years and after that he leaves you for sumone else.maybe even sumone younger.wat will happen to the lady?.she will start going to church,fasting and praying everyday all becos of a husband. | Posted: at 20-01-2011 09:15 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "peaceben") peaceben at 20-01-2011 09:19 AM (13 years ago) (f) Am nt sure about dat. | Posted: at 20-01-2011 09:19 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "bhl72") bhl72 at 20-01-2011 09:24 AM (13 years ago) (m) Marriage has taken over love in this era we are today, if you want to toast a lady don't even bring the issue of love cuz you'll be damned, but by the time you start by saying "I WILL LIKE TO HAVE YOU AS A WIFE" then you'll have love.
hahahahaha... you are so funny | Posted: at 20-01-2011 09:24 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 20-01-2011 09:30 AM (13 years ago) (f) na tru naaaaaaaaa
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 20-01-2011 09:30 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "bhl72") bhl72 at 20-01-2011 09:37 AM (13 years ago) (m) Marriage has taken over love in this era we are today, if you want to toast a lady don't even bring the issue of love cuz you'll be damned, but by the time you start by saying "I WILL LIKE TO HAVE YOU AS A WIFE" then you'll have love.
becos most ladies are wiser now.he dates you for years and after that he leaves you for sumone else.maybe even sumone younger.wat will happen to the lady?.she will start going to church,fasting and praying everyday all becos of a husband. that is a point. my take is that a lady should be proactive so that she does not have to date so many and run her age... | Posted: at 20-01-2011 09:37 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Pepesy") Pepesy at 20-01-2011 09:38 AM (13 years ago) (f) Smhow yes especially on d side of a woman
you think women are that drawn out? Am just thinking out loud and wish I can get some answers... Everyday you hear about people planning to even scores with someone who ended up not marrying them. Some are genuine cases, others are more of unreasonable expectations. Tell me pals, is marriage the ultimate goal of a relationship?
Not always!
Depends on many factors and of ppl involved in it!
Rare are cases when those 2 find each other from the first attempt! I agree that when you both enjoy your relationship, marriage should naturally come for cementing of that union Every long lasting nd serious relationship is expected to yield fruitful result which is marriage considering a woman’s age which our men consider more important to them... | Posted: at 20-01-2011 09:38 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "onyin") onyin at 20-01-2011 09:41 AM (13 years ago) (f) Marriage has taken over love in this era we are today, if you want to toast a lady don't even bring the issue of love cuz you'll be damned, but by the time you start by saying "I WILL LIKE TO HAVE YOU AS A WIFE" then you'll have love.
becos most ladies are wiser now.he dates you for years and after that he leaves you for sumone else.maybe even sumone younger.wat will happen to the lady?.she will start going to church,fasting and praying everyday all becos of a husband. that is a point. my take is that a lady should be proactive so that she does not have to date so many and run her age... true talk.hmmm but sum women aint bothered about the age when they are young,its when wrinkles starts appearing,then they will start feeling sorry for themselves. | Posted: at 20-01-2011 09:41 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "bhl72") bhl72 at 20-01-2011 09:43 AM (13 years ago) (m) so you see that the women too are contributing to this issue... and when the guy turns around, she becomes angry | Posted: at 20-01-2011 09:43 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Pepesy") Pepesy at 20-01-2011 09:49 AM (13 years ago) (f) consider when a relationship shows both are incompatible, for example, emotionally and maybe, medically...
Then such relationship shuld be stopd b4 it detriments the other... | Posted: at 20-01-2011 09:49 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "onyin") onyin at 20-01-2011 09:50 AM (13 years ago) (f) so you see that the women too are contributing to this issue... and when the guy turns around, she becomes angry
yea,you are right. | Posted: at 20-01-2011 09:50 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "bhl72") bhl72 at 20-01-2011 09:50 AM (13 years ago) (m) and another scenario is: a guy falls for a babe that is in a class higher than he is and after she has had her fill of him decides to throw him out... and the guy becomes angered... | Posted: at 20-01-2011 09:50 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "onyin") onyin at 20-01-2011 09:55 AM (13 years ago) (f) and another scenario is: a guy falls for a babe that is in a class higher than he is and after she has had her fill of him decides to throw him out... and the guy becomes angered...
 that babe strong ooo | Posted: at 20-01-2011 09:55 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Am just thinking out loud and wish I can get some answers... Everyday you hear about people planning to even scores with someone who ended up not marrying them. Some are genuine cases, others are more of unreasonable expectations. Tell me pals, is marriage the ultimate goal of a relationship?
May be Yes...May be Not...Buh i think its yes on women's side hmmm | Posted: at 20-01-2011 10:01 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "bhl72") bhl72 at 20-01-2011 10:57 AM (13 years ago) (m) hmmm am learning why... | Posted: at 20-01-2011 10:57 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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and another scenario is: a guy falls for a babe that is in a class higher than he is and after she has had her fill of him decides to throw him out... and the guy becomes angered...
Hmm he can't do much, we'll no good 4 himself anyway if he turns to anger he will only shame himself, @ the end of the day he is the 'nobody' u know dat's how society will even see it!
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!  | Posted: at 21-01-2011 02:58 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "bhl72") bhl72 at 21-01-2011 08:22 AM (13 years ago) (m) Hmmm... when it is the guy that is dumped, no eye brows are raised! Will be correct then to say that it is the one at the lower cadre that feels 'used and dumped' or becomes resentful when the relationship doesn't end in marriage? Am thinking that in a seemingly balanced situation, when both are of same class, the story may just be different. This is a research topic, I need you contributions please... | Posted: at 21-01-2011 08:22 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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