Proposals

Date: 12-11-2008 2:27 pm (16 years ago) | Author: King Samuel O Dguy
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- at 12-11-2008 02:27 PM (16 years ago)
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Is it a MUST to propose to a guy/lady before you seal your relationship? as in must you ask "will you marry me?" when you guys have been together for a long time


Posted: at 12-11-2008 02:27 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- mazi at 12-11-2008 02:32 PM (16 years ago)
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look at it dis way
for d fact dat she spent d whole day wit u
doesn't mean she has agreed to spend d nite
so if u want her to do dat
u got ask

















Posted: at 12-11-2008 02:32 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- Dguy at 12-11-2008 02:33 PM (16 years ago)
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cant it just flow in?

Posted: at 12-11-2008 02:33 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 12-11-2008 02:36 PM (16 years ago)
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there's pride nd dignity to protect
Posted: at 12-11-2008 02:36 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- peacetee at 12-11-2008 02:36 PM (16 years ago)
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Regardless of the length of the time you have being together, there would have come a point in time where you have both discussed marriage..

Maybe u dont necessarily do the routine of 'getting down on one knee and asking d question'..but I believe before embarking on such a journey called marriage it would have been discussed within d r/ship.

So to answer you..NO it isn't a must..

But a girl will still like to be asked Wink

Posted: at 12-11-2008 02:36 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 12-11-2008 02:45 PM (16 years ago)
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discussing marriage is not same thing as askin nd acceptin.
ppl leave together for yrs
yet one of them is not ready get married.
Posted: at 12-11-2008 02:45 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- Dguy at 12-11-2008 02:45 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on 12-11-2008 02:45 PM
discussing marriage is not same thing as askin nd acceptin.
ppl leave together for yrs
yet one of them is not ready get married.

that is rubbish

Posted: at 12-11-2008 02:45 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- peacetee at 12-11-2008 02:57 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on 12-11-2008 02:45 PM
discussing marriage is not same thing as askin nd acceptin.
ppl leave together for yrs
yet one of them is not ready get married.

True discussing is not d same as askin and acceptin..i agree with that..
But the fact that it has being discussed means one or both concerned is thinking of it.  When you have been in a r/ship with someone 4 a long time u get to know each other pretty well. It might not be a case of 'will u marry me' in todays age , it could be 'lets do this'...


Posted: at 12-11-2008 02:57 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 12-11-2008 02:59 PM (16 years ago)
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fortunarely or unfortunately it is happening
nd u know it..Dguy
especially in d society u reside
wot do u hv these days is more of 'partners'
leaving nd hving children together but not married.
Posted: at 12-11-2008 02:59 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- mazi at 12-11-2008 03:02 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: peacetee on 12-11-2008 02:57 PM
Quote from: mazi on 12-11-2008 02:45 PM
discussing marriage is not same thing as askin nd acceptin.
ppl leave together for yrs
yet one of them is not ready get married.

True discussing is not d same as askin and acceptin..i agree with that..
But the fact that it has being discussed means one or both concerned is thinking of it.  When you have been in a r/ship with someone 4 a long time u get to know each other pretty well. It might not be a case of 'will u marry me' in todays age , it could be 'lets do this'...


leavin together for donkey yrs doesn't change d fact or due process
u might be assuming all is well
but he might be thinkin otherwise.
Posted: at 12-11-2008 03:02 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- simplename at 10-12-2008 10:02 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on 12-11-2008 02:27 PM
Is it a MUST to propose to a guy/lady before you seal your relationship? as in must you ask "will you marry me?" when you guys have been together for a long time

yeah it's a must! except we ar still in 1966.
Posted: at 10-12-2008 10:02 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- goingwithyou at 10-12-2008 10:09 AM (16 years ago)
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Just passing by...............
Posted: at 10-12-2008 10:09 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- prencess at 10-12-2008 10:13 AM (16 years ago)
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why wont he ask me first
if i will marry him
asking and accepting is a due
process in marrage arragement
dguy dont pretent cuz u know
its a right thing to do
Posted: at 10-12-2008 10:13 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 10-12-2008 12:53 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on 12-11-2008 02:45 PM
Quote from: mazi on 12-11-2008 02:45 PM
discussing marriage is not same thing as askin nd acceptin.
ppl leave together for yrs
yet one of them is not ready get married.

that is rubbish
u better go on ya knees..
or rather go on ya head nd raise ya legs up.
just do d right thing nd pop d question....stop looking 4 excuses not to.
Posted: at 10-12-2008 12:53 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- SAmyrocko at 10-12-2008 02:16 PM (16 years ago)
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Dguy, you dey beg for one??

Posted: at 10-12-2008 02:16 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- princemech at 10-12-2008 02:50 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: SAmyrocko on 10-12-2008 02:16 PM
Dguy, you dey beg for one??
abiooooooooo or maybe he wan get married
Posted: at 10-12-2008 02:50 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- herdeysohjy at 10-12-2008 05:23 PM (16 years ago)
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brb
Posted: at 10-12-2008 05:23 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- lovemar at 10-12-2008 05:32 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on 12-11-2008 02:27 PM
Is it a MUST to propose to a guy/lady before you seal your relationship? as in must you ask "will you marry me?" when you guys have been together for a long time

Hw then do u tell her u want to marry her if u dont say it.
Posted: at 10-12-2008 05:32 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- eagleseyez at 10-12-2008 05:36 PM (16 years ago)
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askin askin askin
gurls always wanno hear
the word...."will u marry me"
Posted: at 10-12-2008 05:36 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- MsGorgeous at 10-12-2008 05:51 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on 12-11-2008 02:27 PM
Is it a MUST to propose to a guy/lady before you seal your relationship? as in must you ask "will you marry me?" when you guys have been together for a long time



Oh trusT!  it is a must to propose O!! lol  Cheesy Cheesy I dnt know abt other girl but me its MUST!!  Cheesy
Posted: at 10-12-2008 05:51 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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