chisorum at 27-01-2011 09:42 AM (13 years ago) (m) My advice to the Girl in question is that she should seek the face of God in all that she does , that his fiance is just but a man , i think all she has to do is to look for a job with her ond certificate and as God may have it she might have some body that will assist her through her education without any condition attached to it. unless she is desperately in need of marriage then she can abide to the rule of her Fiance. Posted: at 27-01-2011 09:42 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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U cannot pursue two things at the same time. She knew she was a student before she agreed to the relationship. Now she must chose between education and marriage. For me, i would say, if she really, really love this person and know he is the right, she must not loose him. Marry him and then study like he said on part time basis. Convince him after your OHD to continue learning on part time. Do not stop learning because 2 morrow he will despise U (he will look down on you when he finds a lady that is more educated than u). U can marry today and be despised tomorrow. Posted: at 27-01-2011 09:48 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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babababa60 at 27-01-2011 11:20 AM (13 years ago) (m) IF SHE HAS A DREAM THEN BABYGIRL TRY TO LEAVE UR DREAM, THIS GUD FOR NOTHING MAN WILL NEVER MAKE YOU HAPPY FOR EVER CAUSE BOTH OF YOU ARE MEANT TO HAVE A SAY IN A RELATIONSHIP NOT JUST THE MAN CAUSE OF MONEY OK, SO THINK ABOUT IT AGAIN BEFOR SAYING YES OOOO, CAUSE THIS ONE LOOK MORE LIKE MASTER THAN HUSBAND TO ME......... MAY BE AM WRONG OOO, BUT DEAR THIS ONE NO BE HUSBAND FOR REAL JUST LOOKING FOR BABY MAMA AND A CLEANER AND IF THAT WHAT YOU WANT THEN GO 4 UR GOAL CHEERS OOO FROM BABABABA Posted: at 27-01-2011 11:20 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Hmmmmmmmmmmm. Posted: at 27-01-2011 11:46 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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goody4info at 27-01-2011 03:54 PM (13 years ago) (f) All the same, if the guy marry her she will still ve to complete her education! Well dat is 4 me. i dont know her choice bc One mans meat is anoda mans poison. Posted: at 27-01-2011 03:54 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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rational at 28-01-2011 03:17 AM (13 years ago) (m) from my understanding the guy will still pay her school bils once they get married,the guy was vivid and clear he knows the value of education but his fear is loosing the girl,such has happend before so he dont want to be a victim of such. my advice is let the gurl marry the guy in future or before three years things may work out well for,probaly he may have change if of thought and mind. Posted: at 28-01-2011 03:17 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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ekpelove at 28-01-2011 05:10 AM (13 years ago) (f) I dont bleam the guy for having that thought. Cause some of these ladies nowaday after you sponsor them through out school, they will turn their back on you. But if their relationship is based on love and not just money , i think the guy should let her finish her studies before getting married. The bobo dey fear hahahahah Posted: at 28-01-2011 05:10 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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ekpelove at 28-01-2011 05:11 AM (13 years ago) (f) I dont bleam the guy for having that thought. Cause some of these ladies nowaday after you sponsor them through out school, they will turn their back on you. But if their relationship is based on love and not just money , i think the guy should let her finish her studies before getting married. The bobo dey fear hahahahah Posted: at 28-01-2011 05:11 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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I min say the 2 fit happen.But girl, if u think say u too young, make u go school o na d same man go call u illiterate later. Mau, make u too de patient and learn to trust. Nobi everybody bad. Posted: at 28-01-2011 08:01 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Treasure2 at 28-01-2011 08:42 AM (13 years ago) (f) lollllllll Posted: at 28-01-2011 08:42 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Loi loi loi Posted: at 28-01-2011 08:45 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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moi moi Posted: at 28-01-2011 11:03 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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enemaries at 28-01-2011 02:20 PM (13 years ago) (f) He dosesn't lov her ha. If he's truly in love he shud respect her dream n help her 2 realise it. Posted: at 28-01-2011 02:20 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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binis at 28-01-2011 04:21 PM (13 years ago) (m) ur husband is a gust even if u have 10 kids for him or she gave 20 kids,education most be ur fist of all ur piority in life.so to hell with the woman who will ask me to wait.no way.forget me,i quit. Posted: at 28-01-2011 04:21 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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The answer is very simple, the guy is very selfish and doesn't deserve to have the girl, but y concern is why are u the one raising this issue instead of the guys themselves Posted: at 28-01-2011 05:08 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Oluyoyo at 29-01-2011 06:55 AM (13 years ago) (m) If truely she love dat man,4 me i don't see anything bad in complying wit what dat man is saying. She should sit down and think very well,bcos 4 her 2 get such a man dat will be ready 2 do such a thing 4 her again it may take sometime. Gudluck. Posted: at 29-01-2011 06:55 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Kennee at 29-01-2011 05:10 PM (13 years ago) (m) The answer is very simple, the guy is very selfish and doesn't deserve to have the girl, but y concern is why are u the one raising this issue instead of the guys themselves
Yu Didn't think dis Thru be4 yu replied, right?
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE Posted: at 29-01-2011 05:10 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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kebella at 29-01-2011 09:08 PM (13 years ago) (f) BUSY BODY
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! Posted: at 29-01-2011 09:08 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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superdiva at 29-01-2011 09:19 PM (13 years ago) (f) he's a very stupid man. That's all i can say. Posted: at 29-01-2011 09:19 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Kennee at 29-01-2011 09:32 PM (13 years ago) (m) Most of yu dat insult the Man don't even take yur time to Analyze the Situation be4 yu talk
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE Posted: at 29-01-2011 09:32 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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