forget your dreams and marry me

Date: 24-01-2011 12:51 pm (13 years ago) | Author: John Hope Onyedikachi
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- at 24-01-2011 12:51 PM (13 years ago)
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a friend of mine that is engaged is having problem with her fiance about school.
she got admission in Rivers State University of Education to Study Biology which is her dream course, and Rivpoly (partime) to study science lab tech. her parents are no financially stable to see her through school since her father lost his job and he is not getting any younger the only person sponsoring her school is her fiance who is saying that she has to do the patime for two years and stop at OND for the rest of her life becos he has a building project and he wants to go for his masters. but it has been her dream to be an educationist. he is dictating for her becos he is the person bring the money and he doesn't care if she is ok with it or not he gave her four reasons why she should g for the masters
1.that they may not get married at the end
2.she may betray him in school becos she may need money and he may not have to give to her
3. she may not finish becos he cant wait for her for four years
4. and if she finishes he may have gotten married to another person.
the lady is just 21yrs while the guy is 28yrs.
now friends  what should this lady do? should she forget her dreams of becoming an educationist and marry the man becos of money to go to school and the four reasons he gave to her or should pursue her dreams and loose the man and her marriage.

Posted: at 24-01-2011 12:51 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
- tmusowoya at 24-01-2011 01:17 PM (13 years ago)
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all up to them. education doesn't stop with marriage. I married my wife when she was reading for her diploma in science education. Now she's looking forward to her masters after obtaining her degree. Hope his fiance can be as supportive
Posted: at 24-01-2011 01:17 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- do4sure at 24-01-2011 01:26 PM (13 years ago)
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Half bread is better than none.A lot can change in two years,and you may still have the chance of achieving your long time dream
Posted: at 24-01-2011 01:26 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- fuoski at 24-01-2011 01:55 PM (13 years ago)
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dis is a delicate issue
Posted: at 24-01-2011 01:55 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- kebella at 24-01-2011 01:58 PM (13 years ago)
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HMMMMM I RESERVE MA CMMT IN COURT

Posted: at 24-01-2011 01:58 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 24-01-2011 03:20 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: tmusowoya on 24-01-2011 01:17 PM
all up to them. education doesn't stop with marriage. I married my wife when she was reading for her diploma in science education. Now she's looking forward to her masters after obtaining her degree. Hope his fiance can be as supportive
Quote from: do4sure on 24-01-2011 01:26 PM
Half bread is better than none.A lot can change in two years,and you may still have the chance of achieving your long time dream
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Posted: at 24-01-2011 03:20 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Adikpe at 24-01-2011 03:27 PM (13 years ago)
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Seconded
Posted: at 24-01-2011 03:27 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 24-01-2011 03:30 PM (13 years ago)
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of course u neva knw wat d future go bring u...but maybe she can wait untill he finish his masters??
She is younger then him so still hav a lot of time to go for it.....i dunno oo
Posted: at 24-01-2011 03:30 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dirtykid at 24-01-2011 03:33 PM (13 years ago)
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Probably she's in with a buy and sell trader that doesn't know what education means.

Posted: at 24-01-2011 03:33 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Kennee at 24-01-2011 06:04 PM (13 years ago)
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My Answer don already dey for Confession area

Posted: at 24-01-2011 06:04 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Kennee at 24-01-2011 06:05 PM (13 years ago)
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By the way, will She even have the Mouth 2 talk about a Dream sef if the Man doesn't help her to any level at all at all

Posted: at 24-01-2011 06:05 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- nice9ija at 24-01-2011 07:13 PM (13 years ago)
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in this 21st century??? bullshit
Posted: at 24-01-2011 07:13 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- japhethjeff at 24-01-2011 07:29 PM (13 years ago)
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1.that they may not get married at the end
2.she may betray him in school becos she may need money and he may not have to give to her
3. she may not finish becos he cant wait for her for four years
4. and if she finishes he may have gotten married to another person.


   GOOD REASONS
Posted: at 24-01-2011 07:29 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- mazi at 24-01-2011 07:37 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onyi2010 on 24-01-2011 12:51 PM
a friend of mine that is engaged is having problem with her fiance about school.
she got admission in Rivers State University of Education to Study Biology which is her dream course, and Rivpoly (partime) to study science lab tech. her parents are no financially stable to see her through school since her father lost his job and he is not getting any younger the only person sponsoring her school is her fiance who is saying that she has to do the patime for two years and stop at OND for the rest of her life becos he has a building project and he wants to go for his masters. but it has been her dream to be an educationist. he is dictating for her becos he is the person bring the money and he doesn't care if she is ok with it or not he gave her four reasons why she should g for the masters
1.that they may not get married at the end
2.she may betray him in school becos she may need money and he may not have to give to her
3. she may not finish becos he cant wait for her for four years
4. and if she finishes he may have gotten married to another person.
the lady is just 21yrs while the guy is 28yrs.
now friends  what should this lady do? should she forget her dreams of becoming an educationist and marry the man becos of money to go to school and the four reasons he gave to her or should pursue her dreams and loose the man and her marriage.

u can understand d guyz fear in 1&2, which can happen.
the girl can hv both if she is smart. who says d guy can't change his mind if she goes ahead to marry him now.
if she proves to be a good wife, i dnt think d guy will hv any reason nt to support her.
she might up loosing both if she is not smart, unless she has hidden agenda of running away after being trained.
Posted: at 24-01-2011 07:37 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyin at 24-01-2011 08:42 PM (13 years ago)
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Seriously,if its not her heartdesire to get married at such age,then she should not.cos she might end up regretting it.let her sit down and think very well about it. it sounds like she is vulnerable becos of the country's situation..but note,a good husband always supports his wife in everything mostly education.
Posted: at 24-01-2011 08:42 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- trolling at 24-01-2011 08:50 PM (13 years ago)
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What is the ultimate desire in a woman's life,is it education or marriage,education without an husband/family dont do her any good,that's why most of these colored women here (States) dont have husbands,they put their jobs before men,she has to put her husband first not education.
Posted: at 24-01-2011 08:50 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 24-01-2011 08:52 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on 24-01-2011 08:42 PM
Seriously,if its not her heartdesire to get married at such age,then she should not.cos she might end up regretting it.let her sit down and think very well about it. it sounds like she is vulnerable becos of the country's situation..but note,a good husband always supports his wife in everything mostly education.

if she is vulnerable, she has a choice b4 her nd very good offer for a somebody in a vulnerable state.
if she doesn't love d guy or want to marry d guy, very simple, let her move on nd try her luck elsewhr.
Posted: at 24-01-2011 08:52 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- tererachie at 24-01-2011 08:58 PM (13 years ago)
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well i think that love is about understanding and respecting each other@s wishes and imaginations...it is all between them 2 to ask themselves if they truely love 1 another..
to the girl,do you really love this man or you only want his money for your xool??if you love him then you should be in a good position of being able to tell him how you feel about his decisions and try to figure out some other ways you 2 can solve your problems without compromising any of your futures
Posted: at 24-01-2011 08:58 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- togdo at 24-01-2011 09:01 PM (13 years ago)
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PLS KINDLY TELL HER THAT THE MAN IS NOT THE RIGHTFUL PERSON GOD AS DESTINED FOR HER COS IF HE WAS HE LL NOT BE TELLING HER 2 LEAVE HER DREAM AND CERTIFY IS OWN SELFISH DESIRE AND AS 4 THE FACT THAT HER PARENT ARE FINANCIALLY OK IS NOT AN EXCUSE SHE CLD SPONSOR HERSELF 2 SCHOOL BY SELLING ONE OR TWO THING IN THE SCHOOL TO SEE HERSELF THROUGH MOST IT B THE GUY THAT LL SPONSOR HER EDUCATIOON
Posted: at 24-01-2011 09:01 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- onyin at 24-01-2011 09:07 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on 24-01-2011 08:52 PM
Quote from: onyin on 24-01-2011 08:42 PM
Seriously,if its not her heartdesire to get married at such age,then she should not.cos she might end up regretting it.let her sit down and think very well about it. it sounds like she is vulnerable becos of the country's situation..but note,a good husband always supports his wife in everything mostly education.

if she is vulnerable, she has a choice b4 her nd very good offer for a somebody in a vulnerable state.
if she doesn't love d guy or want to marry d guy, very simple, let her move on nd try her luck elsewhr.

with her wanting to be an educationist,i dont think that's a good offer.condition or circumstances should not be a good reason for marrying early.cos at 21yrs not every lady knows exactly when they want to settle down.and yea,if she dont feel like settling down now then let her move on.
Posted: at 24-01-2011 09:07 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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