friends and family,there is something i will like to know ? many of my friends said that without sex in friendship, friendship will not be sweet,and the love will not be strong,some said that the girl will be doing guy for you because you have not get there,and the other one said that ,any girl he friend and have sex with,he will hat the girl, so please sex is it really important in friendship or relationship???
2nd
i like to give and help if i have,i give male and female, but if i give a girl people says that i m stupid,why because i give without asking anything,the last i give a girl something,she was laughing at me,and she tells her friends that i m crazy, she is not my girl friend and i have never ask her for friendship,i don't even need her,she was complaining to a friend of my how she lost her phone, then after she complain,i went to market and buy phone for her,i see her and give her the phone,she thank me for that moment, then after that she start saying what she like, so please should i stop given girls things because if i give them,they think i need them that's why i give or should i demand and give ??
Posted: at 12-02-2011 03:02 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
Pointzero at 12-02-2011 03:13 AM (14 years ago) (m)
1st.......not all relationships goes with sex..........it depends on wat the parties in the relationship wants.............but there stil exist a relationshit witout....i ve not done it.........dats so many yrs back not now
2nd....in terms of giving...GOD LOVES A CHEERFUL GIVER (2 corinthians 9:7)......just like u said,u see wat u got in return.........an appreciation b4 u n a scandalisation behind u...........next time if u wanna give out............i suggest u go to the less previledges.........u hear me Oga
NEMO DAT QUOD NON HABET
Posted: at 12-02-2011 03:13 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
preciouslyme at 12-02-2011 05:29 AM (14 years ago) (f)
it was real hard for me to get it but after reading over and over I think i get what u r trying to say
NOT all relationships need sex to survive, in fact if a relationship is based solely on sex then that relationship wont last...............there is nothing wrong with giving, in fact as brother point said God loves a cheerful giver, but that doesn't mean u should give blindly, and to give is better than to receive, so never expect anything in return when u give, God see's ur good
Posted: at 12-02-2011 05:29 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
I will not respond to your first question bcos I am not too interested in that.
To your second question (which is about giving), it is never a wrong thing to give without demanding for anything in return, but in our society today, if you give it is a problem (especially to an opposite sex), and if you don't, they call you all such of names: greedy, aradyte, super glue, aka-gun and many others.
So, I will advice that when next you want to give, give to your close relations (of course they know, you will not demand anything from them in return) or preferably, to your male friends. Or just as Pointzero said earlier 'give to the less privilege'.
Posted: at 12-02-2011 11:40 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Treasure2 at 12-02-2011 12:11 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Adikpe on 12-02-2011 11:40 AM
I will not respond to your first question bcos I am not too interested in that.
To your second question (which is about giving), it is never a wrong thing to give without demanding for anything in return, but in our society today, if you give it is a problem (especially to an opposite sex), and if you don't, they call you all such of names: greedy, aradyte, super glue, aka-gun and many others.
So, I will advice that when next you want to give, give to your close relations (of course they know, you will not demand anything from them in return) or preferably, to your male friends. Or just as Pointzero said earlier 'give to the less privilege'.
Those words they pain man pass below, na wa.
Posted: at 12-02-2011 12:11 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
divineproject at 12-02-2011 12:16 PM (14 years ago) (f)
For relationships that havent taken very deep roots, sex is a destroyer..........
and for giving gifts, dont get discouraged by what a gal says when u give an unsolicited gift.........maybe you should rather give to those who seriously need them.....
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 12-02-2011 12:16 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 12-02-2011 12:23 PM (14 years ago) (f)
The first part is totally nonsense! As for the 2nd,you continue to do good as long as u are on this earth, but....be sure to do it for those who really need it.
Live and let live!
Posted: at 12-02-2011 12:23 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Treasure2 at 12-02-2011 12:25 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: bittersweet on 12-02-2011 12:23 PM
The first part is totally nonsense! As for the 2nd,you continue to do good as long as u are on this earth, but....be sure to do it for those who really need it.
Thanks
Posted: at 12-02-2011 12:25 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
1st.......not all relationships goes with sex..........it depends on wat the parties in the relationship wants.............but there stil exist a relationshit witout....i ve not done it.........dats so many yrs back not now
2nd....in terms of giving...GOD LOVES A CHEERFUL GIVER (2 corinthians 9:7)......just like u said,u see wat u got in return.........an appreciation b4 u n a scandalisation behind u...........next time if u wanna give out............i suggest u go to the less previledges.........u hear me Oga
oga lawyer.
D devil must b using ur destiny 2 weave his pubic hair if u think imma change all ma colors 4 u!
Posted: at 12-02-2011 12:29 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 12-02-2011 12:33 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Treasure2 on 12-02-2011 12:25 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 12-02-2011 12:23 PM
The first part is totally nonsense! As for the 2nd,you continue to do good as long as u are on this earth, but....be sure to do it for those who really need it.
Thanks
Live and let live!
Posted: at 12-02-2011 12:33 PM (14 years ago) | Hero