yes we did..........but if the lady had wedded before and the husband is living is not adviceable
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 22-02-2011 09:38 PM We had dis topic b4.........as long as d woman is out of d picture, yap yes we did..........but if the lady had wedded before and the husband is living is not adviceable
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A lot would depend on the circumstances that bring them together....basically, if other considerations are right, then there's no problem marrying him.......What if u married him without a child from another woman and after some years together as husband & wife, he impregnates another woman? Would u divorce him for the other woman to come take him over? Or for the men.....what about women who bring in bastards as the husband's children? Reply
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Quote from: pholake on 23-02-2011 10:32 AM A lot would depend on the circumstances that bring them together....basically, if other considerations are right, then there's no problem marrying him.......What if u married him without a child from another woman and after some years together as husband & wife, he impregnates another woman? Would u divorce him for the other woman to come take him over? Or for the men.....what about women who bring in bastards as the husband's children? Oti ooo! ![]() ![]() ![]()
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Quote from: Michro on 21-02-2011 03:31 PM Basically for the ladies. So am outta here. WELLSAID AND SUPPORTED
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Quote from: dukkieson on 23-02-2011 01:00 AM Quote from: abbeyy74 on 22-02-2011 11:20 PM Quote from: simele on 21-02-2011 05:19 PM but as a guy i cannot marry second hand material except her husband is natural late and she did not bear him children i can manage that hallooooooooooooo@simele,its good 2 have policy but @ the same time pray 2 GOd to always approve ur policy lol,i know of a lady when i was much younger who use 2 boast just like u are now doing that she can never marry a man that has children before since she is very beautiful and fresh without a child her self so why should she now,becos of dis she jilted her fiancee that just return from the state when she learnt that a lady had her child 4 him over there even dough they werent married and had no contact again.dis same lady @ the end of the day ended up with a celestian pastor who already has 2 wives and many children @ home.i visited her some years back when i went home -nigeria and she is really going true hell spiritually and not phisically,becos she just lost her second child with dis pastor of that time i visited her.How come a pastor has three wives? Is this gas or true?
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Quote from: gimac on 23-02-2011 05:35 AM Quote from: FlyMamacita on 22-02-2011 09:38 PM We had dis topic b4.........as long as d woman is out of d picture, yap yes we did..........but if the lady had wedded before and the husband is living is not adviceable
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FlyMamacita My queen Reply![]() ![]()
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Quote from: sexweezy on 23-02-2011 07:37 PM FlyMamacita My queen hey baby, how r u ?![]() ![]()
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This would raise the question; should a man marry a woman who has a child from a previous union? When you find someone you care about, it accept them completely.. children and all. Reply
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 23-02-2011 07:32 PM Quote from: gimac on 23-02-2011 05:35 AM Quote from: FlyMamacita on 22-02-2011 09:38 PM We had dis topic b4.........as long as d woman is out of d picture, yap yes we did..........but if the lady had wedded before and the husband is living is not adviceable nowadays people dont marry because of love but money,you see those men who marry divorce 99% are because of money either men or women,then the question is those children who name are they to bear,the present husband or the former,but if the woman is single with kids i mean not married before is a different story together
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I can't try that madness call love, rasing a child for another men and the child will grow up to fight me. Reply
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i don't think so Reply
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why Reply
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Quote from: gimac on 23-02-2011 08:34 PM Quote from: FlyMamacita on 23-02-2011 07:32 PM Quote from: gimac on 23-02-2011 05:35 AM Quote from: FlyMamacita on 22-02-2011 09:38 PM We had dis topic b4.........as long as d woman is out of d picture, yap yes we did..........but if the lady had wedded before and the husband is living is not adviceable nowadays people dont marry because of love but money,you see those men who marry divorce 99% are because of money either men or women,then the question is those children who name are they to bear,the present husband or the former,but if the woman is single with kids i mean not married before is a different story together ![]()
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 24-02-2011 07:15 PM Quote from: gimac on 23-02-2011 08:34 PM Quote from: FlyMamacita on 23-02-2011 07:32 PM Quote from: gimac on 23-02-2011 05:35 AM Quote from: FlyMamacita on 22-02-2011 09:38 PM We had dis topic b4.........as long as d woman is out of d picture, yap yes we did..........but if the lady had wedded before and the husband is living is not adviceable nowadays people dont marry because of love but money,you see those men who marry divorce 99% are because of money either men or women,then the question is those children who name are they to bear,the present husband or the former,but if the woman is single with kids i mean not married before is a different story together ![]()
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LADIES IT IS UR CALL, PLS AnSWER. Reply
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in other way round answer it. Reply
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Quote from: Emibaby on 24-02-2011 10:04 AM I can't try that madness call love, rasing a child for another men and the child will grow up to fight me. It's not about trial. Love will sweep you off your feet you won't know. If you raise the child like a mother, he will love you like a mother.
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Personally I would rather not marry a man with kids, I don't think I can cope with all the stress that goes with it. Besides I will feel a bit cheated bc I wud rather want my hubby n I to experience parenthood together (1st time parents n all dat goes with it) Reply![]()
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On which basis is the question asked? Following the scripture that is beyond any human understanding tellin us to follow his commandment. According to Jesus in his teaching that if any man is divorced and marry another woman who is equally divorced with the husband still alive has committed adultery. ReplyMarrying a man who has children from another woman before is no big deal but the biggest deal lies in whether the man was divorced or his wife was deceased. You already know the answer if either case should happen. They are two extremes that cannot be mingled together at all.
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