Mildredrules at 22-02-2011 11:45 AM (14 years ago)
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What advice will you give to my best friend chidiebere. She shared with me an issue troubling her and i don't know what to say to her, but i will appreciate your opinions. She is in love with a guy that is based in US and the guy loves her as well.
As a matter of fact he actually used 7 years to ask her out. and she finally gave him a chance after she discover he loves her trully. but eight months ago he proposed to her and she is having trouble giving him an answer. She is deeply in love with him and she greatly wants to be his wife but she is unsure of if he is the right person for her.
A part of her wants to accept his request but another part is not sure if he is the one. she have prayed about it but yet it disturbs her any time she thinks of his request, although he is totally sure she is the right person for him. Please any one that actually went through such problem before or knew of some one who did can gives his or her opinion on what she should do. Should she accept or not??
Posted: at 22-02-2011 11:45 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
hmm interesting,so it took him 7 good years to ask her out..huh! .anyway i see your friend trying to play hard to get..but truly she's deceiving herself by playing this kind of game. let her stop confusing herself and decide what she really want.if she love the guy in return let her accept his proposal b4 it's too late for her.but if there's something she discovered in the guy that irritate her,let her quit and stop toiling with the guy heart & time.
Posted: at 22-02-2011 11:59 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
No one makes choice of partner for u... if she tinks she luvs d dude nd d dude in return luvs her whats d agitation for? except dere is smting ur not tellin?
Posted: at 22-02-2011 12:16 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Mildredrules at 22-02-2011 01:01 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Pepesy on 22-02-2011 12:16 PM
No one makes choice of partner for u... if she tinks she luvs d dude nd d dude in return luvs her whats d agitation for? except dere is smting ur not tellin?
tanx alot, i will relate this comment to her. Since they both love each other i think they could settle with each other but i can't push her to make a choice above her heart.
Posted: at 22-02-2011 01:01 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie