![-]( "pholake") pholake at 24-02-2011 03:51 PM (14 years ago)  (f) I used to think i will put my spouse but i have changed my mind, my children will surely be my next of kin.
Why the change of mind? 4give my probe, I just want to learn........  God forbid anything happens and she is till young, its your assets (finance) she will contribute in her new home (if she decides to remarry) cos there is no way she will be with her partner and the man is in need that she will not want to assist or probably bringing the man into the house you sweat to build. God forbid
Do u mind what she does after your demise? Afterall, she's d one who'll take care of the kids.....just wondering | Posted: at 24-02-2011 03:51 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Jessematt") Jessematt at 24-02-2011 03:54 PM (14 years ago) (m) This is a very sensitive issue, some of us are just taking it for granted because we are myopic abt the future. Well i would rather have my children as my next of kin for the safety of thier future. Remember, we are in a world where peoples heart are desperately wicked. Hence, my children would be better. that's my blood. | Posted: at 24-02-2011 03:54 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "pholake") pholake at 24-02-2011 04:01 PM (14 years ago) (f) This is a very sensitive issue, some of us are just taking it for granted because we are myopic abt the future. Well i would rather have my children as my next of kin for the safety of thier future. Remember, we are in a world where peoples heart are desperately wicked. Hence, my children would be better. that's my blood.
Why not your wife? Remember in marriage 1+1=1........ | Posted: at 24-02-2011 04:01 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "jovison") jovison at 24-02-2011 04:59 PM (14 years ago) (m) My next of kin is know to me and my coy... cos u trust no one...... A husband planed to kill his wife cos she told him he is her next of kin, so things like this shld be secret... nt smthing u say opening most expecialy places like this... i don waka >>>>>
You re very correct my sister. | Posted: at 24-02-2011 04:59 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "lanudja") lanudja at 24-02-2011 05:39 PM (14 years ago) (f) My next of kin is know to me and my coy... cos u trust no one...... A husband planed to kill his wife cos she told him he is her next of kin, so things like this shld be secret... nt smthing u say opening most expecialy places like this... i don waka >>>>>
Hmmmmm.....u have a point there dearie...but here, we ain't disclosing anything! I may make u my next-of-kin but may not let u know what & what u should expect! I may be secretive about some sensitive information. Moreso, don't u think it's always nice for your next-of-kin to know little details? I've seen a situation where somebody's entitlements were grounded because no one came forth to claim it! Perhaps no one knew he had such entitlements! Dear, its stil very sensitive in d sense that when you say my wife/husband is my next of kin is a straight answer....what is important is to make d family know things abt himself like d coy whr he work, the bank(s) he uses and other businesses u might be involve wit so that in case anything happens the family can go there and tell them they are frm d late mr John family, frm there they will source for his datas and find out who his next of kin is... if nt is risky to let them knw when stil alive cos it can even bring problem among children...most expectingly d polygamous home. | Posted: at 24-02-2011 05:39 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 24-02-2011 05:41 PM (14 years ago) (f)  its gud to be a digger
my name is kebella  ........yu already no that  ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 24-02-2011 05:41 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 24-02-2011 05:42 PM (14 years ago) (f) 
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 24-02-2011 05:42 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "pholake") pholake at 24-02-2011 05:44 PM (14 years ago) (f) My next of kin is know to me and my coy... cos u trust no one...... A husband planed to kill his wife cos she told him he is her next of kin, so things like this shld be secret... nt smthing u say opening most expecialy places like this... i don waka >>>>>
Hmmmmm.....u have a point there dearie...but here, we ain't disclosing anything! I may make u my next-of-kin but may not let u know what & what u should expect! I may be secretive about some sensitive information. Moreso, don't u think it's always nice for your next-of-kin to know little details? I've seen a situation where somebody's entitlements were grounded because no one came forth to claim it! Perhaps no one knew he had such entitlements! Dear, its stil very sensitive in d sense that when you say my wife/husband is my next of kin is a straight answer....what is important is to make d family know things abt himself like d coy whr he work, the bank(s) he uses and other businesses u might be involve wit so that in case anything happens the family can go there and tell them they are frm d late mr John family, frm there they will source for his datas and find out who his next of kin is... if nt is risky to let them knw when stil alive cos it can even bring problem among children...most expectingly d polygamous home. ou do have a good point...polygamy is a different kettle of fish...... | Posted: at 24-02-2011 05:44 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "pholake") pholake at 24-02-2011 05:45 PM (14 years ago) (f) ou do have a good point...polygamy is a different kettle of fish...... You | Posted: at 24-02-2011 05:45 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "billy25") billy25 at 24-02-2011 05:51 PM (14 years ago) (m) My next of kin is know to me and my coy... cos u trust no one...... A husband planed to kill his wife cos she told him he is her next of kin, so things like this shld be secret... nt smthing u say opening most expecialy places like this... i don waka >>>>>
Hmmmmm.....u have a point there dearie...but here, we ain't disclosing anything! I may make u my next-of-kin but may not let u know what & what u should expect! I may be secretive about some sensitive information. Moreso, don't u think it's always nice for your next-of-kin to know little details? I've seen a situation where somebody's entitlements were grounded because no one came forth to claim it! Perhaps no one knew he had such entitlements! Dear, its stil very sensitive in d sense that when you say my wife/husband is my next of kin is a straight answer....what is important is to make d family know things abt himself like d coy whr he work, the bank(s) he uses and other businesses u might be involve wit so that in case anything happens the family can go there and tell them they are frm d late mr John family, frm there they will source for his datas and find out who his next of kin is... if nt is risky to let them knw when stil alive cos it can even bring problem among children...most expectingly d polygamous home. I think you have or made a good point. | Posted: at 24-02-2011 05:51 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "fashionabu") fashionabu at 24-02-2011 06:44 PM (14 years ago) (m) MY CHILDREN | Posted: at 24-02-2011 06:44 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 24-02-2011 06:46 PM (14 years ago) (f) wicked man
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 24-02-2011 06:46 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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@poster urs?
Hmmmm........with no children yet, my husband. With children, I'll prefer my children! Please U can convince me otherwise.....  nice choice u gat thr sist, but wat if ur kidz r still very young?since u said with children u wud prefer ur children By HIS grace, I'll not die while my children are still too small to handle issues themselves.......I'll always prefer them....... hmm ok...AMEN | Posted: at 24-02-2011 06:51 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "interpo77") interpo77 at 24-02-2011 07:47 PM (14 years ago) (m) ma kids should be authomaticaly ma next of kin
why not ur wife? do let's know, pls..... hmmmm, by the time i will tell her that she ll be ma ne-----------, just hearing that she don de reck pple around,though but in reality i have discided to make ma kids the kin, they re our kids and the best we can do for them is protecting their future,who knows tomorrow | Posted: at 24-02-2011 07:47 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "eoadex2003") eoadex2003 at 24-02-2011 09:38 PM (14 years ago) (m) My spouse of course | Posted: at 24-02-2011 09:38 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "billy25") billy25 at 25-02-2011 07:47 AM (14 years ago) (m) When that time comes, whoever will knw. | Posted: at 25-02-2011 07:47 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "julee2") julee2 at 25-02-2011 07:51 AM (14 years ago) (f) Its ma little secret. Unti then... | Posted: at 25-02-2011 07:51 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "julee2") julee2 at 25-02-2011 07:54 AM (14 years ago) (f) My next of kin is know to me and my coy... cos u trust no one...... A husband planed to kill his wife cos she told him he is her next of kin, so things like this shld be secret... nt smthing u say opening most expecialy places like this... i don waka >>>>>
Hmmmmm.....u have a point there dearie...but here, we ain't disclosing anything! I may make u my next-of-kin but may not let u know what & what u should expect! I may be secretive about some sensitive information. Moreso, don't u think it's always nice for your next-of-kin to know little details? I've seen a situation where somebody's entitlements were grounded because no one came forth to claim it! Perhaps no one knew he had such entitlements! Dear, its stil very sensitive in d sense that when you say my wife/husband is my next of kin is a straight answer....what is important is to make d family know things abt himself like d coy whr he work, the bank(s) he uses and other businesses u might be involve wit so that in case anything happens the family can go there and tell them they are frm d late mr John family, frm there they will source for his datas and find out who his next of kin is... if nt is risky to let them knw when stil alive cos it can even bring problem among children...most expectingly d polygamous home. U re right  | Posted: at 25-02-2011 07:54 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "tmusowoya") tmusowoya at 25-02-2011 10:08 AM (14 years ago) (m) Blessed are they whose next of kins are their spouses, even in the midst of children and siblings, because it is they that have really found their soulmates ... like ME!
Congrats man! All the best....... Many thanx my dear friend. May u find your soulmate too! | Posted: at 25-02-2011 10:08 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "ebinyi") ebinyi at 25-02-2011 10:24 AM (14 years ago) (m) If u want to die young chose ur wife! | Posted: at 25-02-2011 10:24 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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