ngeri1 at 10-03-2011 08:53 AM (14 years ago) (f) Or um...simply because they are career women who don't fit that sad mold of ridiculous housewife with no other aspirations or desires to climb higher on the social ladder.
City people’s fashion editor, Bola Akinboade did a story on the reasons why it is becoming increasingly difficult for celebrity women to find husbands. Gistmaster.com did a ‘disection’ on her points. Happy reading
MOST ELIGIBLE MEN ARE NOT READY TO SETTLE DOWN Do you know that alot of the eligible guys out there are still struggling to make ends meet? Bola Akinboade wrote that our society is made in such a way that it is easier for women to strike a business deal than men. One of the reasons why women hold key positions in companies,with fat salaries as take home. Most women who are financially bouyant would think less of marriage. The report says that the fact that the cost of living is increasing everyday will make a man take a second thought before considering marriage.
HEART BREAKS
Another reason why most celebrity women dont find husband is the strong coat attitude they put up after going through several heart breaks. You know some people were sure of marriage with their partners until they receive the shocking note “I am no more interested” from the man. After one or two experinces it became too difficult to trust any man even when the serious one eventually shows up.
TOO BUSY PURSUING CAREER
Some women are just too busy pursuing their career that they forget that its time to settle down in marriage.Some women are so concerned about the career that they give low or even zero tolerance for building relationships.
SUCCESSFUL WOMEN CAN BE A TURN OFF
Some men feel intimidated at the rising profile of their female partner.For some guys out there, they don’t see a woman that is richer than them as someone who would be submissive to them in marriage.At the end, most guys usually ‘burst out’ of such relationship.
TOO PICKY
It would be difficult for a celebrity woman to find a husband to call her own if she is the type that have set too high standard for herself. Some women are never satisfied with tany man that comes their way. They like to choose and drop until they find out that age is no longer on their side and there was nothing to choose again. Today, they want a man that look like Will Smith, tommorow its D’banj and next tommorow maybe someone that has the position and charisma of Obama.
TOO INDEPENDENT AND UNCONTROLLABLE
Getting a suitable husband would be difficult for a man who is too independent and uncontrollable.Having made their own money,own shares in multinational companies with line of family fortune, some women see little or nothing to gain in marriage. They also believe that they dont need a man to control them after all they have all they could even wanted material wise.
FINDING A DECENT MAN
Finding a man who is actually truthful and romantic, according to Bola Akinboade, is a big challenge to most Nigerian women.In her report in City People magazine, the fashion editor said ladies are easily pissed off by some attitudes exhibited by guys such smoking and excessive drinking.Instead of also staying by their true love, some guys love to sleep around with rich women so that they came money off them.
MEN’S DESIRE FOR YOUNGER WOMEN
Most guys prefer younger women especially those still in their 20s. Those who are in their 30s hadly get much suitors because men believe they must have played away their time. ” This make most women in their 3os stuck with flings or dating younger men with zero prospect for marriage.
DATING MARRIED MEN
Most ladies who start off their lives dating married men usually get stucked later in life because they would have wasted their time with men who obviously have no marriage plan for them. They get easily carried away by the posh apartment rented to them by the sugar daddy, the car he bought and the travel to choice places around the world they make together. Before they realise it, they would have wasted much of their time. The search for their own man starts at the eleventh hour.
LOOKING FOR MR RIGHT
The search for the perfect man usually keep some ladies waiting for a long time before they settle down. They don’t believe in settling for Mr. Second Best.They already have a clear imagination of the kind of man that they wanted, so the look must be exactly as they imagined it to be!
So if you think being a man is not easy, try being a woman!
Posted: at 10-03-2011 08:53 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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onyimau20 at 10-03-2011 09:11 AM (14 years ago) (f) Na dem sabi, marriage is a matter of choice... Posted: at 10-03-2011 09:11 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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blessedme at 10-03-2011 09:14 AM (14 years ago) (f) very true Posted: at 10-03-2011 09:14 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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emperorpj at 10-03-2011 09:26 AM (14 years ago) (m) some of the important reason is that.they are not submisive,bcos of what they have i mean property and their qualification.they have forgotten.God almigthy created them to live under instruction of men.Secondly.lack of respect.etc.their are still order reason but those two are the most important reason. Posted: at 10-03-2011 09:26 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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dadido at 10-03-2011 09:56 AM (14 years ago) (m) marriag is sweet and interesting at the right time with the right person. Posted: at 10-03-2011 09:56 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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dadido at 10-03-2011 09:57 AM (14 years ago) (m) marriag is sweet and interesting at the right time with the right person. Posted: at 10-03-2011 09:57 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Na dem sabi, as 4 me am more dan jst an option.
H8rs u can b at ma bac n kiss ma ass. Posted: at 10-03-2011 09:59 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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otagermo at 10-03-2011 10:00 AM (14 years ago) (m) pls and pls again..let us try to keep our mouth shot for other people's affairs. let us face our personal problem..they are human like us. Posted: at 10-03-2011 10:00 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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dadido at 10-03-2011 10:02 AM (14 years ago) (m) for the women 30 years no husband begin to check urself Posted: at 10-03-2011 10:02 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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dadido at 10-03-2011 10:21 AM (14 years ago) (m) for the women 30 years no husband begin to check urself Posted: at 10-03-2011 10:21 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Owhologbo at 10-03-2011 10:34 AM (14 years ago) (m) marriage no b by force It is a pity she didn't know what marriage is all about.... looking at the smiling faces of those celebrities, they are weeping deeply in their closet because they are not married, no man to call theirs. It will tell more on them when there are old.... fun fun and freedom they claim to enjoy but never consider the pain behind the fame especially here in Africa. Posted: at 10-03-2011 10:34 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Lekan22 at 10-03-2011 10:38 AM (14 years ago) (m) Yeah. Posted: at 10-03-2011 10:38 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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JOSYBABY at 10-03-2011 10:48 AM (14 years ago) (f) OH God help our women even me in future. Posted: at 10-03-2011 10:48 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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the ladies need to come out clean with their attitude and some of the men or should i say most men should try to slow down their male prowess over these ladies.it intimidates them and make them fight back by been too uptight.both gender have roles to play in order for relationship/marriage to be easy.who is willing to put down his/her ego,prowess,pride,arrogance,qualification,intelligence,career and selective absorbtion aside to pave way for something great??.THIS IS STILL THE ONE MILLION DOLLAR QUESTION. Posted: at 10-03-2011 10:50 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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truenaija2 at 10-03-2011 11:02 AM (14 years ago) (f) @williams i dey like your comment Posted: at 10-03-2011 11:02 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Here in holland we do living together not marriage, so that if egbe gas it will be easy.
Whose business is it anyway if anybody is married or not. Inside this Naijapals nation how many of u don marry. Next story I beg!!! don't mind them my brother Posted: at 10-03-2011 11:24 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Here in holland we do living together not marriage, so that if egbe gas it will be easy.
u no serious at all,u beta go home and marry before they dry yu there.oso
Posted: at 10-03-2011 11:25 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Too much mistake and grammatical errors in this article. Is it difficult to read though your article before hitting the 'send' button?
lol  nametalkam some baby say you get errors for your grammar na true? Posted: at 10-03-2011 11:28 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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na wazooooo, as all these babes fine reach dey no get husband. upon all their money. its a pityyyyyyyyyyyyyy
na by force to marrie? Posted: at 10-03-2011 11:29 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Weather dem marry or dem no marry me i am waiting for my money to come i want to make love with most of this girls my friend said he has made love with urche jombo, if you go to the best hotels in lagos they will give you their numbers but per night is 250k
hmmmmm abeg take your lie easy oooooooooooo Posted: at 10-03-2011 11:31 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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